Older Woman, younger man?

turnip · 23-05-2005, 09:16 AM

Hey boys & girls,

Seems to me that nowadays many boys like older women & women have no qualms dating younger boys. What do you think?

Cheers!
Turnip

23-05-2005, 09:19 AM

boys needs motherly love, n women needs young, exciting testosterone love..

Raptor · 23-05-2005, 09:44 AM

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Originally posted by fat_nerd@May 23 2005, 09:19 AM
boys needs motherly love, n women needs young, exciting testosterone love..

Well said, truly and indeed very well said.

Having a younger partner is like breathing a fresh breath of air.

Jess1717 · 23-05-2005, 10:33 AM

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Originally posted by Raptor@May 23 2005, 09:44 AM
Well said, truly and indeed very well said.

Having a younger partner is like breathing a fresh breath of air.

Or should say, younger man do not need to provide as much attention for woman older than themselves. Matured woman usually have stable career and can easily support themselves, sometimes better off than their bf.....

Hmmm..... much dependable on the maturity level too.

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 10:45 AM

My gf 7 years older than me.

oinkquack · 23-05-2005, 11:00 AM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 10:45 AM
My gf 7 years older than me.

wah... if like that it's like me dating my students... haha..

oinkquack · 23-05-2005, 11:02 AM

well i used to date a younger guy....

prob age doesn't really matter cos it's just numbers. but what matters is the maturity. and prob what the guy is doing. when i started working, the guy was still in NS.... different already. so cannot lah... if both working still ok.... or when we were both studying, it was fine....

Elite · 23-05-2005, 12:26 PM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 10:45 AM
My gf 7 years older than me.

Wow, age doesn't really matter right?

my gf is 9+ older than me!!

older woman are much more mature and understanding.

Speedpass · 23-05-2005, 12:38 PM

age doesnt matter to me if the opposite is ppl like christy chung or rosamund kwan , maggie cheung .

But if they r like Hsu chun mei , i think i

Murphy · 23-05-2005, 01:15 PM

age does not really matter if both the person really love each other...y muz age be a the opposing factor in a relationship!!

Lass · 23-05-2005, 01:22 PM

age shouldn't matter.....so long as parties concern r comfortable w each other

NightPhantom · 23-05-2005, 03:11 PM

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Originally posted by Murphy@May 23 2005, 01:15 PM
age does not really matter if both the person really love each other...y muz age be a the opposing factor in a relationship!!

cant agree mroe..

Raptor · 23-05-2005, 03:16 PM

Ahhh.... what we need are more matured women.

Women who are independent.. who know what they want... when they want it.. how much they want... and how to get it.

As for me... I am old enough to know what it is all about and yet young and dumb enough to try it again.

Life is getting shorter. Got to play harder.

rAjOaNa · 23-05-2005, 03:21 PM

From my exprience normally not easy to get older women interested, from wat i see they go for older guys. Maybe those i met were jus materialistic

NightPhantom · 23-05-2005, 03:24 PM

how old are u raj? i think depends on the age differences also la... i'm 21.. maybe they think i'm too childish and young...

rAjOaNa · 23-05-2005, 03:36 PM

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Originally posted by NightPhantom@May 23 2005, 03:24 PM
how old are u raj? i think depends on the age differences also la... i'm 21.. maybe they think i'm too childish and young...

well i was 19 or 20 la n this girl was abt 11mths n 5 days older la. kept on reminding me i m younger !@#$!!!

had a crush on a few more older ones la. most 2yrs+ old only la.

i m turning 23 this yr la.

i find easier to communicate with older ladies..younger ones...most of them to me are in lala land.

myxilplix · 23-05-2005, 08:19 PM

Older? Younger? If any girl is interested in me that's enough to make me happy, but unfortunately none of them are.

So lonely.

turnip · 23-05-2005, 08:48 PM

Wow! Didn't know so many boys like older women ya.

I thought some boys are worried that they might be labelled as mummy's boys or being 'accused' of craving motherly's love. But hey, december-may-relationships do blossom here! Love conquers all!

Cheers to all the happy couples who dare to pursue their dreams without a care about what others think of them.

Cheers!
Turnip

turnip · 23-05-2005, 08:49 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 12:26 PM
Wow, age doesn't really matter right?

my gf is 9+ older than me!!

older woman are much more mature and understanding.

Wah! You wu seh, I salute you!

Cheers!
Turnip

Murphy · 23-05-2005, 09:03 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 12:26 PM
Wow, age doesn't really matter right?

my gf is 9+ older than me!!

older woman are much more mature and understanding.

so hw long u both been togther nw..n u r hw old...nw still together??

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:20 PM

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Originally posted by oinkquack@May 23 2005, 11:00 AM
wah... if like that it's like me dating my students... haha..

I've date my teacher before... hehehee

Murphy · 23-05-2005, 09:23 PM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 09:20 PM
I've date my teacher before... hehehee

u muz be beri gd....

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:28 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 12:26 PM
Wow, age doesn't really matter right?

my gf is 9+ older than me!!

older woman are much more mature and understanding.

Yeah... more matured n understanding.

Have dated younger gals b4... woah... buay tahan... thinking n talk like a kid. Donno wats gonna be their future...

U guys know... My parents n relatives [majority] find tat its ok... as long as we both happy. They even tell me not to care bout the age diff. [which i have in mind now]

But i've got one aunty whom was close to me. She's 10 years older than her husband. She told me to think twice... she's the best example. Well... im at loss for words at tat time, but i know i will still carry on. So, when im at loss for words, she told me... "donno wat to say rite?" i replied "yah" She said... "last time some frens also tell me like wat i've told u, but i think we happy can liao... few years down the road then u will know..."

Yah we can say we don mind this n that now... but who knows wats gonna be our thinking after a few years down the road rite...

[LOVE is one thing which one cant figure it out]

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:30 PM

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Originally posted by Murphy@May 23 2005, 09:23 PM
u muz be beri gd....

i mus be very good meaning...?

I handsome?
I good boy?
I good student?
I good lover? n etc etc....

which one u mean by i very gd ar? hehehee...

Elite · 23-05-2005, 09:38 PM

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Originally posted by Murphy@May 23 2005, 09:03 PM
so hw long u both been togther nw..n u r hw old...nw still together??

Yeah still together!! This year I am 25.

Cheers

Lass · 23-05-2005, 09:38 PM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 09:30 PM
i mus be very good meaning...?

I handsome?
I good boy?
I good student?
I good lover? n etc etc....

which one u mean by i very gd ar? hehehee...

haha pengz, u ah....

must be teacher's pet then

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:41 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 09:38 PM
Yeah still together!! This year I am 25.

Cheers

u 25? she already 34. Hey mann... jus an advise... better get married soon. Or u will be wasting her time... unless u both don intent to have children.

This problem has been roaming in my mind again n again... cos my gf near 30 liao. So i gotta act fast.

Murphy · 23-05-2005, 09:41 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 09:38 PM
Yeah still together!! This year I am 25.

Cheers

hw long u both been together...dun mind hor..i askin.,.

Elite · 23-05-2005, 09:42 PM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 09:28 PM
Yeah... more matured n understanding.

Have dated younger gals b4... woah... buay tahan... thinking n talk like a kid. Donno wats gonna be their future...

U guys know... My parents n relatives [majority] find tat its ok... as long as we both happy. They even tell me not to care bout the age diff. [which i have in mind now]

But i've got one aunty whom was close to me. She's 10 years older than her husband. She told me to think twice... she's the best example. Well... im at loss for words at tat time, but i know i will still carry on. So, when im at loss for words, she told me... "donno wat to say rite?" i replied "yah" She said... "last time some frens also tell me like wat i've told u, but i think we happy can liao... few years down the road then u will know..."

Yah we can say we don mind this n that now... but who knows wats gonna be our thinking after a few years down the road rite...

[LOVE is one thing which one cant figure it out]

Ya same here, most of young gals I dated before doesn't match their age and face!!! very childish in some way.

As long you want to be with the person can liao, dun mind wat other say!! I do get some advice from friends too, but it is ok lah haha!!

Cheers

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by Lass@May 23 2005, 09:38 PM
haha pengz, u ah.... must be teacher's pet then

No no... i aint no teacher's pet.

Truly teacher's wannabe will maybe hate me. [of cos not very hate la] Cos last time bad boy n yet not very bad. So they know theres still hope in me.

Me now good boy... no one like liao. hehehee

Elite · 23-05-2005, 09:46 PM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 09:41 PM
u 25? she already 34. Hey mann... jus an advise... better get married soon. Or u will be wasting her time... unless u both don intent to have children.

This problem has been roaming in my mind again n again... cos my gf near 30 liao. So i gotta act fast.

yes 25, Ya i been thinking about this too, But now at this age, I am still upgrading in terms of Skills and $$$. And I dun "eat Porridge" so even if she wanted too, I will not let her spent a single cent on that!!!

Cheers

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:48 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 09:42 PM
Ya same here, most of young gals I dated before doesn't match their age and face!!! very childish in some way.

As long you want to be with the person can liao, dun mind wat other say!! I do get some advice from friends too, but it is ok lah haha!!

Cheers

so how long u guys been together liao?

better get married soon le wor... hehehee

Elite · 23-05-2005, 09:49 PM

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Originally posted by Murphy@May 23 2005, 09:41 PM
hw long u both been together...dun mind hor..i askin.,.

oh it is ok ofcos, been together for almost a year, Ya now still together and very Lovely, but dun think will last very long also, cos of too big age gap.

Cheers

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:54 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 09:46 PM
yes 25, Ya i been thinking about this too, But now at this age, I am still upgrading in terms of Skills and $$$. And I dun "eat Porridge" so even if she wanted too, I will not let her spent a single cent on that!!!

Cheers

Actually... i didnt know wat gals/ladies thinking. [which i guess many guys have been trying to figure it out too for years n they yet to have an conclusion]

This is wat i think...
If tat gal really wanna be with u... they don mind u can support them, but at least 3 meals full n maybe shopping twice every month. of cos not big shopping la. [don applied to all gals, cos theres gals V materialistic one]

They jus wanna be with u... n have a "reputation" tats all. [same thing here... don applied to all gals]

So if u've figure out your gf thinking... no need to wait until u got the financial to support her tat well then get married.

Can any female forumers here enlighten us?

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 09:56 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 09:49 PM
oh it is ok ofcos, been together for almost a year, Ya now still together and very Lovely, but dun think will last very long also, cos of too big age gap.

Cheers

HUH?

U go one big round... come back "cos of too big age gap"?

woah... wat happen sia...?

Elite · 23-05-2005, 10:00 PM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 09:56 PM
HUH?

U go one big round... come back "cos of too big age gap"?

woah... wat happen sia...?

huh!! nothing happen lah dude haha!!! Now still very lovely together. Cos I and her such big age gap, I also thinking will last long or not.

What you said in your previous reply was very True.

Cheers

Murphy · 23-05-2005, 10:13 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 10:00 PM
huh!! nothing happen lah dude haha!!! Now still very lovely together. Cos I and her such big age gap, I also thinking will last long or not.

What you said in your previous reply was very True.

Cheers

no worry...my fren.....dun be dishearten by wat ppl say...i here by wishes both u can be together as long as possible..cherish her....remember....alwasy gif her assurance

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 10:13 PM

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Originally posted by Elite@May 23 2005, 10:00 PM
huh!! nothing happen lah dude haha!!! Now still very lovely together. Cos I and her such big age gap, I also thinking will last long or not.

What you said in your previous reply was very True.

Cheers

hahah yah lo... tats y sometimes cant help thinking of it.

Then sometimes out of the blues... mum will talk bout it n says " serious with your gf ar? think twice hor, don waste ppl time hor"

Hahaa...

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 10:15 PM

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Originally posted by Murphy@May 23 2005, 10:13 PM
no worry...my fren.....dun be dishearten by wat ppl say...i here by wishes both u can be together as long as possible..cherish her....remember....alwasy gif her assurance

yeah UPZ!!!!

Murphy · 23-05-2005, 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 10:15 PM
yeah UPZ!!!!

i'm in his shoe...so i can feel hw is it...n i understand it

Elite · 23-05-2005, 10:36 PM

Murphy

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no worry...my fren.....dun be dishearten by wat ppl say...i here by wishes both u can be together as long as possible..cherish her....remember....alwasy gif her assurance

Haha Thanks dude!! Cheers

560FiveSixty

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hahah yah lo... tats y sometimes cant help thinking of it.

Then sometimes out of the blues... mum will talk bout it n says " serious with your gf ar? think twice hor, don waste ppl time hor"

haha same here, best of luck to you and your Gf!! Cheers

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 10:47 PM

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Originally posted by Murphy@May 23 2005, 10:26 PM
i'm in his shoe...so i can feel hw is it...n i understand it

Im "somewhere" in his shoes also. hahahaa...

all

xiaoya- · 23-05-2005, 10:57 PM

i find that theres nothing wrong with it.. love is blind, remember?

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 11:11 PM

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Originally posted by xiaoya-@May 23 2005, 10:57 PM
i find that theres nothing wrong with it.. love is blind, remember?

yeah its blind. But years down the road... then ppl tend to regain his sight.

MiSS pIgLeT · 23-05-2005, 11:34 PM

Hmm....as for me i cant accept a younger guy then me, coz i think guys tends to be 5 yrs younger then gers thinking......anyway is all depend each person

rAjOaNa · 23-05-2005, 11:43 PM

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Originally posted by MiSS pIgLeT@May 23 2005, 11:34 PM
Hmm....as for me i cant accept a younger guy then me, coz i think guys tends to be 5 yrs younger then gers thinking......anyway is all depend each person

this is wat all girls thinking. Some are themselves more childish. I have been a victim of this mentality. Thank god at least u said depends on each individual.

MiSS pIgLeT · 23-05-2005, 11:45 PM

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Originally posted by rAjOaNa@May 23 2005, 11:43 PM
this is wat all girls thinking. Some are themselves more childish. I have been a victim of this mentality. Thank god at least u said depends on each individual.

Ya i agree some still childish

560FiveSixty · 23-05-2005, 11:55 PM

Yeah some... not all.

Since u said some... then why u say u cant accept a guy younger than u? Since its some... maybe tat particular guy who is younger than u... is the one out of the some? Have u think of it?

MiSS pIgLeT · 24-05-2005, 01:19 AM

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Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 23 2005, 11:55 PM
Yeah some... not all.

Since u said some... then why u say u cant accept a guy younger than u? Since its some... maybe tat particular guy who is younger than u... is the one out of the some? Have u think of it?

eerrmm...coz i think like im dating wif a di di

............i have ask myself b4 but still cant accept

can you accept a older ger?

rAjOaNa · 24-05-2005, 04:33 AM

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Originally posted by MiSS pIgLeT@May 24 2005, 01:19 AM
can you accept a older ger?

can...but u r younger