[Discussion] What's bugging you now?

[xXxRatedxXx]

Being recklessly expressive does not portray a positive image of oneself. No doubt, we do have people who are extraordinary stubborn. But who had never been stubborn before?

 

I believe that if one needs the exercise of personal attacks or insults to bring forth the message then it is just like someone in the army who needs a rank to reap respect. Without the rank he is nothing.

 

No one has opinions that is indisputable. By allowing reasonable contest, we spread our viewpoints wider across the horizon and stand to benefit everyone. For one man sharpens another.

 

There are people who dispute my claims in and out of the forum, but ultimately we come to the point that we agree to disagree. And everything shall stop at that.

 

Perhaps I can illustrate with a friendly example based on fiction.

2 hungry men Alex and Ervin came to this place where there are 2 eateries in sight. One comes in the shape of a shed next to the drain selling aromatic curry chicken and some localised food. One in the form of a poshy restaurant in a garden selling excellent tasting Italian food.

 

Alex looked at the shed near the drain said, "That place irks me. Look at the infestation of mosquitoes and the shed looks like the dreaded canteen at Nee Soon range, haven't we had enough of army canteen food?"

 

Ervin on the other hand looks at the Italian Restaurant and remarked, "That place look posh and Italian. It must be a manifestation for the rich and clueless culinary critic. I still prefer the good old colonial style training shed."

 

Upon hearing that, Alex thought that Ervin is fatuous but he refrained from spilling his animadversion by telling Ervin, "It's OK Ervin, today's my treat, let me show you how nice Italian food can taste."

 

Ervin being thrifty in nature thought that Alex was trying to waste his money again disputed without the stigma of steore-typing his friend, "Are you sure you are going to squander your money on that suspicious looking restaurant? No way am I going to let you waste that money."

 

With the 2 unable to come to a unanimous agreement, the 2 men parted to seek their preferred form of dining peacefully.

 

These 2 restaurants exist today at Wessex Estate near Portsdown. I have personally tried both of them. Separated by a road they contradict each other in terms of architectural and culinary design. And of course, pricing.

 

Pietrasanta; the Italian restaurant sells excellent imported Italian styled cooking with an alternative Mediterranean fashioned cuisine that emphasises on cheese, pasta and also potently fabricated imported chocolate. The dishes served captured my preferrence for western cuisines. I even brought my sister and mother there for reunion dinner this year only to be filled with nothing lesser than absolute satisfaction for all of us. Strongly recommended for family and couple gatherings.

 

Colbar; the colonian styled coffeeshop started off as British colonia gathering location serves localised food Curry chicken with rice, Chicken cutlet, chicken chop and so on. Surprisingly, their chicken curry is very opiumly addictive... especially when mixed with rice. Definately a hot spot for brethren congregations. When you are there in person, you will be surprised that mosquitoe infestation is not imminent.

 

Both to me are places that serves excellent food in their way. You need a different moods to appreciate their excellence in a discretionary style. And of course, each and every individual can appreciate it in their own style; Peacefully.

 

Well written article bro... my sentiments exactly, you put my thoughts into words... or im too lazy to do something like that... =p

[GuiNNeSS]

Your story reminds me of my godsister. She was doing the exact same thing about me spending money eating well or shopping for my room household stuffs.

 

She has her heart in the good. But her good wasnt exactly for my good.

 

In her mind she is most likely thinking: Dont let Vk jie squander her money.

 

n my mind is: I really want to eat this. And she has a bad stomach, so safer to eat at a cleaner establishment for her.

[GuiNNeSS]

Well written article bro... my sentiments exactly, you put my thoughts into words... or im too lazy to do something like that... =p

 

I am sure someone is going to label you a traitor soon.

 

BTW, where is that boy that wanted to entertain himself with a stupid argument? Havnt wake up yet?

[garfieldrox]

Wow~ Damn long paragraph.

 

Both party haf their wrongs ba... So jus let pass ok?

 

Peace!!!

 

Smile and Enjoy the rest of the day.

 

Bugging mi right now: My bike!!!

[hors3m3n]

I am sure someone is going to label you a traitor soon.

 

BTW, where is that boy that wanted to entertain himself with a stupid argument? Havnt wake up yet?

 

 

u more fierce than my mom..

 

there's this thing that has been bugging me since yesterday nite.. n im left clueless.. y yesterday never show american idol like they used to..

[GuiNNeSS]

Thats true.

 

people has been telling me. I am more fierce with boys then with girls.

 

Maybe because i always felt that boys should learn to think, speak and act better then behaving like a prat with a senior female?

 

I am afterall, not the senior female that is his mother, so I dont need to mollycoddle the boy or stand his nonsense.

 

FYI, about my period pads. I am using Luna pads. Its melamine free and is not disposable onto our limited land resources. Scientist_85, I guess I should mention it again. Do your research again before you commit motor skill runaway stomach again.

[hors3m3n]

Thats true.

 

people has been telling me. I am more fierce with boys then with girls.

 

Maybe because i always felt that boys should learn to think, speak and act better then behaving like a prat with a senior female?

 

I am afterall, not the senior female that is his mother, so I dont need to mollycoddle the boy or stand his nonsense.

 

FYI, about my period pads. I am using Luna pads. Its melamine free and is not disposable onto our limited land resources. Scientist_85, I guess I should mention it again. Do your research again before you commit motor skill runaway stomach again.

 

chill la, so early in morning not a nice way to start a day being angry.. not gd gor skin u know..

 

btw i tink its just a classic argument between an older person n a younger person.. tink of it this way, everytime i fight with my mother when i was young, i never wanna give in.. n i sometimes say bad things to her.. n i mite not know how it wld have affected her then. she on the other hand have a choice to scold n beat me, n of course she did.. hahaha.. but after that she explained to me.. n of course i dont understnd.. n it continues..

 

but now im older, i see it more clearly.. actually wat im saying mite have no meaning, but im just telling a sad story, which hopefully touches ur heart n brings out the goodness in everyone.. hahahaha... i tink its getting lame-r..

[FinG]

I've been thru enough people's first reactions, and I certainly dont need (1)*you guys* to limit my lifestyle.

 

And I dont **** hell attempt to kill myself intentionally. (Though I **** hell wished that my motorcycle accidents could have killed me instead of having to suffer thru the recovering again.....and suffer thru the indignances of (2)*you guys* forbiding me this and that.

 

 

And no. I am not Hornie! And I am straight. Not a butch, not a lesbian. And oh yah....When I say I feel like a man. Its because I have more man guts then (3)*you puny males.* Not because I want to don a rubber dickie and do your backside. For that, I am sure lots of men in the changi chalets will have no problem doing that honour.

 

or are you kinda telling me that, because of the (4)*guys in this world* that we live in tells me they see a short haired auntie, then she is a whatever they think she should be?

 

I touch myself and tell myself, its not any guy's business how I conduct my sex life. So its none of my business how (5)*you guys* conduct yours. If you want a man to man. Go find a man to man. Understand why it was said?

 

Anyway i think it only *HIM* tat is pissing you off.

But from your statment,i see :

-you guys

-Guys in this world

 

do you mind i ask,why using all guys or guys in this world since it only *HIM* pissing you off?

[GuiNNeSS]

Am not that old to have forgotten how older person talks to me dearie.

 

And I doubt its a matter of really older person talking to younger person and younger person is rebelling just for the spite of it.

 

When reasoning has to come to pushing. Aunties are known to push back harder.

 

But since this kid has earlier asked to be entertained, and I've already did my part. So lets see how this kid entertain back. I am looking to be surprised.

[GuiNNeSS]

Anyway i think it only *HIM* tat is pissing you off.

But from your statment,i see :

-you guys

-Guys in this world

 

do you mind i ask,why using all guys or guys in this world since it only *HIM* pissing you off?

 

For the first quote. Got nothing to do with 'HIM'.

 

Why? Is this topic and thread only related to forumers/bikers/riders/you guys in general?

 

Is there another female here that I should use 'you folks' instead of 'you guys'?

 

Guys in this world? Err........there is another world you rather be referred to?

[xXxRatedxXx]

Ooppsss open up another can of worms.... but i hands off!! lalallall!!

[bernardk]

fierce doesnt = to unreasonable........

[hors3m3n]

whats bugging me today is that this thread is bugging people..

[xXxRatedxXx]

fierce doesnt = to unreasonable........

 

So be it brother bernard!! :angel:

 

whats bugging me today is that this thread is bugging people..

 

That's why i hands off... can argue until next year also won't see the end of it... just highlight to people from an outsiders point of view AKA kaypoh

[GuiNNeSS]

fierce doesnt = to unreasonable........

 

Well, what then you suggest is reasonable?

 

Have you been reasonable to curtailed your little boys bikers?

 

Or because you were ever a boy, so its okay for them to behave this way?

 

Did any of you read what is going on, besides thinking there is a unreasonable female going after the hide of your previous unruly self?

 

or was it okay to say other people is unreasonable. When none of you has done the reasonable thing?

 

or am i right to type, you guys. since afterall, its only been you guys here saying females are unreasonable?

[bernardk]

huh i where got say you unreasonable? i say you fierce leh. you fierce means you reasonable lor. alamak...... sensitive new age girl ah?

[hors3m3n]

Well, what then you suggest is reasonable?

 

Have you been reasonable to curtailed your little boys bikers?

 

Or because you were ever a boy, so its okay for them to behave this way?

 

Did any of you read what is going on, besides thinking there is a unreasonable female going after the hide of your previous unruly self?

 

or was it okay to say other people is unreasonable. When none of you has done the reasonable thing?

 

or am i right to type, you guys. since afterall, its only been you guys here saying females are unreasonable?

 

 

waoh waoh.. easy there.. ur anger is overflowing man, too much that since ur boy or whoever ur aiming at is not here, we as peaceful forumers are getting aimed at..

 

n i sincerely believe whoever that has been posting abt ur argument have read up, coz its such a big thing that is taking up a page n even open up a thread just to settle it..

 

n no guys here have said females are unreasonable.. wat he said could mean that doesnt mean ur fierce, u are unreasonable(means he is defending u coz i said u very fierce).. but out of anger u intepreted doesnt mean ur fierce u have to be unreasonable(means he say u fierce then have to action n be unreasonable).. its all the anger juice... take a chill pill sis.. peace out!

[DeusExMachina]

ya la.... i find dis kind of ppl stupid. wan to boost ego, in the end sabo urself. want to pull rank n tell the whole world hw much u earn, n hw high ur standing. in the end everybody noes ur self revealed secret. sabo ownself.

 

u onli feel good for that 2 mins wen typing the dissing post. same like sex. 2 mins of pleasure, if kena std den a lifetime of regret.

 

big ****..? so what? like deusXmach said, the person is not the wan that pays ur salary.

 

ok la u say im a lamer. so viciousk74, i ask u, what does dat make u.... arguing wif sum1 like me?

 

moral of the story: it doesnt pay to put other ppl down, same as unsafe sex. learn to be humble, n control urself. cheers!!

 

Haha... now now now...

 

Don't take it as I'm taking your side, which I'm not.

 

I'm just noticing a general pattern when ppl argue and come to a impasse.

 

 

 

They will then bring up some kind of social status or standing, or other non-relevant stuff to edge out the argument.

[DeusExMachina]

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And no. I am not Hornie! And I am straight. Not a butch, not a lesbian. And oh yah....When I say I feel like a man. Its because I have more man guts then you puny males. Not because I want to don a rubber dickie and do your backside. For that, I am sure lots of men in the changi chalets will have no problem doing that honour.

 

 

You sound angry. I dunno, VK. Here's my take.

 

It's easy to have "more guts", as you said it, especially when you know you've nothing else to lose.

 

 

Perspectives, perspectives.

 

Take it easy. Just 'cos you're facing the storm doesn't mean that the rest of the world has to, or has an interest to, K.

Edited March 26, 2009 by DeusExMachina

[bernardk]

waoh waoh.. easy there.. ur anger is overflowing man, too much that since ur boy or whoever ur aiming at is not here, we as peaceful forumers are getting aimed at..

 

n i sincerely believe whoever that has been posting abt ur argument have read up, coz its such a big thing that is taking up a page n even open up a thread just to settle it..

 

n no guys here have said females are unreasonable.. wat he said could mean that doesnt mean ur fierce, u are unreasonable(means he is defending u coz i said u very fierce).. but out of anger u intepreted doesnt mean ur fierce u have to be unreasonable(means he say u fierce then have to action n be unreasonable).. its all the anger juice... take a chill pill sis.. peace out!

 

Hohoho finally someone understands me. So.... ermmm hope that she rethink abt it and not to be the other way round which makes my sentence the other way round too. i think you get wat i mean.

[DeusExMachina]

Thats true.

 

people has been telling me. I am more fierce with boys then with girls.

 

Maybe because i always felt that boys should learn to think, speak and act better then behaving like a prat with a senior female?

 

I am afterall, not the senior female that is his mother, so I dont need to mollycoddle the boy or stand his nonsense.

 

FYI, about my period pads. I am using Luna pads. Its melamine free and is not disposable onto our limited land resources. Scientist_85, I guess I should mention it again. Do your research again before you commit motor skill runaway stomach again.

 

Am not that old to have forgotten how older person talks to me dearie.

 

And I doubt its a matter of really older person talking to younger person and younger person is rebelling just for the spite of it.

 

When reasoning has to come to pushing. Aunties are known to push back harder.

 

But since this kid has earlier asked to be entertained, and I've already did my part. So lets see how this kid entertain back. I am looking to be surprised.

 

For the first quote. Got nothing to do with 'HIM'.

 

Why? Is this topic and thread only related to forumers/bikers/riders/you guys in general?

 

Is there another female here that I should use 'you folks' instead of 'you guys'?

 

Guys in this world? Err........there is another world you rather be referred to?

 

Well, what then you suggest is reasonable?

 

Have you been reasonable to curtailed your little boys bikers?

 

Or because you were ever a boy, so its okay for them to behave this way?

 

Did any of you read what is going on, besides thinking there is a unreasonable female going after the hide of your previous unruly self?

 

or was it okay to say other people is unreasonable. When none of you has done the reasonable thing?

 

or am i right to type, you guys. since afterall, its only been you guys here saying females are unreasonable?

 

 

Are you going thru some "Hancock" phase?

You know... from that Will Smith movie?

 

 

What's with these Seniority, Salary, Women issues you're always so touchy about? Or aunties or whatnot?

 

Seriously, so what if anyone of us happen to fall into one of these categories?

 

So do you think that someone deserves to be talked to or treated with some extra deference just because he or she falls into anyone of these categories?

 

 

Ultimately, this is a forum, and everyone here, regardless of age or sex is represented as an avatar and nickname. Without more info on the owner's part, no one is ever going to know anything more. 'Cos it's just a bunch of text and smilies.

 

It's YOUR choice to remain as that faceless, sexless, raceless, ageless avatar............... or conversely, try to humanize it... or even ADVERTISE IT. Ditto the consequences.

Edited March 26, 2009 by DeusExMachina

[StaN]

Landlords using the bathroom. They need the bathroom tap to tap water into their washing machine.

 

Even if they use the outside the bathroom tap, the hose will still have blocked the entrance to the bathroom.

 

So now I am stuck. Cannot go take a bathe yet.

 

Am planning to buy another hdb flat later. This time, must make sure that wet renovation works are done to some of my exacting standards.

 

Must buy at least a 3 NG flat with masterbedroom has attached bathroom.

 

Must have water inlet and outlet for the washing machine. Must have a dryer machine. Must not have any tabletop or cabinent doors blocking the rubbish chute. The rubbish chute will stand alone, and not have a sink over it.

 

Must have enough electrical outlets in the kitchen and bedrooms....blah blah blah....

 

Must have cable, telephone & tv points in all the bedrooms.

 

 

whatever u've stated u want. it is never a prob,most imptly is as long as u have the $.u get it..

 

 

and i like ur idea of rubbish chute not being blocked coz i have probs getting up after squatting... it will be in the list for my comming revamp of my house

[StaN]

Ooppsss open up another can of worms.... but i hands off!! lalallall!!

 

no worries soon there will be bucketsful of worms being opened n this aunty here is gonna sweep them all down the drain..... she will not let a single worm wriggling ard....

[StaN]

Are you going thru some "Hancock" phase?

You know... from that Will Smith movie?

 

 

What's with these Seniority, Salary, Women issues you're always so touchy about? Or aunties or whatnot?

 

Seriously, so what if anyone of us happen to fall into one of these categories?

 

So do you think that someone deserves to be talked to or treated with some extra deference just because he or she falls into anyone of these categories?

 

 

Ultimately, this is a forum, and everyone here, regardless of age or sex is represented as an avatar and nickname. Without more info on the owner's part, no one is every going to know anything more. 'Cos it's just a bunch of text and smilies.

 

It's YOUR choice to remain as that faceless, sexless, raceless, ageless avatar............... or conversely, try to humanize it... or even ADVERTISE IT. Ditto the consequences.

 

Darn.... you.... i just simply envy u... the way u voice it out n put it into words so nicely...like got so much ink..

[bernardk]

Are you going thru some "Hancock" phase?

You know... from that Will Smith movie?

 

 

What's with these Seniority, Salary, Women issues you're always so touchy about? Or aunties or whatnot?

 

Seriously, so what if anyone of us happen to fall into one of these categories?

 

So do you think that someone deserves to be talked to or treated with some extra deference just because he or she falls into anyone of these categories?

 

 

Ultimately, this is a forum, and everyone here, regardless of age or sex is represented as an avatar and nickname. Without more info on the owner's part, no one is every going to know anything more. 'Cos it's just a bunch of text and smilies.

 

It's YOUR choice to remain as that faceless, sexless, raceless, ageless avatar............... or conversely, try to humanize it... or even ADVERTISE IT. Ditto the consequences.

 

Hohohohoho bro becareful wat you wish for i am already very careful when talking to her.