It's amazing how people can infer so much from a single post. That I only mentioned about the insurance policy issue and nothing else seemed to give the impression that I only cared about the finances, to heck with the motorcyclist and all other things. Truth is, I didn't deem it absolutely necessary to describe exactly what transpired after the accident, how I felt and the things I've done because it wouldn't help matters at this point. That you guys knowing or not wouldn't affect the judgement of the financial issues at hand, or so I thought.
I've been to the hospital numerous times since he was admitted, visited him and spoke to his family members. I felt very relieved when his dad forgave me since day one, saying that it was an accident which nobody wanted happened. When I sensed that they were at a loss regarding what else they could do, I tried liasing them with my own insurance (and adjuster) people, hoping that they could help them more since they're definitely more informed than I was. My parents even warned me regarding the clash of interest in this case.
His family came all the way from Malacca for the visit, and asked me to help them locate a cheap way of accommodation, and I tried looking for my property agent friends for assistance. Until I realised they were not able to rent any sort of room / apartment at all since they were on vacation pass, instead of employment pass or work permit etc. I was specifically warned against using my own IC to rent a room on their behalf, something which is illegal.
I wasn't any financially well-to-do person at all, being a recent graduate. Having a miserly 4-figure sum in the bank account rendered me almost incapable of helping them out in the monetary sense at all. So I did something I never thought I'd ever do and went praying. At a temple in Jurong West. Erawan Shrine in Bangkok. I hoped for any sort of divine intervention to make him recover quickly, no matter whether I'd have to go to jail or not.
I stopped myself from making the depressing visit him to the hospital everyday, and turned it into a monthly affair instead. The logic is that it would seem he'd made progress every time. The day when I first realised about the insurance company repudiating all liabilities, suddenly my future became so bleak. My peers were just beginning to start work after graduation, thinking about the cars they would buy, houses they could own, vacations they longed for, and there I was with a real probability that none of those would ever materialise. I could spend the rest of my life climbing out of the hole I'd dugged for myself, and that's considering the scenario that there's somewhere willing to hire someone with a court appearance record.
Btw, the judge didn't deem it necessary to suspend my driving license. But any chances of me driving again soon were effectively killed when the insurance included a clause, during the renewal, forbidding any drivers below the age of 30. Just as well, I remember telling a friend that the public would benefit from someone like me on the roads.
All these, I didn't mention in the first post due to aforementioned reasons. That's when all the flaming started coming towards me. I don't think doing so now will provide much relief, but at least let it be known before additional postings. To the guy who said anything about knocking down family members, yeah that's real cheap. Never involve family members in one's own dealings. To those who hope I'd crash and burn, I hope the metal plates and screws in my elbow and knee can provide scant consolation.