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And by the way... She doesn't seem to have any self -esteem or ego to start with... She just work and work.

IF she dosen;t have such... I'll put it into her through the hardway. She living in a world of her comfort zones. Must shake things up de...

 

We all live by challenges and away from the normal in order to grow... And not do stuff that is necessary but only the inexpected. I wanna her be such... Not to do the necessary but persue with flame of passion.

 

Without that... no character... no inspiration...no respect... plain boring.

Life is like a box of chocolate...

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~lolx. All these years that she worked there(3yrs).... I never once hear her voice her dissatisfaction with her work nor have any knowledge she brought the matter up to her superior for assitance or change of assignment.

 

All my colleagues here will voice out and fight for their rights.. Be it to cusotmer or management. And when u look at her... SLIENT.

~~As long as one have the intention to change... there's always the possibility. But what happens when the intention to change never once cross her stupid mind? There goes the possibility....

 

Besides, for her dept... there;s no way to get promoted coz of the structure and no way to have even a three month bonus. Its only fit for Malaysians to work coz its x 2 the currency there and the stuff there are in deflation. Double bonus.

 

When she leaves work and head home.... A year or ten years like that also produces the same result unlike all her malaysian colleagues who can go "home" to really rest and destressed. Coz ten years in time... Its still the same s u c k pay and so must stressed. Everyday like that and no escape.

 

She work whole day till no time for progression in life... Driving license taken half-way only and no time. No time for her dental.. No time for her studies.. No time for her excercise.

 

Whats life is such... How could one grow by being in office everyday like this?

Yah. But why is she like that in the first place?

 

This kind of behaviour sounds like she had been oppressed/dominated for too long, most probably someone controlling her every moves until she loses the capability to make autonomous decisions and take responsibility for her decisions.

 

The more you control her, the worse these symptoms will get instead of suddenly "wake up her idea"...

 

 

Just a friendly warning, don't go down the wrong path. I used to be a control freak like you, it will take many years of hardwork undoing the negative effect of domination.

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

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Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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Yah. But why is she like that in the first place?

 

This kind of behaviour sounds like she had been oppressed/dominated for too long, most probably someone controlling her every moves until she loses the capability to make autonomous decisions and take responsibility for her decisions.

 

The more you control her, the worse these symptoms will get instead of suddenly "wake up her idea"...

 

 

Just a friendly warning, don't go down the wrong path. I used to be a control freak like you, it will take many years of hardwork undoing the negative effect of domination.

 

Hmm... I've also not the slightest idea why she can bear with such for so long(must ask her le).

By the way...everytime i screw her up.. i'll ask her if she blames me for anything or is there a different appraoch i could confront her next time...

And she always says.. she understands and she's alright with it.

 

And when i ask her if she's angry.. she'll say whats to be angry about. And it happens like a few sec after my outburst. :sian:

 

Am not a control freak la.. she can do wat she wants... Just be reponsive and be pro-active can already la. She can work late if she wants... But 6 days a week is not the way for a decent salary and a brainless job. Balance Balance and Balance is the key.

 

Am not a control freak coz i've many things to do myself... Am fine if she do her things as long as she progresses

 

She's going out with her friends tonight... Go lor. Tomorrow, she'll fall in early for Monrning and Evening Physical training... And noon time spend reading and i'll be evaluating her resume.

Life is like a box of chocolate...

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~~~But when i talk to her... i'll make sure she listens with attention coz if she dun, i'll always grap her hands hard till bruised.

~~~When she talks, i'll give her 100%, when i talk i expect the same too. She can disagee and agree and even be both. Just let me into her opinion be great.

Life is like a box of chocolate...

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KK....am going home le, leaving office now.

~~GOing off without my gf coz i guess u all know ya. lolx

 

Wat an a s s ....Anyway my shipment also alot... Still haven't complete. Will bring her come to work both tomorrow and Monday since she love the company so much.

 

Am able to do those on Tuesday... But must let her see how much i also love my job mah and also wats my job like. Will make her sit and accompany me.:thumb:

Life is like a box of chocolate...

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for herself at work. All her self-esteem and ego destroyed by you already.

 

Bro, you change your signature photo?? The foto look like your bike dropped into the sea... :lol:

 

wah.. u like that say FX.. he sure very hurt de leh.. tat time i told him he looks cool in the picture leh..

 

Hmm... I've also not the slightest idea why she can bear with such for so long(must ask her le).

By the way...everytime i screw her up.. i'll ask her if she blames me for anything or is there a different appraoch i could confront her next time...

And she always says.. she understands and she's alright with it.

 

And when i ask her if she's angry.. she'll say whats to be angry about. And it happens like a few sec after my outburst. :sian:

 

Am not a control freak la.. she can do wat she wants... Just be reponsive and be pro-active can already la. She can work late if she wants... But 6 days a week is not the way for a decent salary and a brainless job. Balance Balance and Balance is the key.

 

Am not a control freak coz i've many things to do myself... Am fine if she do her things as long as she progresses

 

She's going out with her friends tonight... Go lor. Tomorrow, she'll fall in early for Monrning and Evening Physical training... And noon time spend reading and i'll be evaluating her resume.

 

its her character la.. :) she seems to always give in to u.. but it is always hard to change someone's character de.. :) good mah.. u scold her or whack her she also wont retaliate.. plus she sae she understand somemore.. where to find such good gf..??

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wah.. u like that say FX.. he sure very hurt de leh.. tat time i told him he looks cool in the picture leh..

He looks like 賭神 in this foto, leather jacket and holding fullface.. very cool... but the bike missing lah. :angel:

 

its her character la.. :) she seems to always give in to u.. but it is always hard to change someone's character de.. :) good mah.. u scold her or whack her she also wont retaliate.. plus she sae she understand somemore.. where to find such good gf..??

Exactly... must treasure her already lah, Ryan.

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

Riding Since:

Class 2B - 28 Apr 1994

Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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Good morning all..Cannot sleep well last night, national day coming very happy~ :lol:

 

lol y cannot sleep well?thinking abt the national day outing rite?

 

~~~sTUpid car. That happened to my 2B bike last time. So this time round, i' park my CBR either in mulitstorey car park or at strategic locations in open-air carpark...

Many Singaporean driving car r dumb bumb one... Esp gals.

They think they pay very large sum for their f u c k ing cars and pay more road tax... They have more rights to use the road. They always trying to do this and that in a hurry... Think here like America isit??? Land and space so limited... Everywhere so packed... If am there, i'll make the car a person coffin and burn to death inside there.

 

chill bro.to be honest some gals are tend to have those kind of no sende of direction or timid type so when they drive they scare here scare there.but some i encounter are different they even gif way to me tat time when i drive as i waited for them behind her for them to park their car before proceed lol

 

If am you... i'll take a hammer and start knocking those cars' signals that park around the slot in a month time. Since they so blind, no need signals de ya...

A bunch of pricks....

 

chill bro.frankly speaking if u gt car and gt a license to drive u shld understand both sides of a driver and rider.i rent car last time before to go out and i sometimes tend to be afraid to knock out some riders as they go in between cars.even we check our blindspot inside a car we will nt knw how fast the bike travel and by the time u make the turn with ur signal alrdy on then u see the bike came in so whose fault is it?for tis case i wld say rider fault.seeing the situation and u can tell whose fault is it.jus my 2 cent.i dn mind showing it to u by lending me a car and when i recover.it happens almost everywhere.so when i change lane driving i only change when gt big space when its free flowing traffic as for traffic jams i try nt to.as when riding traffic jam i go abit faster.when free traffic tend to go in lane

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chill bro.frankly speaking if u gt car and gt a license to drive u shld understand both sides of a driver and rider.i rent car last time before to go out and i sometimes tend to be afraid to knock out some riders as they go in between cars.even we check our blindspot inside a car we will nt knw how fast the bike travel and by the time u make the turn with ur signal alrdy on then u see the bike came in so whose fault is it?for tis case i wld say rider fault.seeing the situation and u can tell whose fault is it.jus my 2 cent.i dn mind showing it to u by lending me a car and when i recover.it happens almost everywhere.so when i change lane driving i only change when gt big space when its free flowing traffic as for traffic jams i try nt to.as when riding traffic jam i go abit faster.when free traffic tend to go in lane

Ah, yes. I agree that when we are lane splitting the drivers usually cannot judge our speed of approach properly. Especially when we are going much faster than the flow of traffic.

 

If we need to rely on them to keep us safe while lane splitting, might as well just stick to the flow and dun lane split. Its better to identify which car CAN change lane and monitor any probable movement to change until you pass it, rather than to watch for signal.

 

For me, car got signal no signal its up to them. If I get in trouble coz i didn't anticipate and didn't have an escape route planned out beforehand, then its my fault.

 

If i had a dollar for every inconsiderate driver i encountered on the road before, i would have already be a millionaire. There's so much idiots on the road i had already lost the fire to be angry at them....:cheeky:

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

Riding Since:

Class 2B - 28 Apr 1994

Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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afternOon everyone ! you all like writin essay sia , see already no mood to read on >

Oh, of coz.

 

If ah ger write one, twenty pages you will also read. :lol:

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

Riding Since:

Class 2B - 28 Apr 1994

Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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afternOon everyone ! you all like writin essay sia , see already no mood to read on >

 

wah we tok abt some other things then u wan shoot us.we tok abt ah ger only u wan come and add u.kns

 

Oh, of coz.

 

If ah ger write one, twenty pages you will also read. :lol:

 

ya lor

September 2007 ~ Honda NSR 150 SP

May 2009 ~ Honda CBR 400RR-R

March 2011 ~ Suzuki k7 GSXR1000

July 2014 ~ BMW S1000rr '14

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wah.. u like that say FX.. he sure very hurt de leh.. tat time i told him he looks cool in the picture leh..

 

that picture was taken somewhere in Malacca..i tot he's going to throw his Pepsi scheme Arai to the sea sia...... :angel:

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no longer available for new set:sian:

saw garage sales may have, but his price may killing..........:sian:

 

used CBR meter set for $350....!! Just to share.. :faint:

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that picture was taken somewhere in Malacca..i tot he's going to throw his Pepsi scheme Arai to the sea sia...... :angel:

If can add caption to the picture, I'll add:

 

 

"Oh... my bike can float... "

 

:lol:

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

Riding Since:

Class 2B - 28 Apr 1994

Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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If can add caption to the picture, I'll add:

 

 

"Oh... my bike can float... "

 

:lol:

 

:slapforehead:

 

yah, that will be cool..ups for floating Hurricane....

 

:D

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;5698620']Nice one la steed . Nv go kranji run today ?

Got... but today rode phantom... rediscover the fun of cruiser kup corners... :lol:

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

Riding Since:

Class 2B - 28 Apr 1994

Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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Got... but today rode phantom... rediscover the fun of cruiser kup corners... :lol:

 

haha.. today i rode R6.. rediscover the fun of sportsbike kup corners.. :)

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Morning all~

 

haha.. today i rode R6.. rediscover the fun of sportsbike kup corners.. :)

Just dun get carried away when you ride your little lamb. The first and last time i rode a borrowed skipper to go get my spare keys for my aprilia 125, i almost eat grass when i kup corner... lean over then realise to my horror no fuel tank in front to hang on to... :lol:

 

So when your VTR coming out?

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

Riding Since:

Class 2B - 28 Apr 1994

Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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Morning all~

 

 

Just dun get carried away when you ride your little lamb. The first and last time i rode a borrowed skipper to go get my spare keys for my aprilia 125, i almost eat grass when i kup corner... lean over then realise to my horror no fuel tank in front to hang on to... :lol:

 

So when your VTR coming out?

 

i think to him shldn't be a prob for riding a r6 as he has gone thru cls 2 bikes alrdy

September 2007 ~ Honda NSR 150 SP

May 2009 ~ Honda CBR 400RR-R

March 2011 ~ Suzuki k7 GSXR1000

July 2014 ~ BMW S1000rr '14

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Ah, yes. I agree that when we are lane splitting the drivers usually cannot judge our speed of approach properly. Especially when we are going much faster than the flow of traffic.

 

If we need to rely on them to keep us safe while lane splitting, might as well just stick to the flow and dun lane split. Its better to identify which car CAN change lane and monitor any probable movement to change until you pass it, rather than to watch for signal.

 

For me, car got signal no signal its up to them. If I get in trouble coz i didn't anticipate and didn't have an escape route planned out beforehand, then its my fault.

 

If i had a dollar for every inconsiderate driver i encountered on the road before, i would have already be a millionaire. There's so much idiots on the road i had already lost the fire to be angry at them....:cheeky:

 

drivers nowadays getting more and more impatient...

they will find ways and means to cut down the travelling time...

so if they notice this lane is moving faster than the one he in, there he go.. will change lane wif the opportunity given..

but as they are rushing to hell, some will not even signal..

i am a driver myself too.. when i change lane in a slow moving traffic, i will turn out the car slowly to the lane i wanna travel on wif signal on.. at least give riders ample time to react while they lane splitting..

 

during the jam without accident, i juz keep to my own lane..

y?? cos when i ride bike, i notice something very funny abt them..

lane 1 change to lane 2 so lane 1 hav a gap and seem faster by other lanes.. so lane 2 car try to change to lane 1..

overall, square one..

:sian:

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drivers nowadays getting more and more impatient...

they will find ways and means to cut down the travelling time...

so if they notice this lane is moving faster than the one he in, there he go.. will change lane wif the opportunity given..

but as they are rushing to hell, some will not even signal..

i am a driver myself too.. when i change lane in a slow moving traffic, i will turn out the car slowly to the lane i wanna travel on wif signal on.. at least give riders ample time to react while they lane splitting..

 

during the jam without accident, i juz keep to my own lane..

y?? cos when i ride bike, i notice something very funny abt them..

lane 1 change to lane 2 so lane 1 hav a gap and seem faster by other lanes.. so lane 2 car try to change to lane 1..

overall, square one..

:sian:

Haha, exactly, that one called "exchange lanes", but both lanes speed end up the same. :lol:

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

Riding Since:

Class 2B - 28 Apr 1994

Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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Oh yah.

Anyone going for the Kallang Yamaha Pit Girls grand final today at 6pm or not ah? Our weekly horlan rounding still on tonight or not?

Where is the 乌龟奶者(organiser) Ryan? o_O

"The hunter must hunt. The moment he stops he becomes the hunted.

Strive, reach, and take. Then you shall not be taken"

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Class 2A - 30 Jun 2009

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