wah~ so "touching" you all so support my thread ah.....
so fast jump so many pages liao ah.....
okie okie.... got a question for you guys and gals.....
(see below)
Frm your point of view, which is worse? and why?
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all right this story happens to my close friends.
after a round of sharing, my blood reli boils, I felt reli so (*angry*) too....
option #1)
this girl (let's call her "F") appear to be real 'homely', ' nice' and 'super decent' & super good at smoking her way out when troubles hit.
even me oso to her behaviors (or acting skills)!
this girl wont stay long in any job (mayb she is the youngest in the family, her family reli dotes on her)
this girl is real ambitious too, wanted to start a boutique.
but no investor.
(actually, people who worked with her knows that she don't really got capability or potential lar, little bit can't endure, will quit, always thinks she is right, she wanted to be a boss, because, she could be always right, and can order people around)
and then,
she knows this guy (let's call him "MR A", this guy is very very very nice)
initially she seems to like him, date him out, MR A, in the beginning was very careful, but this girl F, reli shown like she is interested in him wor, she even try to hold his hands when crossing the road! (wah piangz!)
but after MR A, reli reli start to devote his genuine love to her, and started get committed. tat girl F, totally start to play distanting and act blur, and say that is MR A, "misunderstood" her wor, and worst, asking MR A to look for other girls for his gf, they are just ' ordinary friends'
MR A like 'wat the F@#$!"
ok, MR A let the matter rest, count him unlucky, who tell him so easily being touched and taken in. so all right, let's be friends lar.
then,
when this girl F, happened to know, this MR A, got a real good girlfriend, let's call "girl A" who is rich and etc.
while she is on her ends (she had credit cards bills to pay, and her car roadtax is coming and etc)
she start to get real close with MR A, wanted MR A to rope this "girl A" into her boutique thingy.
and because, this girl F knows MR A reli reli loves her, she kind of used him !!!!
(despicable! *pui pui pui*)
during their conversations, she will kind of mislead him: abt their future and etc, bringing MR A to go to her house and meet up her parents and etc (as if like they are reli into relationship or couple) and this boutique thingy, is as if of THEIR dream (both this girl F and MR A's)
therefore,
MR A, out of good will to help this girl F to fulfill her dreams, finally, using all his influence and sincerity, moved this girl A, and got this "girl A" to invest in the boutique.
so,
MR A reli slogged hard for this girl F.
and this girl F really oso order MR A around.
one time, ask MR A rushed from Woodlands to Parkway Parade, and order him around, as if MR A is reli her staff, despite of MR A had a busy schudule, MR A nicely obeys and follows.
and,
on the day, three of them open the joint account, MR A rushed out from his lunch-hour, just to stand along this girl F.
then,
MR A start to help out in this girl F's boutique too (FOC!!!!)
however,
friction started.
MR A finds this girl F's working attitude reli got problem, and not down to earth enough abt her ideas and etc.
quarrels beings.
this girl F upset why MR A do not stand along with her. but MR A finds it shouldn't be done this way.
and MR A finds this girl F is getting too much, like taking him for granted, like order him around to do things like maid. and also discover this girl F is reli reli way too self-centered and selfish.
however, being a good man, this MR A tried to talk nicely and explains to this girl F.
but being the spolit brat (this, she won't admit, she is used in having her ways) and was frustrated that why MR A keep opposing her.
and MR A felt very insecure and find this girl F's character got problem too.
like:
she will told people abt this boutique business, but seems do not admit tat they are into a relationship (more sort of partnership).
and,
towards their both mutual friends, she don't even want to mention that MR A is helping in this business too! (well, i don't know if she reli forgets or purposely omitted out)
MR A finds this girl F is not committed at all! wat a fool he is!
however, he kept giving chances to this girl F, and believes the best of her, stood by her.
then,
during a quarrel,
(i think MR A wanted someone to talk to, a listening ear, as he is having some tough time at work)
this girl F told MR A off:
"WE ARE NOT BOY/GIRLFRIEND LEH! WHAT I CAN GIVE THIS SO LITTLE, YOU GO AND FIND SOMEONE WHO CAN SATISFY YOUR EMOTIONAL NEEDS LAR"
*wah piang*
MR A like *strike by thunder and lightning*
totally totally shock!
and realised that he had done so much (without pay without any profits)
and to a rude awakening that:
HE WAS BEING USED BY THAT F$#@!!!!!
option #2)
a irresponsible jerk who made a girl pregnant and then deny.
pls choose