[Discussion] What's bugging you now?

[GuiNNeSS]

Heard the News, soon all 2B learner will have to go through a 3 part Road Safety Course before lesson 1 because alot of motorcyclist died ...

 

Best part is during the news, they showed a educational video.

Bike near junction, lorry didn't stop at stop line came out, motorcyclist banged into the side of the lorry died...

 

Shouldn't they be educating the drivers instead???

 

Motorcyclist died.

 

Drivers got injured?

 

Very obvious wat.....

[Romi_ku]

worried about what kind of job i can get, worried if cannot support myself in the future.

[GuiNNeSS]

One, I left a very urgent important document back in Singapore.

 

Two, the secretary chose Mon to go Sentosa to get drenched and is now most likely 'sickly' that she cannot 'access' the home office pc.

 

Three, I again left a mp3 player back in Singapore.

 

Four, the Phuket House LAN system either has problem, or my farking heavy wide Sony Vaio has problems. It wont run properly, machiam like its on kinetic energy, needing me to move the mouse once in a while to move a bar to even do defrag. The LAN connections is strangely the slowest and limited of all those really low memory desktop that I sharing the internet connections with.

[ThePole]

today kena 'molest' by doctor - went for an endoscopy. after pain like hell, doctor tell me found a polyp and dun noe if cancerous sum more, must come back and do another in next 2 months. now damn worried and dun dare to tell my mom...

[GuiNNeSS]

The Myanmar girl with a Thai Master Degree now living in the condo apartment which the company is paying for, along with her salary to maintain that office in that apartment.

 

Either she died in her sleep from whatever cold she got on Monday when she went to Sentosa with her friends and got drenched.

 

Where she didnt return to the apartment till the early hours on Tuesday morning, just when I was leaving Sg on my flight.

 

And last night, the director was trying to reach her on skype but couldnt. So he called the apartment phone and she answered almost immediately. Which means she was sitting at the office table with the computer switched on probably watching youtube.

 

The skype was switched on almost stimultaneously....which means she was using another skype a/c, probably to chat with someone else not related to the office.

 

The office skype was totally off during the morning and afternoon yesterday too.

 

And even today, it appears she is totally offline, or not in office, but I think she is. Using the office resources for her own.

 

Even the apartment, which was suppose to be reserved for overseas engineers was lived in when I returned to sg.

 

And I caught her out twice to have different friends living with her in the apartment within that same week.

 

I think she is abusing my absense or my earlier actions where I supported her to disallowed miscellanous people which she didnt like, into the office and apartment.

[GuiNNeSS]

Stepmother, is behind me, on another laptop. Screaming to my father on skype in Singapore.

 

Its a china girl issues.

 

How many times, can a 35 year old female, experience deja vu with other women issues in her lifetime?

 

Its now 3 times to date for me and I can only keep hoping it wont happen again.

[GuiNNeSS]

This is going to be long one:

 

I am doing frantic packing at the moment.

 

While I was out, trying to chill down at Tesco Lotus Phuket Swensen's with a topless five set of ice cream. (I had green tea, macadamia nut, rum & raisin, berry yogurt & lime serbet.)

 

My stepmother calls me to tell me, that my father has suddenly decided to come back up to Phuket tomorrow night. My stepmother still is staying in Singapore till Sunday.

 

So I asked: 'Why did he need to be in Phuket?'

 

I already knew the answer as being:

 

 

 

1) He really has work he need to do only in Phuket. (Thats about as believable as my hair has grown 6 inches.)

 

2) He intend to leave my stepmother alone and worried in Singapore, while he returns to Phuket Thailand to give me a thrashing for 'intentionally trying to ruin his new family.

 

3) Knowing how my stepmother is reliant on me and is a great host, he wants to throw me out by the ear on the streets of Phuket and she cant do anything about it.

 

Which also tend to show his 'powers' as the head of the household. Its to demonstrate his heartlessness and his 'right' as a father.

 

4) He was only threatening my stepmother with the above scenerio. And chances are he wants the confrontation with me in private, where he will be most powerful since its not legally binding for him if he misbehave with me in Thailand, instead of being in Singapore. Also, whatever transpire between us, stepmother does not have to know and will thus fear him. ( I almost can hear how my father thinks.)

 

5) My stepmother is the more violent person, and she wont stand for him attempting to maul me infront of my half sister. And she being stuck in Singapore with no use-able english to bring herself home.......will garantee that he can make his points clear.

 

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Now I am trying to co-ordinate that I can return to Singapore. Preferably with my half sister. Where all of us can sit down with our father, lay down the cards on the table and deal with things instead of playing guessing game with each other.

 

Topics include: Does she really wants to go to Singapore to study. Who is going to be paying for what & why wasnt my sister made a Singapore citizen and he only wants a PR for her.

 

Does it really have to do with the property in her name? (Which I just found out from the lawyer next door to us......that she wasnt eligible.)

 

My estimation of how my father is doing things is that. He is keeping my sister a Singapore PR, so that eventually all properties to be passed to her, and he can retired with those properties under his control, because he is the father with or without the stepmother.

 

In the event that my sister has to give up her rights to properties because she is a singapore citizen. All properties will revert to my stepmother, which he cant touch or dump my stepmother when he wants to.

 

(Devious eh.........my imaginations.)

 

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And I suggest the talk to be in Singapore, preferably at a time slot, before my father flies to Phuket.

 

And I want whoever like my aunts to sit in and listen. And at least in Singapore, I can get a more understanding crowd that knows sg education & citizenship issues. (maybe I just want to rub my aunt's nose in her belief that her brother is not 90% at fault when he deserted the family.)

 

The neighbours has offered to keep me, even if I am thrown out by the ear in Phuket Thailand, but I rejected, saying I know my father, he will blame everyone else and accuse everyone else of attempting to control or interfere with his family issues.

 

And like my mother, I need some old legal fellas to sit in with me, to act as my adviser, mediator and whatever else. Might really enforce a point which for so long, always elude my parents.

 

Manz.....I didnt think I have to do this again for another parent....but it looks like I should.

 

And I need to urgently find a storage location and probably another room to rent till I get my own place, that will later serve as my legacy to my siblings when they have no way to turn.

[s4dreamer]

I'm very bothered about being a female/lady rider.

 

Male bikers always don't take us seriously and always says nasty things to me like "aiyah, woman shouldn't ride this kind of bike lah!" or something to that effect.

 

They are really idiots!

 

I don't believe females can't do as well. I'm taking class 2 now and can lift the bike at one go! I just don't understand the double standard!

[SparkerS1]

Male bikers always don't take us seriously and always says nasty things to me

 

are u sure? i also male rider thou:weep:

[DeusExMachina]

I'm very bothered about being a female/lady rider.

 

Male bikers always don't take us seriously and always says nasty things to me like "aiyah, woman shouldn't ride this kind of bike lah!" or something to that effect.

 

They are really idiots!

 

I don't believe females can't do as well. I'm taking class 2 now and can lift the bike at one go! I just don't understand the double standard!

 

 

 

Ask you one thing ah....

 

 

What do you think about lady drivers?

[bernardk]

i tot S4^dreamer is a lady?

[s4dreamer]

yup, i am a lady rider. and becos of that, i get some stupid male riders passing nasty remarks to me. why is that so? can't they just mind their own business? i didn't bother them so why should they bother me at all? this is just something i can't understand at all.

 

this is just my sentiment, that's all...

 

To DeusExMachina, i think female drivers are really blur and i almost got knocked down by her. luckily i lane-split and avoided her...

[DeusExMachina]

yup, i am a lady rider. and becos of that, i get some stupid male riders passing nasty remarks to me. why is that so? can't they just mind their own business? i didn't bother them so why should they bother me at all? this is just something i can't understand at all.

 

Male ego la.

 

Did you overtake them or chiet them in a corner?

[GuiNNeSS]

i am jobless and depressed and forsaken by friends

[Fritz]

Not sure of how to draft a cover letter and a resume for my internship.

[SparkerS1]

i am jobless and depressed and forsaken by friends

i no money, stressed out and forgotten by friends:weep:

Not sure of how to draft a cover letter and a resume for my internship.

 

alamak, i lost mine, or else can give you a sample copy

[SparkerS1]

i am jobless and depressed and forsaken by friends

i no money, stressed out and forgotten by friends:weep:

Not sure of how to draft a cover letter and a resume for my internship.

 

alamak, i lost mine, or else can give you a sample copy

[Fritz]

alamak, i lost mine, or else can give you a sample copy

Uhuh, so many samples out there in the net but everyone of it looks plain and boring. I need a sample that's tried and tested in the working world, hehe.

[SparkerS1]

I need a sample that's tried and tested in the working world, hehe.

 

alamak, your qualification is an entry to an interview only, wat u need to do is how u present urself.

 

resume every swee swee then interview mess up also useless.

do ur best is the best solution:goodluck:

[Fritz]

alamak, your qualification is an entry to an interview only, wat u need to do is how u present urself.

 

resume every swee swee then interview mess up also useless.

do ur best is the best solution:goodluck:

Ahh okay, thanks for the advice. Just be myself

[GuiNNeSS]

My younger sister, now she dont need help from anyone. Figures she is now all powerful again.

 

Is thinking she is powderful, because she knows how to use the internet and read my complaints on the facebook.

 

Heck, I caught her out pretending that she is a total stranger on SBF and even sgforums. Acting as the real biatch she was in real life while pretending she is a goody two shoes wife and sister after she got married.

 

As if, just because she married a American, bullies him and his rest of the families on the pretext of doing 'good for her children'.

 

She thinks others do not remember when she was such a biatch to live with, and how she always thinks she is all 'powderful' by giving 'advises' instead of actual actions.

 

Pathetic really. Most times. Her advices is 'critisising others, putting them down,' instead of true advices that benefits others by really improving people's condition or other people's lives.

 

You know......enriching she is NOT.

 

Heck, I obviously has that genes, its probably from my papa and mummy. Somehow its more manifested in her. I see her, I dont see myself. Why is that? I see her, I see mummy plus papa and plus a manifying glass that amplify those traits. Why?

 

Am I a sibling so blind, as to not see her fault & her strength?

[ReBornBikeR]

yup, i am a lady rider. and becos of that, i get some stupid male riders passing nasty remarks to me. why is that so? can't they just mind their own business? i didn't bother them so why should they bother me at all? this is just something i can't understand at all.

 

this is just my sentiment, that's all...

 

To DeusExMachina, i think female drivers are really blur and i almost got knocked down by her. luckily i lane-split and avoided her...

 

Female drivers or riders are not "blur", they just do not want to look at others when they are driving or riding on the road.

Ever sees female staring straight ahead when they drive or ride? They stare straight ahead even when they want to make a turn. They just refuse or afraid or shy to look at other road users.

So tell me, how to be a good driver or rider if one do not look at other road users before one switch lane, make a turn, filter into major road, etc;

 

If they can overcome those feelings, then they can be good driver or riders too. But it will be difficult because it is inborn.

[SparkerS1]

So tell me, how to be a good driver or rider if one do not look at other road users before one switch lane, make a turn, filter into major road, etc;

.

 

this is the reason y i always almost knock onto them, cos they didnt open their eyes and see:slapforehead:

cannot even keep to their own lane, as if the whole rd is theirs:giddy:

[s4dreamer]

Female drivers or riders are not "blur", they just do not want to look at others when they are driving or riding on the road.

Ever sees female staring straight ahead when they drive or ride? They stare straight ahead even when they want to make a turn. They just refuse or afraid or shy to look at other road users.

So tell me, how to be a good driver or rider if one do not look at other road users before one switch lane, make a turn, filter into major road, etc;

 

If they can overcome those feelings, then they can be good driver or riders too. But it will be difficult because it is inborn.

 

Well for me, I look at everywhere when I'm riding on the road. Don't say "THEY". It kinda sounds like it's being prejudice against ALL females who are driving or riding.

 

I don't understand. Shy for what? You've gotta scan everywhere so that if there is any obstruction, you can avoid it at the fastest possible time!

[s4dreamer]

What's bugging me now?

 

The waiting time for Class 2 TP is sooooo long! I've gotta wait till 8 Sep 2009 to take the test! Gosh!