[Discussion] What's bugging you now?

[cougar]

My boss is a moron.

[GuiNNeSS]

The culture difference of Singapore compared to USA.

 

Where residents here complain first, get the general management to check or do things first, before they check their own private management of what things are going wrong and how its going wrong.

[Pandoras Kitten 3]

culture

 

Most local managers I know like to pick on their own staff first regardless of the facts. I give them hell in return.

 

There's also a annoying lack of initiative in terms of retail services. No one in TPY knows what's a "oven thermometer". Including a certain major oven and kitchen appliances retailer. How do people bake stuff properly, without ensuring the oven is of the right temperature? Oh I know they just buy their cakes these days.

 

I don't know why people like to give me accusing looks and reply "I don't know" or "We don't have" immediately, which encourages me to give their competitors my business and spread their bad reputation even further.

[Mark C.]

Making headlines for the Wrong Reason.

This is what bugging me.

Just wondering, of so many people, why always her?

I really can't remember how many time she hit the headline, any 1 know?

[cougar]

Making headlines for the Wrong Reason.

This is what bugging me.

Just wondering, of so many people, why always her?

I really can't remember how many time she hit the headline, any 1 know?

 

i dont know, but saw her ex-husband working as an estate agent.

anyway, Sg got no real news to report lah..

[Mark C.]

i dont know, but saw her ex-husband working as an estate agent.

anyway, Sg got no real news to report lah..

 

True.

This sort of news..

[GuiNNeSS]

That my office accountants machiam like not really working leh. Not because they drag my pay, but more like, they cannot answer emails regards to small accounting inquries.

 

Please lah......the guy want to know whether his representative paid the bill. Can't you check? I have to take a lot of flake from outside people. But if you cannot even look and tell me. Then might as well just pass me the accounts and I manage the records. You can do the balancing work later.

[kinwei]

It is damn bugging me when I found my bike cover missing and my bike is lying on the ground this morning. Lucky my slider do its job. I'm just afraid that guy will come back for round 2!

[GuiNNeSS]

That guy is back. And I am kinda being forced to have to follow thru my words to sleep with him.

 

Dam sianz. I really dont want to sleep with him nor do I have any intention to want to. And I dont want to ruin him. He still has wife, kids and so on, that will really ruin him. Not my karma to ruin his life. But I really sianz with his tactics.....always the same ole thing.

 

Talk to me, be nice to me, 'concerned for me' but at the end, saying that me and him should be together blah blah blah in the dark, just because I have a bad reputation. And on the other hand, uses me to tell other people, how concerned he is about my mental state, therefore 'counselling' me.

 

All men are the same, goody two shoes in front, but freaking creeps on the inside.

[Silverelf]

That guy is back. And I am kinda being forced to have to follow thru my words to sleep with him.

 

Dam sianz. I really dont want to sleep with him nor do I have any intention to want to. And I dont want to ruin him. He still has wife, kids and so on, that will really ruin him. Not my karma to ruin his life. But I really sianz with his tactics.....always the same ole thing.

 

Talk to me, be nice to me, 'concerned for me' but at the end, saying that me and him should be together blah blah blah in the dark, just because I have a bad reputation. And on the other hand, uses me to tell other people, how concerned he is about my mental state, therefore 'counselling' me.

 

All men are the same, goody two shoes in front, but freaking creeps on the inside.

I hope that you would be able to resolve this matter.... I guess it's really hard or almost impossible but I hope it clears up!

[Pandoras Kitten 3]

Talk to me, be nice to me, 'concerned for me' but at the end, saying that me and him should be together blah blah blah in the dark, just because I have a bad reputation. And on the other hand, uses me to tell other people, how concerned he is about my mental state, therefore 'counselling' me.

 

These people take any sort of response from yourself as "agreement" and will not stop bugging their "targets" until something drastic happens to him. Such are chauvinists who think that a silent feminine party can be bent to his will with enough persistence.

 

Therefore that something drastic should be sooner rather than later.

 

There is no motive to the above statements; I'm just sick of throwing such so-called men out of the front door or into the hospital for the past decade or so.

[GuiNNeSS]

At first I tot it bugs me, that I am hurt that people has been rejecting my adding them as friends in facebook, or that I found out how some people have blocked me at messengers.

 

But then I realised, that these people, that I actually had face to face contact with, and we argued and they did this kinda block on such online programs, are actually guilty of their own superiority complex.

 

When we die, we go and see God, can anyone lied about who they actually cross path in real life, and act superior against, by means of deleting or blocking persons online?

 

So at the end of the day....its up to you to answer to God and your own conscience, what you have made used of others, and how you turned around and hurt others, and continue being superior, because of your bad actions.

 

Though, there are some, who delete friends off, or write them off or forgot about friends....because of no contact or not moving in similar circles....it does not mean that you

[GuiNNeSS]

...are forgotten or not wished upon, that you are living it well and good.

[GuiNNeSS]

Nope. I am not hurt, but I realised that I can only be hurt, if I let such people's hypocrisy hurts me.

 

Face to face, smile, say nice things...thinking online block is your inner thoughts, privacy thingy....is really naive.

[stsoh]

anyway ppl whom dun want to be friend then dun be friend to them.

there r ppl tat we dun like, these ppl just ignore them.

first of all, dun like them so why bother to listen or even talk to them.

ignore, ignore, dun bother, dun bother, dun talk, dun talk.

if need talk of official work, just talk officially then stop.

they bother u, just ignore them.

kept bothering, just ignore them until they realized.

coz the moment we open our mouth, it hurts us more than them.

 

ps:

second nature for a human to smile when he/she need some favors/sales/needs.

be aware those whom smiles, he/she needs something from u.

Edited July 8, 2010 by stsoh

[BottleCap]

My expenses are going very very high

[Jeethan]

projects, tests and revision. haiz.

[FMC]

want to study !!!!!

[ThePole]

changed my front wheel yesterday. today dun noe why feel that it is out of alignment. need to see mech again, sigh...

[Fried Rice]

her lor.

[Silverelf]

I don't know whether I am being self centred but it feels like most of the time I am there for people, instead of people being there for me. I dunno. I guess in a way that is good, as in I can help people instead of being helped. It's so tiring. Energy sucking. I'm just ticked, tired and sick of it especially since my friend got herself into a 419 scam.

[stanco]

I don't know whether I am being self centred but it feels like most of the time I am there for people, instead of people being there for me. I dunno. I guess in a way that is good, as in I can help people instead of being helped. It's so tiring. Energy sucking. I'm just ticked, tired and sick of it especially since my friend got herself into a 419 scam.

 

how can you be self centered if you are always there helping others?

 

anyway what's a 419 scam about?

[Silverelf]

how can you be self centered if you are always there helping others?

 

anyway what's a 419 scam about?

 

Well, because it may be that I only think I am helping others, if you get what I mean.

 

A 419 scam is one of those email scams, (typically what people call Nigerian scams) where they claim to need someone to 'take over' some inheritance. So long story short, my friend picked up an email boyfriend and sent money over.

[stanco]

OMG! those email scam actually works?

 

so how much did your friend lose?

[Silverelf]

OMG! those email scam actually works?

 

so how much did your friend lose?

 

Oh yeah. They do work. She sent 64.5k (that I know of).