[Discussion] What's bugging you now?

[Seastorm]

Over stressed now... gagging all the time coz of my gastric, dun feel like eating but forcing food down, heart palpitations... light headedness... trembling ... unable to sleep coz too many things to think about... going to have a lock of white hair soon if this continues. Urge to cry, think must be the stress...

 

Think will wake up early tomorrow and take public transport to work, not in a good frame of mind for riding.

[angel22]

Originally posted by Sky99@March 10, 2007 06:45 pm

h0w t0 reject girl. and also won't make her sad. dun wan spoil our friendship. but i dun like her. HELP!.

This sounds familiar.... Pleaseeeee be gentle and tactful and kind towards her feelings. Don't be so direct and shoooooot at her like bull's eye.... like telling her "you're not my type because ....." ... she won't talk to you again for quite a while I'm sure....

 

Anyway side track abit... anyone ever crossed a red light camera and got caught exactly 2 weeks before TP test?

[Unagi]

Originally posted by Sky99+March 10, 2007 06:45 pm-->

QUOTE (Sky99 @ March 10, 2007 06:45 pm)

h0w t0 reject girl. and also won't make her sad. dun wan spoil our friendship. but i dun like her. HELP!.[/b]

[Unagi]

Originally posted by ViciousKitty74@March 09, 2007 10:48 am

I am not sure. Could be my hormones in flux-ing at the moment.

 

But I felt very tired, not for any reason. Just tired.

 

I just dont feel like going back to sg.

 

Just want to find someone, even if its anyone. To settle with him, cook, wash & tidy the house for him and live my life as that.

 

Dont want to think about returning to sg, dont want to think about the future, except for a allowance of $1000/- a month, to save for old age and hopefully pay for some essentials and maintain that darn flat in Singapore for the family.

 

Its like....I am not in the mood to live. Just to live, get by until I can donate my organs.

I think most people would have had this experience some point in their lives. Just... wanting to relax and not bother about anything anymore, lead a simple life and 'get it over and done with'.

 

For me, I would spend some time alone and think about past and recent events. Maybe try something new. Just waste my time away. Will feel better afterwards, might take weeks, or even months. But it's a good time to reflect on what you've done all this while.

 

I don't know what this means to you but, just rest. You might find new goals to persue in time to come. Important thing is don't make any 'big' decisions which might cause you to regret later in life.

 

Seastorm: you posted a pretty interesting suggestion (though I don't think being a nun is the best way out)

[angel22]

Originally posted by tridagger@March 13, 2007 12:57 am

 

Yeah I kenna before... somehow even before you finish your sentence she'll realise that it's not good news and give you the dissapointed look immediately. Bo bian de... End up very awkward, feel very bad.

 

If anyone got tried and tested proven good method please share hor...

Then did you tell the girl how you felt in the end?

[sWalloW]

1 of the saddest things in life is loving someone that once loved you.. and 1 of the biggest mistake is to think that the person who hurt u most wun hurt u again.

 

Been putting on a smiley face infront of the whole world pretending that I have moved on when in actual fact I have not.

I'm sick and tired of pretending to be strong. Wish to cry my heart out but after so long of feeling numb..just duno how to do it.

 

This pile of sh*t has been bugging me for so long and i feel like screaming at everyone and everything!

[pyro13]

just cry to ur pillow..tats d best gerl!

[angel22]

Originally posted by sWalloW@March 13, 2007 10:01 am

1 of the saddest things in life is loving someone that once loved you.. and 1 of the biggest mistake is to think that the person who hurt u most wun hurt u again.

 

Been putting on a smiley face infront of the whole world pretending that I have moved on when in actual fact I have not.

I'm sick and tired of pretending to be strong. Wish to cry my heart out but after so long of feeling numb..just duno how to do it.

 

This pile of sh*t has been bugging me for so long and i feel like screaming at everyone and everything!

I know... you try to move on... yet when you see that person again, the feelings will all come back.

 

You try to pretend to your friends you've moved on and don't care or bother about the person anymore... yet deep down you know that isn't true.

[Seastorm]

Originally posted by pyro13@March 13, 2007 10:23 am

just cry to ur pillow..tats d best gerl!

Sometimes it's not coz we dun want to cry, it's coz we have forgotten how to cry. the lump in ur throat is there and your eyes burn but yet the tears will not come.

[Aie]

Yesterday when I got home at night, I found this probation plate car parked in between two slots. A bike and a car slot. As such, I can't park my bike at the bike slot and had to park it somewhere further. This isn't the first time that the driver of that car park indiscriminately. My mrs ever left a note on the windscreen of that car but the driver couldn't care less. The next time, I'm gonna take a picture and send it to HDB for summon action...

[compfused]

Originally posted by Aie@March 14, 2007 11:49 am

Yesterday when I got home at night, I found this probation plate car parked in between two slots. A bike and a car slot. As such, I can't park my bike at the bike slot and had to park it somewhere further. This isn't the first time that the driver of that car park indiscriminately. My mrs ever left a note on the windscreen of that car but the driver couldn't care less. The next time, I'm gonna take a picture and send it to HDB for summon action...

HDB only? Send to STOMP as well la..They seem to like to post such "NEWS"..Ahaha..

[angel22]

Originally posted by Aie@March 14, 2007 11:49 am

Yesterday when I got home at night, I found this probation plate car parked in between two slots. A bike and a car slot. As such, I can't park my bike at the bike slot and had to park it somewhere further. This isn't the first time that the driver of that car park indiscriminately. My mrs ever left a note on the windscreen of that car but the driver couldn't care less. The next time, I'm gonna take a picture and send it to HDB for summon action...

HDB will summon ?That stupid HDB office at my place said they couldnt do anything when I told them abt a similar incident. If can summon, you tell me! I'll complain abt the HDB at my place!! Pay tax and they do nothing!!

[Unagi]

Originally posted by angel22@March 13, 2007 08:00 am

Then did you tell the girl how you felt in the end?

Oh yeah, she got the idea.

 

Couple of months later saw her with another guy holding hands, happy for her.

[Unagi]

Originally posted by Aie@March 14, 2007 11:49 am

Yesterday when I got home at night, I found this probation plate car parked in between two slots. A bike and a car slot. As such, I can't park my bike at the bike slot and had to park it somewhere further. This isn't the first time that the driver of that car park indiscriminately. My mrs ever left a note on the windscreen of that car but the driver couldn't care less. The next time, I'm gonna take a picture and send it to HDB for summon action...

What a coincidence, just this afternoon there was a car which parked right ON the row of 5 bike lots just below my place!

 

My bro said I should've taken a pic and send to HDB with his number plate, but I thought never mind lah, cos it was lunch time and I guess the car lots were full. Not everyday so still okay. I went to park across the road.

[angel22]

Originally posted by tridagger@March 14, 2007 11:44 pm

Oh yeah, she got the idea.

 

Couple of months later saw her with another guy holding hands, happy for her.

Guess it takes time... just slightly longer for girls to accept facts sometimes.

[Aie]

Originally posted by angel22@March 14, 2007 09:52 pm

HDB will summon ?That stupid HDB office at my place said they couldnt do anything when I told them abt a similar incident. If can summon, you tell me! I'll complain abt the HDB at my place!! Pay tax and they do nothing!!

I think if you have evidence in the form of a picture, then HDB can carry out summon action. Otherwise, it will be your words against the errant driver. If HDB still does not carry out any action, can complain against them liao...

[PinKcHicK]

I'm feeling utterly terrible now. Can anyone help?

[flareon1982]

What happen to u?

[PinKcHicK]

someone dear passed away .. and i felt terrible.

miss it when she called for my name, regretted didn't spend enough time with her..

even more sad when i neglected her when she turned senile.

now no chance to tok to her..

 

To tink abt being angry with senile people, and vs to miss them, i rather have none.. really feeling terrible.

[Marcheline]

Don't feel that way. You can feel anger, denial but at the end of the day, you will accept that the person you love has moved on. Don't live tomoro with What ifs, instead, be proud that previously, you made her day once, made her smile and laugh and made her feel loved. If you had overlooked her before she passed on, it is normal since everyone takes the person they love for granted when they see that person everyday and/or the person falls sick. Use this as a learning lesson to treasure all your loved ones..

[PinKcHicK]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 16, 2007 01:21 am

Don't feel that way. You can feel anger, denial but at the end of the day, you will accept that the person you love has moved on. Don't live tomoro with What ifs, instead, be proud that previously, you made her day once, made her smile and laugh and made her feel loved. If you had overlooked her before she passed on, it is normal since everyone takes the person they love for granted when they see that person everyday and/or the person falls sick. Use this as a learning lesson to treasure all your loved ones..

thanks, juz hope tat time can heal wounds. even 5 years had passed and i still miss my grandpa.

 

i juz hate myself for being emotional over things.

[Guest doremo]

i lost my log card... what shall i do???

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Originally posted by doremo@March 17, 2007 06:25 pm

i lost my log card... what shall i do???

Go to LTA with your NRIC.

 

Queue and get a new one. Pay.

[Seastorm]

Office PC hard disk died... all my work .. all my data.. gone .. vanish.. ka put .. i can quit liao.. no need to work liao...

 

lol.. heng I felt something not right 1 month ago. So at least still got an old back up.. but still all my current work gone.. haiz...

 

Wonder if I am too emotionally attached to my office PC, so much so that I can "feel" when the speed and preformance was not at it's usual 1 month ago...

[Enotsol]

Originally posted by doremo@March 17, 2007 06:25 pm

i lost my log card... what shall i do???

The logcards are all electronic now. When you are doing the transfer, just tell the person you lost your logcard, they will simply process the transfer for you.