[Discussion] What's bugging you now?

[Raptor]

Originally posted by Adermodickder@March 20, 2007 12:09 am

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This REALLY bugs me.

 

This guy even posted in the On the Track site.

 

Can this sexually deviant idiot be tracked down and handed over to the police?

[Enotsol]

Originally posted by Raptor@March 20, 2007 01:10 am

This REALLY bugs me.

 

This guy even posted in the On the Track site.

 

Can this sexually deviant idiot be tracked down and handed over to the police?

Unfortunately as a moderator all I can do is remove/move threads and edit posts..

 

Anything else would be up to the boss.

[Raptor]

Originally posted by Enotsol@March 20, 2007 01:28 am

Unfortunately as a moderator all I can do is remove/move threads and edit posts..

 

Anything else would be up to the boss.

Understand. Thanks.

 

Am sure the boss won't condone this kind of stuff here too.

 

Ride safe Bro.

[qebalt]

I'm still study and got an old bike.

 

really old that makes most of the people around me to ask when I'll upgrade.

 

everytime I meet my mechanic for repairs, he'll tell me, no need to repair, just sell it.

 

sometimes, it kinda annoying, makes me wanna to curse something to them.

 

2 years more for me to graduate.

 

what should I do to make them to shut the hell up?

[Aie]

Originally posted by qebalt@March 20, 2007 03:15 am

I'm still study and got an old bike.

really old that makes most of the people around me to ask when I'll upgrade.

everytime I meet my mechanic for repairs, he'll tell me, no need to repair, just sell it.

sometimes, it kinda annoying, makes me wanna to curse something to them.

2 years more for me to graduate.

what should I do to make them to shut the hell up?

For the rest of the people, heck care them. For the mechanic, service your bike elsewhere...

[pyro13]

go to another mech,.they dun wan ur money..give it to sum1 else

[flareon1982]

Heck them lah. What rights do they have to criticise your bike.

[Marcheline]

I was with this girl for 5 years and we broke up in August '06. Been with her since Sec 4. I tried patching back with her all along but she refuses, saying she's better off alone and being happy. Then last night, I stumbled across her private blog through Google. In her December '06 entry, she talked about being intimate with this exchange student from Netherlands. Now I'm feeling so much anger and betrayal. I asked her without quoting the blog, whether she dated any foreign guys after me and she brushed it off, saying it was just a casual friendship with an exchange student. I smsed her for the truth and she's ignoring me.

 

I have not been able to move on because I love her a lot. Every single day, whether while serving out my ns or during my off days, I would think of her. I have picked up healthy activities like going out with friends, gymming, running, BUT I CANT SEEM TO MOVE ON. It's been 7 months. Last time, when our relationship was at about 2 years, we had some time to cool off, and she admitted that she slept with her friend's cousin and cried when she confessed to me, saying that she'd never do it again. Pls help me~ :cry: I'm feeling so much anger.. So so much because I have and will continue loving her..

[wait4me]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 20, 2007 11:41 am

I was with this girl for 5 years and we broke up in August '06. Been with her since Sec 4. I tried patching back with her all along but she refuses, saying she's better off alone and being happy. Then last night, I stumbled across her private blog through Google. In her December '06 entry, she talked about being intimate with this exchange student from Netherlands. Now I'm feeling so much anger and betrayal. I asked her without quoting the blog, whether she dated any foreign guys after me and she brushed it off, saying it was just a casual friendship with an exchange student. I smsed her for the truth and she's ignoring me.

 

I have not been able to move on because I love her a lot. Every single day, whether while serving out my ns or during my off days, I would think of her. I have picked up healthy activities like going out with friends, gymming, running, BUT I CANT SEEM TO MOVE ON. It's been 7 months. Last time, when our relationship was at about 2 years, we had some time to cool off, and she admitted that she slept with her friend's cousin and cried when she confessed to me, saying that she'd never do it again. Pls help me~ :cry: I'm feeling so much anger.. So so much because I have and will continue loving her..

love hate and pain and anguish

 

 

i feel for u bro

[Marcheline]

I'm still trying to ask her what happened between her and the foreign exchange student.. I'm feeling so much anguish not knowing. She replied telling me to F*** OFF as she did not do anything with that guy. I do not want to quote the blog as it is the only source of info now that i can have regarding her daily life. I can't think of anything else now.. There's anger, hurt and all sorts of mixed feelings over the lie and betrayal.

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 20, 2007 12:36 pm

I'm still trying to ask her what happened between her and the foreign exchange student.. I'm feeling so much anguish not knowing. She replied telling me to F*** OFF as she did not do anything with that guy. I do not want to quote the blog as it is the only source of info now that i can have regarding her daily life. I can't think of anything else now.. There's anger, hurt and all sorts of mixed feelings over the lie and betrayal.

you broked up 7 months ago.

 

she state in her blog she was intimate with a foreign guy in December 06.

 

she is right. it is none of your business and this dont qualify as betrayal because she and you are not in a commited relationship anymore!

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Originally posted by Raptor@March 20, 2007 01:10 am

This REALLY bugs me.

 

This guy even posted in the On the Track site.

 

Can this sexually deviant idiot be tracked down and handed over to the police?

Yes. Can be done.

 

As long as there is a complainant/informant to start the ball rolling.

[seancxm]

bro.. so sorry to hear abt this.

 

i believe a lot of us have been in messy break-ups and i've been in one too. i hope my advice can be of use to you...

 

what u really need to do is to completely erase her from your life. cut communication immediately. it's obvious she cant be bothered with maintaining a friendship. so why should u?

 

u need to stop trying to find out what's going on in her life. stop wondering what she's doing. let her get on with her life and then only will you be able to get on with yours.

 

hang out with your buddies more often.. try not to be alone as you'll often find yourself thinking about her.

 

you've taken up hobbies and that's a good step forward. continue to do so.

 

in time, you'll forget about her and before you know it, a better and more deserving gal will appear right before your eyes.

[Raptor]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 20, 2007 12:36 pm

I'm still trying to ask her what happened between her and the foreign exchange student.. I'm feeling so much anguish not knowing. She replied telling me to F*** OFF as she did not do anything with that guy. I do not want to quote the blog as it is the only source of info now that i can have regarding her daily life. I can't think of anything else now.. There's anger, hurt and all sorts of mixed feelings over the lie and betrayal.

Bro... I know exactly how you feel and I know it is very painful. Been through that before too.

 

As long as your conscience is clear.. meaning you were not the one who played the hiding and lying game and caused the breakup... hold your head up, pick up the pieces and walk.

 

Time will heal a broken heart, but I also understand that time can sometimes go by so slowly and yet do so much.

 

Sometimes you got to sit back and look at it again and then thank the Man upstairs for unanswered prayers. Things may be happening now that will be of good to you only in the future.

 

You don't want to go back to woman like this kind simply because she is not worthy of your love. She can do it once to you... she can do it to you again. Imagine if you were married to her and she did this again!!

 

Love is not love when you are not loved in return. Period.

 

Take care.

[Throttle]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 20, 2007 12:36 pm

I'm still trying to ask her what happened between her and the foreign exchange student.. I'm feeling so much anguish not knowing. She replied telling me to F*** OFF as she did not do anything with that guy. I do not want to quote the blog as it is the only source of info now that i can have regarding her daily life. I can't think of anything else now.. There's anger, hurt and all sorts of mixed feelings over the lie and betrayal.

Dude,

 

I know it's easier said than done but we got to be able to take it on and put it down.

 

Cut yourself off from this person. As other forumers advise, move on to some other things with your friends. Learn a new skill. Play a new sport. Discover a new place. Meet new friends.

 

Stay off her blog, come to singaporebikes instead.

You must make the decision not to be a slave emotionally to her anymore.

 

Everyone who is betrayed by a loved one goes through a certain range of emotions. You are still at the early stage. But believe me, as time passes, down the road, you'll think back and wonder why you even bother with her.

 

I welcome you to have a cigar with the gang from Cigars Cigars Cigars thread.

[Guest doremo]

thanks for e advice, but i forget when my coe due... i need the info. wher can i find when my coe due? i need this info for selling my bike... thanks

[Seastorm]

Moving on is very hard, time drags and the heart bleeds, I remember the pain, really felt like a knife had stabbed me. Sometimes the pain was so intense that I wonder would having an actual wound be less painful then the emotional pain.

But when the decision comes to move on, there is only 1 thing to be done, physically, emotionally and mentally remove the memories. Anything, however minor that reminds you of that person, throw it away, erase pictures, delete numbers. No matter how emotionally attached you are to that item.

Lastly, challenge yourself. Mind over body... train your mind to think of other things in your life.

I'm still trying to achieve that mind over body thing. Like when i see my bed i auto just "drift" towards it and plop myself in it and snuggle sunggle then...zzzzzzzzz......

[Raptor]

"When you love someone, you give them the power to hurt you".

[Guest doremo]

very true instead. still trying to recover. what fail to kill me, wil make me stronger and motivate me!

[åæçˆ]

well, sometimes, u might ask urself, if dat person is WORTH TO be sad over , in dat case, u do the comparsion, you will feel much better and that person will have NO POWER to hurt u anymore...

 

when comes to r/s, being optistimic is the best solution.

 

Never indulge in stained r/s, make urself more vexed and happier.

 

I am one living example, i m happy that i have made the rite choice

 

just regret that i should made the choice earlier..

 

Cheer up, dude..

[åæçˆ]

i din bring the hp today... will be bored to tears today , argh !

 

 

dats is bugging me now...

 

[ranzl]

chat on msn n forum lor. den wun be so bored. mi is got hp also no 1 call. haha

[åæçˆ]

Originally posted by ranzl@March 21, 2007 08:52 am

chat on msn n forum lor. den wun be so bored. mi is got hp also no 1 call. haha

:cheeky:

[ranzl]

i even more bored den u ar. like i go pia post in every thread. haha.

[åæçˆ]

good try nia.. keep it up..

 

haha