I have a very sad life

[nevereatmee]

singaporean chinese guy born in 1984

 

Parents divorced in 1996 when I was 12 years old

 

I went to stay with father and stepmother.

 

They are siao langs who put cctv camera and phone recording device to spy on me. Father everyday ask em to study hard so I can get good results than can earn alot of money to give him

 

I cannot tolerate him and went back to stay with mother and grandmother when I was 18 years old.

 

Everything was well until my grandmother pass away in 2011.

 

Than I slowly found out my mother did not want to stay with me. She trusted my grandmother and join bank account with her. She did not trust me because she is scare when I get marry, I and wife will beat her and chase her out of the house etc

 

I started joining dating agencies to try to find a gf to get marry.

 

Until now I have spend about $8k but still cannot find a gf

 

I only earn 2.3k a month so its hard to find a gf

 

 

Anyone here got girls can introduce to me?

[bluesky3000]

Lol, wah thats quite a background story, why would you resort to post here for girls?!

[nevereatmee]

because I have tried all other methods to get a gf but failed..

[adesmond2]

On 5/15/2019 at 5:28 PM, nevereatmee said:

singaporean chinese guy born in 1984

 

Parents divorced in 1996 when I was 12 years old

 

I went to stay with father and stepmother.

 

They are siao langs who put cctv camera and phone recording device to spy on me. Father everyday ask em to study hard so I can get good results than can earn alot of money to give him

 

I cannot tolerate him and went back to stay with mother and grandmother when I was 18 years old.

 

Everything was well until my grandmother pass away in 2011.

 

Than I slowly found out my mother did not want to stay with me. She trusted my grandmother and join bank account with her. She did not trust me because she is scare when I get marry, I and wife will beat her and chase her out of the house etc

 

I started joining dating agencies to try to find a gf to get marry.

 

Until now I have spend about $8k but still cannot find a gf

 

I only earn 2.3k a month so its hard to find a gf

 

 

Anyone here got girls can introduce to me?

 

Hi bro,

I have pretty much similar family background with yours. But mine is way way more complicated with ah longs (loan shark), attempted suicide, run house to house and many many more.. 

As I'm the eldest.. So I grew a lot more mature comparing to others who's the same age as me.. I gotten my first flat at 21. 

Story cut short, one of my sibling and one of my parent still stay with me.. I have a wife and 2 kids.

I used to earn ONLY 800 per month when I found my gf back then. we quarrel quite a fair bit until I job hopped till 2k.. (at least sustainable), 800-1000-1200-1300-1500-1800-2000 (imagine how many jobs I hop)

Here's a few advises.

1) Always be positive, dun think of negative but just be aware and dun drop off too much.

2) There's a saying in Chinese, " I rather kill wrongly then let one go off", this can applies to chasing ladies as well.

3) No gals to intro but you can find them yourself, we used to go out to look for girls and pick them up.. But as the days changes, only thru free dating apps. You might come across a lot of fake accounts but DUN throw money to them to meet up. Meet up then talk more.. Those asking you to pay for their top up cards and etc are either scams or just girls who are married or they might be even guys.. =.= (Be more open minded, divorcee also can, I see a lot of ladies who has divorce still look amazing but but, they might come with 1-2 kids) Personally depending on your characters ba. & how people intro ladies to you without knowing you first right? haha.. 

4) Open yourself up to more social gathering even thru it's quite restricted now.. but whenever there's any meet up, just go and meet up and see if there's any "single ladies"..   (remember, limit to 2 social gathering per day) haha...

5) Lastly, for any physical or outlook attraction, you might need to dress up a bit more to woo ladies.. effort counts! Dun go in shorts and singlet and expect the lady to show interest in you.. (shorts and singlet only for married man with kids) hahahaha..

[SBF]

Bro @adesmond2 - You the man. What a great inspiration. Thanks for sharing!

[localkefir]

On 5/23/2019 at 5:02 PM, bluesky3000 said:

Lol, wah thats quite a background story, why would you resort to post here for girls?! basket random

Yeah, "a very sad life" sounds too serious lol 

[adesmond2]

 

2 hours ago, localkefir said:

Yeah, "a very sad life" sounds too serious lol 

Serious  may depends on individual.. Some people might not survive without a relationship.. Some people might live better without a relationship..

I believe the TS (Tread Starter) would need more motivation to move on and widen his circle of friends..  

[adesmond2]

https://singaporeuncensored.com/woman-cant-find-a-bf-i-want-to-love-be-loved-back-but-no-one-wants-me/?feed_id=85109

100% got someone somewhere waiting.. just time is not ripe.. 

I saw this article and suddenly recall this thread and want to share here as well.. Hopefully TS (Thread Starter) has found his love one..  

[Siphon]

Actually… sounds like a pretty normal life  

if you can’t find a gf… why not focus on work first? When you establish your own stable life maybe gf will find u instead . 
 

sad life is for the guy who happened to be in the accident 3 days ago.

I’m still feeling sad for the fellow rider who lost his wife in the accident. 

[adesmond2]

43 minutes ago, Siphon said:

Actually… sounds like a pretty normal life  

if you can’t find a gf… why not focus on work first? When you establish your own stable life maybe gf will find u instead . 
 

sad life is for the guy who happened to be in the accident 3 days ago.

I’m still feeling sad for the fellow rider who lost his wife in the accident. 

diamond wang tiger.. (in Chinese) haha..

I have never been single more then 2 weeks since I was 14 yo..  It's been more then 20 years since then.. 

If GF find you.. = that would be aiming at money instead.. or some other benefits.. 

 

Haix.. this one is indeed.. super sad...