[Discussion] What's bugging you now?

[Aie]

Originally posted by Raptor@Mar 18 2006, 08:36 PM

Ya, I know how you feel.

 

I like people to talk straight. Dunno why some people cannot come clean and straight. Give all the limp ###### excuses till you get pissed off and then finally come out with the truth.

 

Lack of moral courage or what, I dunno. Damn sian with this type of people.

Luckily I don't fall in this category of people. I very steady one. Can go, I'll go. Cannot go, I say cannot. However, should some last minute family thingy crops up, I will always give ample time to inform my friends. My friends also understanding. Family man sometimes got other urgent things to attend to first.

[ReBornBikeR]

Originally posted by retro@Mar 18 2006, 03:50 PM

why get proton... try kia picanto??? also abt the same price...

Today check out the proton SAVVY,

A very basic car, not worth consideration at all

 

External looks quite good, something like a swift

But internal is barest minimum expected of a car and the plastic is cheap

 

Might check out the picanto next

[ReBornBikeR]

Originally posted by retro@Mar 18 2006, 03:51 PM

well to do ppl no need loans liao ma...

 

anyway something is bugging me now.. my credit card bills building up... anyone any suggeations for credit transfers???

Try to settle credit card bills in full,

do not pay the minimum sum because the interest charge is quite high, not worth it.

[Lass]

btw teams and btw offices' competitiveness is driving me nuts! supposely having some competition is good but to take tat to the extend of running one of the other office down is atrocious....it only goes to show how unpro the company is and matter is out of my hands. i hope the person responsible will be duly and appropriately punished! guess company's biz strategy becomes questionable now.

[chaos_heaven]

Wat bugging me now..Last night working night shift,reach home slp at ard 1pm, 215pm receive "open Mob", report, reach home 630pm.Now working again>>conclusion :very slply.

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Actually, I am not in the best of moods now.

 

Cos

 

1) I cried like shitz in the morning.

2) I rode out to my work place (even though I am not suppose to be workign) to use the internet cos the vibes at home was too irritating.

3) I just read about one forumer who is now sort of trying to flame another forumer over chee hong issues.

4) I remember this forumer being as chee hong also and is definitely flaming the other forumer for what he himself does also.

[Seastorm]

Hi VK hope you feel better soon.

The sun is still shinning today...

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Originally posted by Seastorm@Mar 19 2006, 02:47 PM

Hi VK hope you feel better soon.

The sun is still shinning today...

Thanks babe.

 

Will be much better. I always try to be.

 

Sun shining, very hot lah. Come office here, drink teh tarik and enjoy aircon better. Even though its far to ride, but at least I got some hard riding to take off some of my edges. Now I am left with some viciousness which I am gong to 'bomb' some boys with

[devoted]

Originally posted by ViciousKitty74@Mar 19 2006, 02:39 PM

Actually, I am not in the best of moods now.

 

Cos

 

1) I cried like shitz in the morning.

2) I rode out to my work place (even though I am not suppose to be workign) to use the internet cos the vibes at home was too irritating.

3) I just read about one forumer who is now sort of trying to flame another forumer over chee hong issues.

4) I remember this forumer being as chee hong also and is definitely flaming the other forumer for what he himself does also.

 

( blur )

abt #3 & #4

 

 

but dear kitty da jie~

b comforted yo~

 

if u like2have a quiet moment, office is reli not a bad place~

try to on some good sooothing muisc~

 

but encourage not to stay there too long,

not very gd de~ might sink even deeper lor~

hmmm~

mayb go for a spin, go to gym to sweat it out?

or a good relaxing spa or massage to pamper yourself~

(not those gd branded big branches type) some of them (small-family style) are real cheap de~

 

take care yo~

[Aie]

Originally posted by ViciousKitty74@Mar 19 2006, 02:39 PM

Actually, I am not in the best of moods now.

 

Cos

 

1) I cried like shitz in the morning.

2) I rode out to my work place (even though I am not suppose to be workign) to use the internet cos the vibes at home was too irritating.

3) I just read about one forumer who is now sort of trying to flame another forumer over chee hong issues.

4) I remember this forumer being as chee hong also and is definitely flaming the other forumer for what he himself does also.

For number 3 : People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

For number 4 : Pot calling the kettle black.

Hope that you are feeling better now, ViciousKitty74...

[devoted]

Originally posted by Aie@Mar 20 2006, 02:08 AM

For number 3 : People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

For number 4 : Pot calling the kettle black.

Hope that you are feeling better now, ViciousKitty74...

 

i tin i roughly know by now wat is it already :sian:

yah,

agreed wif Aie:

lived in glass houses, is stressed enough, for every action will be seen and monitor already,

even throw a small stone will oso leave a crack on the glass wall~

got to be prudent, tin twice b4 throwing~

And,

it wld be worse if

tat it wont juz leave a crack, the small stone might bounce back and hit on to oneself~

while the whole lot of outsiders watching in the meantime~

 

s i g h ~ sianzzzz~

 

 

 

 

 

 

ai yah~

dear kitty da jie, i know u got a righteous spirit, and wld like to uphold justice,

but dun like tis kind small tin affect you mah~

sincerely,

hope you have a wonderful day today yo~

 

Cheers!

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Cute.

 

I can see a lot of folks trying to dissolve the scenerio at that thread.

 

And that fella has challenged me to go meet him with the word dare.

 

However, I got a Recall Exercise to handle today. Of course.....it wont be as big as how he always manage his people.......

 

But still, since he fired his first salvo on the forum. I wouldnt mind firing back on the same war ground. Wonder does he dare to show off his defence?

[Grave65]

haiz

 

why when all my exs got problems then they come to me????

 

hmmm

 

both exs got pregant ..... haiz ....

 

and its not mine and they ask me how to solve their prob ???

 

.... why exs treat me like that ........

 

life is so unfair... did not do it and they come to me with the prob

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Originally posted by Grave65@Mar 20 2006, 10:07 AM

haiz

 

why when all my exs got problems then they come to me????

 

hmmm

 

both exs got pregant ..... haiz ....

 

and its not mine and they ask me how to solve their prob ???

 

.... why exs treat me like that ........

 

life is so unfair... did not do it and they come to me with the prob

My dearie.....its about meeting/knowing a person at the wrong time.

 

They must have felt that you make a lovely hubby/father in the long run.

 

They just knew you too soon and that interfered in their plans for fun and games before they settled down.

 

So of cos, when they are pregnant after they dumped you, they look for the most stable guy they know to guide them out of their predicament.

[xain]

Originally posted by Grave65@Mar 20 2006, 10:07 AM

haiz

 

why when all my exs got problems then they come to me????

 

hmmm

 

both exs got pregant ..... haiz ....

 

and its not mine and they ask me how to solve their prob ???

 

.... why exs treat me like that ........

 

life is so unfair... did not do it and they come to me with the prob

wa~

this one jia lat.

 

 

personally, what i feel is you should stand firm lo.

not yers say no.

it's nice to help them but there are limits to helping.

you determine yer own limit.

 

 

another pt:

dun act like a "welcome" door mat to ppl who forsake you.

be forgiving, but never always welcome ppl to "step on you" like a door mat.

 

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

But but but....

 

what is there actually to help?

 

I know this sound kinda crazy, but what the girls needed was most likely a reassurance from grave that they are still desiierable.

 

The Ex come crying to say they are preggers. They are:

 

1) Hoping that grave65 will take control of the situation and offer to marry them and bring up the kid and other kids.

 

2) has grave65 take control the situation, get the abortion, take care of them and then marry them later and produce more kids. (Its more a matter of assuring themself that they are still desirable and still wanted by grave65, even after all the mess they created, they will in turn be so grateful to grave65 and love him so much more.)

 

3) has grave65 take control of the situation, get the abortion, take care of them and once they re-established their own self worth, they will be forever thankful to grave65 as a friend, but will marry other men later on.

 

4) using grave65 as a tool to atagonise their own b/f to spur them to do something. By making the father of the child jealous or to spite the father of the child in manners of 'controls'.

 

 

Preggie Females are most vunerable and illogical due to the hormones. And the right word & help from any quarters will be highly regarded.

[xain]

 

I think first and foremost Grave muz ask himself what is it that he wants.

 

1)be together with the ex(in this case one of them. both is a no-no ).

for myself, if i really love a woman so deep, i will accept her past; even if she did me wrong or have a baby liao.

 

2)help the exes like a fren; there is a limit what a fren can do. but offer support to them in this time of need.

 

i don't think jumping into a marriage is a good thing.

like Kitty said: women not in the right state of mind during preg.

If that's the case, there will be a possibility she leave you again after the baby's born. Like that one more person suffer: the child.

[devoted]

Originally posted by xain@Mar 20 2006, 11:07 AM

for myself, if i really love a woman so deep, i will accept her past; even if she did me wrong or have a baby liao.

 

wah~ your future wife will be very blessed and fortunate leh~

 

as not much guys can reli reli do so, as mainly due to pride/ego~

 

upon u can share this out,

i saluate to you~

 

:thumb:

[xain]

Originally posted by ^devoted^@Mar 20 2006, 11:36 AM

wah~ your future wife will be very blessed and fortunate leh~

 

as not much guys can reli reli do so, as mainly due to pride/ego~

 

upon u can share this out,

i saluate to you~

 

:thumb:

maybe becos i got no pride, no ego?

 

aiya~

my personal belief is that everyone has a past story to tell; good or bad, it's the past and it doesn't really matter as much as what's now and tomorrow.

i've made some grave mistakes in the past too.

 

i am also an imperfect human being ma.

so who am i actually to mind the small imperfections of the lady i love when she is willing to accept mine?

i should be grateful lo.

 

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Originally posted by xain@Mar 20 2006, 11:44 AM

i am also an imperfect human being ma.

so who am i actually to mind the small imperfections of the lady i love when she is willing to accept mine?

i should be grateful lo.

Gals!!! What are you waiting for!!!

 

But if he reneged on that sentence.

 

We will all help to blanket party this guy!

 

I promise I will throw in a few kicks :D

[Guest ViciousKitty74]

Originally posted by xain@Mar 20 2006, 11:44 AM

i am also an imperfect human being ma.

so who am i actually to mind the small imperfections of the lady i love when she is willing to accept mine?

i should be grateful lo.

Gals!!! What are you waiting for!!!

 

But if he reneged on that sentence.

 

We will all help to blanket party this guy!

 

I promise I will throw in a few kicks :D

[xain]

Originally posted by ViciousKitty74@Mar 20 2006, 12:15 PM

Gals!!! What are you waiting for!!!

 

But if he reneged on that sentence.

 

We will all help to blanket party this guy!

 

I promise I will throw in a few kicks :D

:help:

 

[GR1Y]

Originally posted by ^devoted^@Mar 20 2006, 11:36 AM

wah~ your future wife will be very blessed and fortunate leh~

 

as not much guys can reli reli do so, as mainly due to pride/ego~

 

upon u can share this out,

i saluate to you~

 

:thumb:

me agree with xian too...if really love som1,better love their everything including their child whom might nt b ur very own bt is wat flesh & blood from ur loves 1.....

bt nt love blindly to the extend till seeing them flirt around n do kinky behind u....chances is wat i gave lor....3x n tats all gone...if still can tahan,chances will b extended lolx

[xain]

Originally posted by 7george8@Mar 20 2006, 01:59 PM

me agree with xian too...if really love som1,better love their everything including their child whom might nt b ur very own bt is wat flesh & blood from ur loves 1.....

bt nt love blindly to the extend till seeing them flirt around n do kinky behind u....chances is wat i gave lor....3x n tats all gone...if still can tahan,chances will b extended lolx

:cry:

 

one more man to join me in Kitty's blanket part!?

 

[xain]

but i think maybe becos i did some really regretful things ba.

and hated myself for them.

maybe that's why i wun mind other's past. Cos i wun want them to mind the kind of person i was, or the ugly things that i had done in the past.