How would you answer, if a girl ask u this question?

[KwanYu]

How would you answer, if a girl ask u this question?

"when you have to choose between two things/decision , which one should you follow is it really your heart or your brain?"

[paiseh]

cannot answer la, need to know wat thing wat decision. different people different decision. in life we have different priorities at different age... so there is no end to it.

 

so i would say it is a mix of both heart and brain. but weightage depends on the above mentioned point.

[benxie]

brain lah my heart cannot think one

[C.S]

the other head can think?????

[xXxRatedxXx]

Brain la.... god give you brain for what? Bai sui ah?

[ChaoPuzzy1968]

just follow the heart ....in singapore the brain is bai sui ....

[Ash Casper Sullivan]

brain lah my heart cannot think one

 

ya true true.. eventho u'll follow ur heart, but u still need the brain to think mah =)

[Phang]

Me: "it depends...."

[anthony_c]

Follow brain is less likely to regret.

[swiftee]

depends on what she is deciding on?

i would ask both heart and brain for their opinion n let them fight it out wahahahaha

[Nick_Lee]

Neither... I ask my mum... Or you can ask her the same question... Give the act-very-smart face... But make sure she is not the girl of your dreams...

 

My answer is,"think with your brain but let your head/s decide"

[bunny_hui]

Tell her there is no answer for that lol .

[stsoh]

in life, it's always two choices.

one will make yr life happier or other will make it sad.

it's yr choice, happy or sad life.

 

 

most ppl will always pick the wrong choice (seem like nature human errors).

live a happy/troubled life is always better than a sad/lonely life.

Edited May 16, 2011 by stsoh

[JackOHJack]

Are you sure there's only these 2 factors?

[Jehuty]

I follow my ****

[pyro13]

How would you answer, if a girl ask u this question?

"when you have to choose between two things/decision , which one should you follow is it really your heart or your brain?"

 

D question very emo type. I will jus tell her.

 

If i rape u now, i follow my heart,

If i dun do anytg, i follow my brain.

 

So which one u prefer??

[crazydj]

That my friend, may be a trick question.

 

If a girl asks, ""When you have to choose between two things/decision , which one should you follow. Is it really your heart or your brain?", there are 2 way to tackle this question. Let us discuss the possibility of her with regards to her life. If she is just asking it from YOUR perspective, just tell her what you think or feel.

 

For the first way, you have to assume whether she is speaking to you in a general manner. For example, choices in life. The second way, you need to ask further what exactly is the topic at hand. Let us look at these 2 tactics in great detail.

 

When you have been posed this question in a general manner and there are no specific topics intended from the girl, her question may generally be involving matters of the heart or some other psychological aspect in your/her life that cannot be easily answered with the use of your mind. Keep in mind that women are generally not natural logical thinkers and emotions may get the better of them. A way i would answer this question would be a conservative one. Let me explain this in a simulated situation below.

 

You must first craft your answer in a way that shows she needs to use her head to think logically and then apply emotions into the equation. For example, if she has to choose between 2 guys. One guy is well to do and she has a potential future with him, but boring, or with another guy is charming and handsome but still is in the process of 'knowing what the future holds for him'. Eg: Still have not found a stable job yet, etc. I have created a situation where the decision is not too obvious and needs some analysis before any action is taken.

 

First, you have to ask her what does she want to see herself in the future. To live a comfortable live but with a dry romance or with a life filled with romance and bliss but would be more difficult financially.

Secondly, you also have to bring in the fact that no one can survive on a diet of hope. 'Are you prepared to sacrifice what you can for the sake of this boy? Do you love him? Will the both of you see each other to the end?' You have to ask her to ask herself these questions.

 

Remember, you cannot answer these kind of questions head on. You need her to make the decision on her own. Use a logical explanation like, "This is your life. These decisions are yours, and yours alone. I know you will do the right thing."

 

The second method in which to deal with such a question is to pose her back a question with regards to what she is referring to. Unlike the first method which is general in nature, this method deals with the specifics. You need to know what she is referring to before you can make a move.

 

Generally, the second method involves the use of your logic and common sense. Use the right reasoning and apply the correct remedy to aid her in her thought process. Sometimes, the question may be too difficult to solve with a single answer and you may have to help her in listing out the pros and cons of each choice.

 

In conclusion, these 2 method are generally used by me to solve such a question posed by a girl. The first one being a general one where the girl has nothing on her mind in particular that cannot be solved with simple logic. The second one being much more easier as they involve more material things. Please note however that ladies are the most magical creatures on earth. Everyone of them is different and they all need varying advice to suit their situation. Remember. You cannot answer that question for her. Only she, has to reach deep in her mind to answer that question. With that, i bid you the best of luck.

 

NB: I, crazydj and Singapore Bikes Forum will bear no liability in the event my advice leads to any misfortune for any party. Follow my advice at your own risk.

[pyro13]

That my friend, may be a trick question.

 

If a girl asks, ""When you have to choose between two things/decision , which one should you follow. Is it really your heart or your brain?", there are 2 way to tackle this question. Let us discuss the possibility of her with regards to her life. If she is just asking it from YOUR perspective, just tell her what you think or feel.

 

For the first way, you have to assume whether she is speaking to you in a general manner. For example, choices in life. The second way, you need to ask further what exactly is the topic at hand. Let us look at these 2 tactics in great detail.

 

When you have been posed this question in a general manner and there are no specific topics intended from the girl, her question may generally be involving matters of the heart or some other psychological aspect in your/her life that cannot be easily answered with the use of your mind. Keep in mind that women are generally not natural logical thinkers and emotions may get the better of them. A way i would answer this question would be a conservative one. Let me explain this in a simulated situation below.

 

You must first craft your answer in a way that shows she needs to use her head to think logically and then apply emotions into the equation. For example, if she has to choose between 2 guys. One guy is well to do and she has a potential future with him, but boring, or with another guy is charming and handsome but still is in the process of 'knowing what the future holds for him'. Eg: Still have not found a stable job yet, etc. I have created a situation where the decision is not too obvious and needs some analysis before any action is taken.

 

First, you have to ask her what does she want to see herself in the future. To live a comfortable live but with a dry romance or with a life filled with romance and bliss but would be more difficult financially.

Secondly, you also have to bring in the fact that no one can survive on a diet of hope. 'Are you prepared to sacrifice what you can for the sake of this boy? Do you love him? Will the both of you see each other to the end?' You have to ask her to ask herself these questions.

 

Remember, you cannot answer these kind of questions head on. You need her to make the decision on her own. Use a logical explanation like, "This is your life. These decisions are yours, and yours alone. I know you will do the right thing."

 

The second method in which to deal with such a question is to pose her back a question with regards to what she is referring to. Unlike the first method which is general in nature, this method deals with the specifics. You need to know what she is referring to before you can make a move.

 

Generally, the second method involves the use of your logic and common sense. Use the right reasoning and apply the correct remedy to aid her in her thought process. Sometimes, the question may be too difficult to solve with a single answer and you may have to help her in listing out the pros and cons of each choice.

 

In conclusion, these 2 method are generally used by me to solve such a question posed by a girl. The first one being a general one where the girl has nothing on her mind in particular that cannot be solved with simple logic. The second one being much more easier as they involve more material things. Please note however that ladies are the most magical creatures on earth. Everyone of them is different and they all need varying advice to suit their situation. Remember. You cannot answer that question for her. Only she, has to reach deep in her mind to answer that question. With that, i bid you the best of luck.

 

NB: I, crazydj and Singapore Bikes Forum will bear no liability in the event my advice leads to any misfortune for any party. Follow my advice at your own risk.

 

Wah bro, jus a qn and u wanna write a thesis on it ar!! Power!

[ROCKFERRY]

how would you answer, if a girl ask u this question?

"when you have to choose between two things/decision , which one should you follow is it really your heart or your brain?"

 

follow your heart= without condom

follow your brain= with condom

 

p.s; follow your heart but think with your brain

[Ken_6565]

Just another qns like to be or not to be.