Older Woman, younger man?

[Pauche]

Originally posted by nights@May 25 2005, 10:22 AM

lol ...used to but din work out ....maybe I'm just too young for her...just sort of finding that majority of the young girls especially singpaorean ones out there just take guys for granted its only when they starts to get older and worried then they think maturely...haiz...

 

Maybe its time for me to try my luck with the older ones again.

haahaa

[darren_soh86]

hai~ cum to tok bout tis.. i wonder if i will ever be attached again anot..

 

young gers.. c i not yandao n bo lui... nobody will wan..

 

older gers.. i get the impression they will nvr like me.. i feel so immature in front of them..

[BLACK COMET]

Originally posted by seekie@May 25 2005, 10:16 AM

how you guys deal with resistance form family members?

i bet mostly will have traditional mindset and will not approve it.

 

also, marriage wise, she is at the age where most women married already, whereas he like just start working and income is barely enough paying daily expenses (especially in bad times like this)

 

must tackle these lei, if not yes its definitely sweet now, but we all want to make it a long-term one, don't we?

Well, If that happens (meaning I'm going to married a girl that is older than me 5 yrs)

And my family disapprove, I just go ahead. And ignore my family.

Call me crazy, I might got to an extent to "disconect" my relationship with my family.

I was not close to them in the frist place.

 

Interesting enough, I never thought of that until recently. Until I was married have a kid then I see a bigger picture.

 

Sometimes in life, you just can't get what u really want.

 

Actually There's always 1 concern. I feel that it, tougher to go after girls who are older then you cos, age different is the first barrier. Girls themselve might not accept someone younger.

 

well...... life

[MiSS pIgLeT]

Originally posted by Demon_gal56@May 25 2005, 07:52 AM

hmmm... don't think i can accept also...

^5

[MiSS pIgLeT]

Originally posted by Precious@May 25 2005, 09:13 AM

so the maximum age gap u allowed is how much ?

12

[Throttle]

like i said, about 25% difference is the max.

you cannot put an absolute figure, like 12.

 

if one is 25 and the other is 13, it doesnt make sense does it?

 

so it must be a percentage proportion

[Throttle]

if you dont care about age and just go for love, you must still be young and foolish.

 

next time you grow older then you will understand.

 

like they say, you need to be young and foolish before you become old and wise. but make sure you become old and wise becos some people get old and remain still foolish

[Jess1717]

Originally posted by Throttle@May 25 2005, 05:41 PM

if you dont care about age and just go for love, you must still be young and foolish.

 

next time you grow older then you will understand.

 

like they say, you need to be young and foolish before you become old and wise. but make sure you become old and wise becos some people get old and remain still foolish

'like they say, you need to be young and foolish before you become old and wise. but make sure you become old and wise becos some people get old and remain still foolish'

 

Tat's a good one

[MiSS pIgLeT]

Originally posted by Throttle@May 25 2005, 05:39 PM

like i said, about 25% difference is the max.

you cannot put an absolute figure, like 12.

 

if one is 25 and the other is 13, it doesnt make sense does it?

 

so it must be a percentage proportion

tats y in the previous post i say is all DEPEND on each individual

[Precious]

Originally posted by Throttle@May 25 2005, 05:41 PM

if you dont care about age and just go for love, you must still be young and foolish.

 

next time you grow older then you will understand.

 

lao char bor and young boi boi

or in future .... future .... look like mother and son ...

 

haiz (-_-")

[Throttle]

whatever it is, i'd prefer a younger girl if i were you guys.

 

5 yrs down the road when you become 30+ at least the girl is still looking solid at 20+ . imagine when you are 30+ and your "girl" is in her 40s already....

 

wah lau.....wake up wake up.

 

but for men to be older , it's OK.....

[MiSS pIgLeT]

ok i have a example i have a gf who is 27 and the guy is 22......they are together for quite awhile (broke off already) and the parent dun like my gf coz she is 27.....my gf is ready to get married and the guy is still in NS, let's say my gf wait for 3 more yr she is already 30 and the guy just started his career like two yrs only hw to get married? There are so many things to commit are you prepare to get into commitment? Sumtime say easier then done....And If ur parent dun approve both of u being together will u goes against ur parent? Anyway as i said again is all depend on each individual Cheers

[Throttle]

exactly, piglet, your example is a case heading towards a failure.

 

 

"love cannot be eaten" haw haw haw.

[560FiveSixty]

I donno... for me... when in my younger years till now... i've never like to have a younger gf.

 

In my younger years... those older guys tend to look for younger gals ard my age. [ maybe some of them think younger gals easy to cheat]

 

Now i've become older... but still don go for younger gals.

 

Maybe some can tolerate how some gals childishness lo. Im one tat absolute NO to childishness.

 

Wat throttle says is true, im in that situation. Cos in a few years time... my gf gonna touch 30... but me still in early 20's. [still half playing half serious life]

 

SIGH... ...

[Throttle]

Bro, take it easy, you still very young lah.....

wait a few more years, you will realise how bloody foolish you are now....

 

frankly, i think that no 27 yr old girl in Singapore will want a man who is only 20......unless you are the son of a tycoon. unless she is USING him for something

If that is so, better beware. anyway, i really think you should relook your relationship with your girlfriend.

 

All women want a man for what?

Ans: A steady firm shoulder to lean on

Steady : read - financial security

Firm : read - emotional stability

 

As a man, do you look for a steady firm shoulder to lean on or would you rather be the shoulder for your girlfren to lean on?

 

i think your relationship with your older girlfren at this stage is childish...

[Throttle]

however, if you are now in your 30s and your girlfren is 40, the situation may be different becos each is steady and firm in their own right.

 

do you understand what i mean? i hope so.

[MiSS pIgLeT]

Originally posted by Throttle@May 25 2005, 06:31 PM

exactly, piglet, your example is a case heading towards a failure.

 

 

"love cannot be eaten" haw haw haw.

[560FiveSixty]

Originally posted by Throttle@May 25 2005, 09:24 PM

Bro, take it easy, you still very young lah.....

wait a few more years, you will realise how bloody foolish you are now....

 

frankly, i think that no 27 yr old girl in Singapore will want a man who is only 20......unless you are the son of a tycoon. unless she is USING him for something

If that is so, better beware. anyway, i really think you should relook your relationship with your girlfriend.

 

All women want a man for what?

Ans: A steady firm shoulder to lean on

Steady : read - financial security

Firm : read - emotional stability

 

As a man, do you look for a steady firm shoulder to lean on or would you rather be the shoulder for your girlfren to lean on?

 

i think your relationship with your older girlfren at this stage is childish...

Well... u cant say all mann. Mostly... yah i'll agree to it. But of cos not all.

 

Anyway... find your last sentence offensive!

THANKS!

[Guest doremo]

for me i can accept much older men like even 10-15 yrs. in fact i have crush on 2 older men before...

 

but younger guys eh... 1 or 2 yr younger than me still acceptable. maybe i am still v old fashioned.. cant accept e idea of jie di lian..

 

every individual has their choices, juz do watever u think u like . good luck. maybe other pple dun work but dun mean urs r/s will not work

[Guest aub]

Originally posted by Throttle@May 25 2005, 09:24 PM

All women want a man for what?

Ans: A steady firm shoulder to lean on

Steady : read - financial security

Firm : read - emotional stability

True to certain extent..

To be in a r/s, dun need all those stability yet..

but to settle down for the future, both parties must be financially stable or at least be able to support the new family...

Materialistic u guys call... realistic i would say..

[Murphy]

Originally posted by 560FiveSixty@May 25 2005, 10:25 PM

Well... u cant say all mann. Mostly... yah i'll agree to it. But of cos not all.

 

Anyway... find your last sentence offensive!

THANKS!

Throttle:

 

I oso find it offensive...pls do not judge us when u have not step in to it b4...even if u do,i bet u dun really understand it.Wait till u find that someone who really love u so much even u r younger than her...

[Murphy]

Originally posted by doremo@May 25 2005, 10:34 PM

for me i can accept much older men like even 10-15 yrs. in fact i have crush on 2 older men before...

 

but younger guys eh... 1 or 2 yr younger than me still acceptable. maybe i am still v old fashioned.. cant accept e idea of jie di lian..

 

every individual has their choices, juz do watever u think u like . good luck. maybe other pple dun work but dun mean urs r/s will not work

u might say this nw...but one fine day if he is the rite one,u might eat back ur words!

 

No offensive to it

[Guest Demon_gal56]

Originally posted by MiSS pIgLeT@May 25 2005, 05:35 PM

^5

for myself i would want a man to take care of me instead of me taking care of a man..

[Throttle]

560 and murphy,

sorry to offend.

 

but you may have got it wrong. or course love is a crazy thing. when it comes it comes but many a times, love is mistaken.

 

if now i want to find a girl 8 years my senior , i think it will be very easy.

but if you are only all out to purposely look for someone that senior to be your GF then there is a big problem....

 

as for your cases, dont you agree with me that you will anticipate some problems in the near future???

 

please do not mistake me as cursing your relationship to the doldrums of hell, i am just reminding you fellas what is to come.... to be prepared...that's all. As for now , the situation still seems like a childish one to me.

 

[MiSS pIgLeT]

Originally posted by Throttle@May 26 2005, 02:49 PM

560 and murphy,

sorry to offend.

 

but you may have got it wrong. or course love is a crazy thing. when it comes it comes but many a times, love is mistaken.

 

if now i want to find a girl 8 years my senior , i think it will be very easy.

but if you are only all out to purposely look for someone that senior to be your GF then there is a big problem....

 

as for your cases, dont you agree with me that you will anticipate some problems in the near future???

 

please do not mistake me as cursing your relationship to the doldrums of hell, i am just reminding you fellas what is to come.... to be prepared...that's all. As for now , the situation still seems like a childish one to me.

 

no quarrel no quarrel all sharing nia :cheer: ..........treat u all lim kopi next time