SBF Classic Vespa's Cafe 2009 / 2010

[Wildswans]

the part is she always ask me to gif in... we have been like tat fer nearly 6 yrs liao.. its getting on my nerves

 

Then you better let her know, if not one day it will explode and things might end...

[ahqi]

but the problem is attending the gathering is juz showing face and do nothing.. i dun like wasting time doing something juz fer the sake of doing it.

[ahqi]

ya.. i did. but it always dun end well with a satisfactory outcome that both will peace out. so i'm somehow lost liao

[Wildswans]

Learn to communicate with them and get to know them.

 

That's what I do...

 

My case was worse, I'm hokkien and his family is cantonese. Half the time, i dun understand what they are saying. NOw my language skills have improved. That's positive.

[hanzer]

Come along lah, bike or no bike... think some of the guys can pillion you if we do decide to go else where.

 

 

pillion me?? im a very bad pillion cos i will move my body...

 

anyway i will try to make it on that day... see ya..

[ahqi]

eh.. maybe its juz all my bad ba.. i juz dun like family gatherings haha.

[Wildswans]

Dun be lost lah....

 

Stay positive....

 

Being a part of the family takes lotsa of effort... especially when you are trying to be a part of another one.

 

Look at it this way, at least they don't despise you or keep you out

[Wildswans]

pillion me?? im a very bad pillion cos i will move my body...

 

anyway i will try to make it on that day... see ya..

 

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[ahqi]

the problem is becos my gf's cousins have been bringing in their bfs in and i;m the 1 whose not turning up always.

[Wildswans]

eh.. maybe its juz all my bad ba.. i juz dun like family gatherings haha.

 

Then you need to compromise also

[Wildswans]

the problem is becos my gf's cousins have been bringing in their bfs in and i;m the 1 whose not turning up always.

 

Like I say, go and join them.... But dun have to stay for the entire time.

[hanzer]

but the problem is attending the gathering is juz showing face and do nothing.. i dun like wasting time doing something juz fer the sake of doing it.

 

put urself in her shoes.. dun think she feel gd too... what happened if next time u expect her to do somethings against her wish and she refuse?

 

there's only give n take in rs... its bo pian one... unless u dun get into rs...

[ahqi]

eh its juz pushin me to the extend. fer the whole relationship, she's not allowed to stay over my place and we cannot go out till wee hrs.. i've been trying hard to keep up wif this rules.

 

i nd a break man.. go find other gerls better ba

[ahqi]

thats why i never force her do things always. she dunwan to go see my ahma, fine i go myself, she dunwan go my hse or auntie hse fer gathering, i also never force her go.

 

but when its her side, its a MUST u noe.. =(

[ahqi]

Like I say, go and join them.... But dun have to stay for the entire time.

 

thats what i proposed to my gf but she like buey gam wan.

[Wildswans]

Then tell her that if you must attend her family gathering then she must reciprocate.

 

If she feels forced, then she should understand how you feel

[Wildswans]

thats what i proposed to my gf but she like buey gam wan.

 

Talk to her lah....

 

Seems like my hubby got a good deal.

[ahqi]

her mom pattern is u come u stay until we go off type. that's my interpretation. cases like that have happen like we go off in the mids and when she reach home. BLACK FACE!

 

like tat how? we compromise but in the end still kana black face. what muz we do by then?

[Wildswans]

eh its juz pushin me to the extend. fer the whole relationship, she's not allowed to stay over my place and we cannot go out till wee hrs.. i've been trying hard to keep up wif this rules.

 

i nd a break man.. go find other gerls better ba

 

Hello, I had to keep to this also.

 

I only stayed over at my bf's place after he had already become my hubby (after we romed)

[ahqi]

she understand what i feel but she also cannot do anything. She is under her mother takings

[ahqi]

eh.. tough being ur bf hoh LOL

[Wildswans]

her mom pattern is u come u stay until we go off type. that's my interpretation. cases like that have happen like we go off in the mids and when she reach home. BLACK FACE!

 

like tat how? we compromise but in the end still kana black face. what muz we do by then?

 

Get her to talk to her mom lah, she is her mom's daughter then you are not your mother's son meh? If not then each one take one week.

[Wildswans]

eh.. tough being ur bf hoh LOL

 

What's so tough?

 

Like you know?

[ahqi]

tough being ur bf at that time ... i understand ur husband plight lol..

[hanzer]

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yup, i got email but for what purpose?