[Discussion] What's bugging you now?

[ranzl]

:sian:

[Marcheline]

Thanks guys.. Anyway I confronted her about the blog, and she denied it was hers initially, even though her photos are there. Haha who'd be so bo liao to post other people's pictures. Then when she admitted to the blog, she denied doing anything with the Netherland exchange student. She told me that "intimate" has many meanings.. Haha. She University student mah, good at playing with words, while I'm only a diploma holder. But I know she's lying. Seeing and dealing with so many members of the public who lie everyday in my ns vocation, it just comes as second nature. I'm gonna try move on from this stained relationship even though I still love her a lot.

[FuLL of SoRRoW]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 21, 2007 08:12 pm

Thanks guys.. Anyway I confronted her about the blog, and she denied it was hers initially, even though her photos are there. Haha who'd be so bo liao to post other people's pictures. Then when she admitted to the blog, she denied doing anything with the Netherland exchange student. She told me that "intimate" has many meanings.. Haha. She University student mah, good at playing with words, while I'm only a diploma holder. But I know she's lying. Seeing and dealing with so many members of the public who lie everyday in my ns vocation, it just comes as second nature. I'm gonna try move on from this stained relationship even though I still love her a lot.

bro...

 

u need to wake up and smell the fresh brewed coffee..

its awesome...

 

 

that gerl aint worthy of your love...

save it for someone better aitz...

 

been thru ur stage...

it was a heart ache yet an eye opener for me.

 

cmon..

smile always..

u never know that someone has been eyeing on you.

just tat they are too shy to let u know..

and sooner or later,

a new chapter will be written in ur life

[Seastorm]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 21, 2007 08:12 pm

Thanks guys.. Anyway I confronted her about the blog, and she denied it was hers initially, even though her photos are there. Haha who'd be so bo liao to post other people's pictures. Then when she admitted to the blog, she denied doing anything with the Netherland exchange student. She told me that "intimate" has many meanings.. Haha. She University student mah, good at playing with words, while I'm only a diploma holder. But I know she's lying. Seeing and dealing with so many members of the public who lie everyday in my ns vocation, it just comes as second nature. I'm gonna try move on from this stained relationship even though I still love her a lot.

1) ooi.. your heart no painful enuff must go and ask the obvious ah?

2) KOAZ!! Uni student so? I know some poly friends who can blow my mind with words (... talking about that, I need to go start finding my dictionary)

3) WHY do you have feelings for such a coward? Dare to do dun dare to admit? @#$% Puts shame to us females... darn it! and I am considered the same species with this kind of people... (ok ok... i am over-reacting. but hey some drama would be good )

bro...

u need to wake up and smell the fresh brewed coffee..

its awesome...

Coffee smells good! yummy

well, sometimes, u might ask urself, if dat person is WORTH TO be sad over , in dat case, u do the comparsion, you will feel much better and that person will have NO POWER to hurt u anymore...

You know, I asked myself that before.. and you know what my heart answered at that point in time? I dun care if he is worth it, I dun want the sky, i dun want anything else. all I want is him... (more drama) *cry cry*

very true instead. still trying to recover. what fail to kill me, wil make me stronger and motivate me!

.... from my previous signature... but now i am stronger, harder, faster. DO not forget for it was you that made me this way.

 

*hug hug* hope you will feel better soon.

[Raptor]

I guess you will just have to ride it out. Its not like a light bulb theory of switching on and off.

 

First the anger of the betrayal, then the deep disappointment with the person, then the confusion with yourself of why is this happening to you, then the feeling of bitterness and helplessness of the whole situation, then the acceptance of the fact that you cannot change the situation, then the reflection on the whole situation in restrospect and lessons learnt (good or bad).... and then you move on.

 

Anything that you can emotionally survive through can and will only make you a stronger person.

[åæçˆ]

just give her up... since urself koe she is lying.. yet u still cant accept the truth

 

[ranzl]

i guess it always hard in the beginning, take ur time to recover.

[redname]

Originally posted by PinKcHicK@March 16, 2007 01:28 am

thanks, juz hope tat time can heal wounds. even 5 years had passed and i still miss my grandpa.

 

i juz hate myself for being emotional over things.

time can nvr heal, it really depends on urself to whether if u wanna get healed or not.

 

my parents passed away within a yr a couple of yrs ago. i was really struck down cause during tht time everyting really didn't seem rite (when sh!t happens, it really comes 2gether like a bad case of diarrhea) but i decided to really pull myself 2gether cause i know there's still a long path in front of me, there will be more set backs & if i dnt move on & conquer tis, i'll also do the same for the future set backs & it'll slowly consume me & pile up, making it a huge pile of sh!t.

 

many pple ask me how i feel during tht time & how i cope with it, all i can answer is "like tht lor, wat u expect me to do?". i mean i'm still human aft all, of cus will be sad tht time lah, even now when tink of them, i'll still miss them but at the end of the day, they r dead liao, wat can be done? dnt bring urself down by tinking of "if only it was like tis or like tht", life has too many things like tht already, dnt tink so much.

 

& pls dnt hate urself for being emotional, u r jus being urself, u r born with tht. anyting bad can be turn into gd, its on how u do it

[redname]

Originally posted by Seastorm@March 19, 2007 11:39 am

Office PC hard disk died... all my work .. all my data.. gone .. vanish.. ka put .. i can quit liao.. no need to work liao...

 

lol.. heng I felt something not right 1 month ago. So at least still got an old back up.. but still all my current work gone.. haiz...

 

Wonder if I am too emotionally attached to my office PC, so much so that I can "feel" when the speed and preformance was not at it's usual 1 month ago...

can recover back 1, either ghost the HDD or get those IT companies to do it, they got special tools to retrieve even thou if ur HDD is totally goner liao

[redname]

Originally posted by Seastorm@March 20, 2007 11:31 pm

Moving on is very hard, time drags and the heart bleeds, I remember the pain, really felt like a knife had stabbed me. Sometimes the pain was so intense that I wonder would having an actual wound be less painful then the emotional pain.

But when the decision comes to move on, there is only 1 thing to be done, physically, emotionally and mentally remove the memories. Anything, however minor that reminds you of that person, throw it away, erase pictures, delete numbers. No matter how emotionally attached you are to that item.

Lastly, challenge yourself. Mind over body... train your mind to think of other things in your life.

I'm still trying to achieve that mind over body thing. Like when i see my bed i auto just "drift" towards it and plop myself in it and snuggle sunggle then...zzzzzzzzz......

wah & i thot i'm the only person in the world who can jus fall asleep under any conditions

[redname]

wow, really can c some gd advice given by the pple here for wada****. learnt some stuff & also renew some stuff tht i've learnt in life too, thanks man

 

wada****, 1 ting i've learn in life is tht u got to live on & dnt let all tis affect ur life, ur relationship with other pple etc... dnt be pulled down by it.

 

u feel sad, betrayed but who the heck knows? only u rite?

 

u keep crying & get depressed by all those, in the end u r hurting urself directly & sometimes u'll also hurt those ard u who really cares bout u.

 

ask urself y u wanna feel depressed, sad etc... ? wat can all these do to u? & if its about letting her know or feel bad bout it then let me tell u someting, she won't give a f*ck bout it, she jus continue on her own happy life

[Windust]

anyone know of any counselling session online?i feel very difficult to talk to a counsellor...

[Unagi]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 21, 2007 08:12 pm

I'm gonna try move on from this stained relationship even though I still love her a lot.

Great step forward. I myself had to let go of a 3 year relationship cos she betrayed me too. Not worth it.

But there'll be some habits and things which will remind you of her, for example when you SMS your friends and your finger 'automatic' scroll to her number... don't give up! Even if she wants to patch also muz maintain your stand! I made this mistake and she betrayed me AGAIN!!!

 

to you man!! Have a great weekend!

 

Ride Safe Guys

[åæçˆ]

Once bitten, twice shy

 

[Aie]

Originally posted by tridagger@March 22, 2007 09:24 pm

Even if she wants to patch also muz maintain your stand! I made this mistake and she betrayed me AGAIN!!!

A straightforward case of, 'Once a cheater, always a cheater' maybe???

[Seastorm]

Originally posted by redname@March 22, 2007 05:17 pm

wah & i thot i'm the only person in the world who can jus fall asleep under any conditions

I where got under any conditions? It's just my bed.. I love my bed... i love my comforter, I love my bolster and I am gonna upgrade my pillow hopefully this weekend. *so excited, looks longingly at bed*

 

Sometimes, when depressed, I try to remind myself that I MUST learn to love myself more and remember to care for my real friends around me more. Someone once told me, when sad, care for others, worry for someone else that you care about and take care of your looks. Slowly, it becomes a habit that you will learn to love yourself and the people deserving of your caring more.

[Apoc]

Originally posted by wadafark@March 21, 2007 08:12 pm

Thanks guys.. Anyway I confronted her about the blog, and she denied it was hers initially, even though her photos are there. Haha who'd be so bo liao to post other people's pictures. Then when she admitted to the blog, she denied doing anything with the Netherland exchange student. She told me that "intimate" has many meanings.. Haha. She University student mah, good at playing with words, while I'm only a diploma holder. But I know she's lying. Seeing and dealing with so many members of the public who lie everyday in my ns vocation, it just comes as second nature. I'm gonna try move on from this stained relationship even though I still love her a lot.

Deal with public who lie everyday?

Medical checkup?

[davidtoh83]

hi...i'm new to this thread...anyway in love,there is no right or wrong...is wat

 

decision u and her/him make...the one i love the most betray me for my best

 

friend but i dun blame them,i wish them all the best all i can do is blame myself...

 

life still have to go on...

[Raptor]

Originally posted by davidtoh83@March 22, 2007 11:40 pm

hi...i'm new to this thread...anyway in love,there is no right or wrong...is wat

 

decision u and her/him make...the one i love the most betray me for my best

 

friend but i dun blame them,i wish them all the best all i can do is blame myself...

 

life still have to go on...

Well said. Very matured way of thinking.

[wasnt]

Originally posted by davidtoh83@March 22, 2007 11:40 pm

hi...i'm new to this thread...anyway in love,there is no right or wrong...is wat

 

decision u and her/him make...the one i love the most betray me for my best

 

friend but i dun blame them,i wish them all the best all i can do is blame myself...

 

life still have to go on...

cool.

if i were you, im filled with hatred.

[davidtoh83]

Originally posted by wasnt@March 23, 2007 10:11 am

cool.

if i were you, im filled with hatred.

aiya...in another word,LL...lol...jus stay positive and tell yourself is her loss to let

 

go of u...there is always a better person out there...WAT DUN KILL U,MAKE U STRONG....

[PinKcHicK]

Originally posted by redname@March 22, 2007 04:58 pm

time can nvr heal, it really depends on urself to whether if u wanna get healed or not.

 

my parents passed away within a yr a couple of yrs ago. i was really struck down cause during tht time everyting really didn't seem rite (when sh!t happens, it really comes 2gether like a bad case of diarrhea) but i decided to really pull myself 2gether cause i know there's still a long path in front of me, there will be more set backs & if i dnt move on & conquer tis, i'll also do the same for the future set backs & it'll slowly consume me & pile up, making it a huge pile of sh!t.

 

many pple ask me how i feel during tht time & how i cope with it, all i can answer is "like tht lor, wat u expect me to do?". i mean i'm still human aft all, of cus will be sad tht time lah, even now when tink of them, i'll still miss them but at the end of the day, they r dead liao, wat can be done? dnt bring urself down by tinking of "if only it was like tis or like tht", life has too many things like tht already, dnt tink so much.

 

& pls dnt hate urself for being emotional, u r jus being urself, u r born with tht. anyting bad can be turn into gd, its on how u do it

Thanks dude.. feeling better liao these days.. perhaps time might just heal the wound a little..

[devoted]

Originally posted by ViciousKitty74@March 20, 2007 03:19 pm

Yes. Can be done.

 

As long as there is a complainant/informant to start the ball rolling.

da jie~

 

when we come out to lah kopi har?

 

no sound no picture from you for so long~

 

you really migrate liao ah?

[redname]

Originally posted by Seastorm@March 22, 2007 11:23 pm

I where got under any conditions? It's just my bed.. I love my bed... i love my comforter, I love my bolster and I am gonna upgrade my pillow hopefully this weekend. *so excited, looks longingly at bed*

 

Someone once told me, when sad, care for others, worry for someone else that you care about and take care of your looks.

ok, let me rephrase myself, i meant "i thot i'm the only person in the world who can jus fall asleep on my bed under any conditions"

 

taking care of ur looks? so next time if c u doll up or look prettier means u r sad lah?

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