"Worst" Bf/Gf you ever have? (and why?)

[L3mOn]

hmmm aniway, juz for some slight info.. not tat i keep all his money n handle all his stuff.. =) is becoz he not in SG for very long time.. so his money all leave to me to take care... as his parents mthly allowance i gotta help him do transaction all these de... =) maybe ple think i wan to care abt everything.. haha..

[mikedebaby]

my 1st bf is a reali good for nothing. alot of bad points. even till now!

 

i had a quarrel with him last march. cos i befriended his ex-gf and he was furious abt it. cos during the period i was with stardust, he would occasionally sms me or call me and say something like, 'will we ever have a chance to be back together again? i reali miss u alot and i regretted. how is wished i nv let u go and take u for granted..'

 

of cos.. i did not tell stardust at 1st cos my 1st bf always like to drown his sorrows with beer and alcohol. so i thought he was drunk so i did not bother much. but it gets too much.

 

the last straw came when i was chatting with his last ex-gf in msn. i told her wad he sms-ed me and told me. she was furious too cos he had been telling her the same thing as wad he told me!

 

so i sent him a msg in frenster, telling him dat i was very disappointed in him and i told him not to bother me anymore. and i told him i knew wad he told his ex-gf and i all the while.. abt the same thing.

 

then he called me one day and started shouting and screaming at me like i'm a bytch. he kept demanding me to tell him wad his ex told him and all. but i kept my cool and told him nicely not to shout but he still kept on shouting. and he threatened me.. telling me dat he would hurt my fren(his ex) if i was not gonna tell him wad she said to me.

 

he said, 'nw i give u one last chance! either u tell me or i'll go and slap her!' i said, 'she's a gal ok! for wad must use violence! u call urself a guy like this ar?!' then he said, 'nw i let u choose! if u wana continue being frens with her, u better not call me ever again in future!' so unreasonable loh! i shouted back, 'now is i did not do anything wrong but made a new fren and u're farking unhappy cos my new fren is ur ex! i am not gonna make any decisions cos this is so lame!' then he said, 'ok loh! u no need to call me in future anymore!' i said, 'nw u're the one making the decisions! not me!' then i put down the phone.

 

this is one incident dat made him the worst bf ever!

 

and also, he cant even hold a job for more than 1 week! he has never been consistant in working and finding a job. a little bit of things he dun like he will just quit.

 

he's very attitude and anti-social. aiya.. alot of bad things loh!

 

anyway, i am neutral if he wana be frens again. but i'm also glad dat he's not my bf anymore. =)

 

he gives me nothing but headaches and more headaches!

[gabriel06]

many a times people fail to see that they are the fault causing agent... its always easier to see the flaw of others and easier to do the finger point game... needless to say.. humans take the easy route out most of the time..

 

but i believe that active communication is of most important..

 

people get fed ** often cos of the inability to efficiently bring forward a point to the other party...

 

end ** saying things like these: "WHATEVER!", "ITS LIKE THAT LAH", "IF YOU LOVE ME, ACCEPT ME FOR WAT I AM", "I'M LIKE THAT ONE LAH", "YOU WUN UNDERSTAND" etc etc etc......

 

i hate the "you wun understand" part lol.. if u never bother to try to convince or explain... ofcos no one will understand -_-

 

all students will score badly if all teachers in the world says "you wun understand one lah" and dun bother trying to teach or share their knowledge and skills.

[Wildswans]

The art of communication is very impt in any relationship

[GuiNNeSS]

You know. The guy insisted on slapping the ex ex g/f because of comments/friendship by the ex g/f.

 

That is threatening to use criminal force on someone unless complied with blah blah blah.

 

Can make police report/statement swee swee.

 

Ex ex g/f & ex g/f should drop by a police station to do it. So really if any of the girls ganna from that lousy ex b/f. You know who will then be seriously in trouble for his hasty stupid temper and big mouth of his.

 

Plus....with that statement hanging over his head. He can seriously be lauged off the seats of so many people. Including employers & serious baddies who are actual gangsters.

[Wildswans]

But PPO can only be applied against spousal abuse right?

[Chomster]

wah time tu i ada, Asik Majok jer...

(that time my ex always merajok, little little bit also cannot, i garok kepala u know. and i am the girl lei..)

[GuiNNeSS]

This guy is not an intimate fren of mine.

 

i merely helped him out to house him since he is homeless. i set for him a time limit to get himself back on his feet, get a job and then a rental HDB flat.

 

Because I dont trust him with money. I have arrangements for others to accompany him, go make his NRIC and so on documents he needs.

 

Anway, long story short, his was all talk, just to squeeze sympathy from others to feed his cigarette and drinking hobby.

 

I got him out of my home when I got back from the US.

 

And some items was missing from the home. From a much cherished old leatherman tools to a brand new zippo with name engraved lighter. Though I was disappointed with him, it was just part of karma I believed, that I lost those stuffs, its him being indebted to me. Karma will return something else later in life from him.

[Aie]

wah time tu i ada, Asik Majok jer...

(that time my ex always merajok, little little bit also cannot, i garok kepala u know. and i am the girl lei..)

Last time, I dumped girls who like to majok over the littlest matters, like a bad habit...

[hondawavefan]

Last time, I dumped girls who like to majok over the littlest matters, like a bad habit...

Wah uncle Aie dump girls sehh...so bad!!!

[Aie]

Wah uncle Aie dump girls sehh...so bad!!!

Not even my GFs mah. Just friendly dates. Not even GF already want to majok. I very the selective when it comes to GFs. Only when I'm sure then I sound steady one. Any wonder why my mrs was only my 2nd GF???

[Guest limpeiwah]

worst gf was too fat

[Aie]

It is strange and sad when outsiders see someone's GF as the worst GF cos of all the things that she puts him through but to that someone, his ex-GF is an angel and the best one for him...

[åæçˆ]

It is strange and sad when outsiders see someone's GF as the worst GF cos of all the things that she puts him through but to that someone, his ex-GF is an angel and the best one for him...

 

hahaha.. i koe who u refer to

[roseonfire]

Worst bf was one army guy who used my money to make another gal pregnant. Fu*cker

[oreo_rr]

It is strange and sad when outsiders see someone's GF as the worst GF cos of all the things that she puts him through but to that someone, his ex-GF is an angel and the best one for him...

 

ok...

i think i know who you are talking about

 

 

Red face

[GuiNNeSS]

One that does not know how to be discreet even when a relationship ended.

 

Its good to share info, but one that goes around bragging about how she/he was cheated and only knows how to diss the ex, is kinda lame.

[oreo_rr]

if you meant me kitty

im not bragging..i just need to talk to someone

sorry if i sounded lame...

its really a tough time for me

im confused..

[roseonfire]

oreo rr feel free to pm me aite. We r in d same boat nw. I can feel wat u r feeling rite now

[åæçˆ]

oreo rr feel free to pm me aite. We r in d same boat nw. I can feel wat u r feeling rite now

 

haiz. both of u ok bo???

 

maybe can find one good place and hug each other and settle for all..

[FuLL of SoRRoW]

haiz. both of u ok bo???

 

maybe can find one good place and hug each other and settle for all..

 

ahaha.. using the joker card technique is it...

[adesmond2]

lol... maybe they ARE really hugging at somewhere?? lol... jkjk... ^_^

[FinG]

You know. The guy insisted on slapping the ex ex g/f because of comments/friendship by the ex g/f.

 

That is threatening to use criminal force on someone unless complied with blah blah blah.

 

Can make police report/statement swee swee.

 

Ex ex g/f & ex g/f should drop by a police station to do it. So really if any of the girls ganna from that lousy ex b/f. You know who will then be seriously in trouble for his hasty stupid temper and big mouth of his.

 

Plus....with that statement hanging over his head. He can seriously be lauged off the seats of so many people. Including employers & serious baddies who are actual gangsters.

sorry to tell u something.

if ex bf slap gf i dont mean by beat up just a slap.

u can report,but no use cause it will take alot of job to do it just to bring him to court and the police will start with the case when the woman chap side start to take action too.

why i would say that?

because just 1 mth ago,one of the SBF mate which use to be my frz(now we enemy cause i help his gf simple)this SBF mate slap his gf and i bring her to the police station to report and police say,we need to go though bah bah bah bah bah bah.....then they will start to take action.

buy anyway i a guy but hate to say that.nowaday GenX guy are sux.

[åæçˆ]

sorry to tell u something.

if ex bf slap gf i dont mean by beat up just a slap.

u can report,but no use cause it will take alot of job to do it just to bring him to court and the police will start with the case when the woman chap side start to take action too.

why i would say that?

because just 1 mth ago,one of the SBF mate which use to be my frz(now we enemy cause i help his gf simple)this SBF mate slap his gf and i bring her to the police station to report and police say,we need to go though bah bah bah bah bah bah.....then they will start to take action.

buy anyway i a guy but hate to say that.nowaday GenX guy are sux.

 

glad that u also agreed to it.

[GuiNNeSS]

sorry to tell u something.

if ex bf slap gf i dont mean by beat up just a slap.

u can report,but no use cause it will take alot of job to do it just to bring him to court and the police will start with the case when the woman chap side start to take action too.

why i would say that?

because just 1 mth ago,one of the SBF mate which use to be my frz(now we enemy cause i help his gf simple)this SBF mate slap his gf and i bring her to the police station to report and police say,we need to go though bah bah bah bah bah bah.....then they will start to take action.

buy anyway i a guy but hate to say that.nowaday GenX guy are sux.

 

 

So your end of the story, is that because its too troublesome, so never see it thru right?

 

if you meant me kitty

im not bragging..i just need to talk to someone

sorry if i sounded lame...

its really a tough time for me

im confused..

 

Who you?

 

Must be new to the forum, there is lots of previous threads on that same flaming lamers on this forum, you planning to follow their paths?