Older Woman, younger man?

[Hondaman]

Originally posted by Aie@Mar 14 2006, 05:24 AM

I never did have a GF in the past who was older than me. Dated a girl who was 4 years older than me when I was in secondary school. Really liked her and wanted her for a GF but she treated me like her small brother...

well, i found that girl who is one year older will always take the guy as their little brother...sheesh. then when she become closer, she will said "you know, maybe you and me we meant together" happy like sh*t when she said "too bad, i still see you as my little brother" that is sooooo demoralizing... teme!(japan)

[StingRhea]

if u r mature enuff, the girl actually doesnt treat u like small bro.

[Aie]

Originally posted by StingRhea@Mar 16 2006, 10:55 PM

if u r mature enuff, the girl actually doesnt treat u like small bro.

She will just act like she knows better since she's older...

[StingRhea]

not really. u do play a part on how she behaves.

[Aie]

Originally posted by StingRhea@Mar 16 2006, 11:23 PM

not really. u do play a part on how she behaves.

Wouldn't really know cos all my previous GFs were either younger or the same age with me... However, some friends of mine who dated older girls said that their GFs like to act like Miss Know-It-All...

[gohjohan]

They can't be Miss Know-it-all right? Have there been times when they've been proven wrong and if so, how did they react?

[Hondaman]

Originally posted by Aie@Mar 17 2006, 03:40 AM

Wouldn't really know cos all my previous GFs were either younger or the same age with me... However, some friends of mine who dated older girls said that their GFs like to act like Miss Know-It-All...

I agree with you. they will always said "you still young, u havent taste the salt that i taste"

 

Sometime, I wonder who is more childish, coz everytime, it will be ME the YOUNG one who always advising them.

 

To me, AGE doesnt have a GAP lah, so its ok to fall in love with older women. my fren always scared when i talked to some Mature women, coz hehehe... but he always there to disturb me from flirting with them. sorilah, but i always feel better talking to mature women rather than younger ones.

[Aie]

Originally posted by gohjohan@Mar 17 2006, 09:33 AM

They can't be Miss Know-it-all right? Have there been times when they've been proven wrong and if so, how did they react?

No stories about how they were proven wrong. Even if there are, those girls must have peng to other topics by changing the subject, I guess...

[anodise57]

nvr try dating older gals leh.. no harm trying though.... maybe can off set for my bike... hahahahahhaha TAT BE COOL!!!! heheheh

[xain]

Originally posted by anodise57@Mar 17 2006, 03:07 PM

nvr try dating older gals leh.. no harm trying though.... maybe can off set for my bike... hahahahahhaha TAT BE COOL!!!! heheheh

sugar mommy??

 

got this type of kang tao must jio me.

[anodise57]

wat sugar mummy.... is GOD SISTER... hahahah tat sounds better... heheh

[xain]

Originally posted by anodise57@Mar 17 2006, 03:35 PM

wat sugar mummy.... is GOD SISTER... hahahah tat sounds better... heheh

wahaha

 

How abt this:

 

When she needs company i call "GOD SIS"

When she feels like giving $ i call her "MOMMA"

when she wants me to be submissive i can call her "BOSS" or "MASTER"?

 

 

 

 

:cheeky:

[gohjohan]

Originally posted by Aie@Mar 17 2006, 10:04 AM

No stories about how they were proven wrong. Even if there are, those girls must have peng to other topics by changing the subject, I guess...

hmm.... no stories about proving her wrong in the last 6 hours, so I'll tell you mine.

 

With my ex (5 years older than me), her response (in a "teh" form) is

 

"Why you so smart one?"

 

That was for showing her how a game worked, I think.

 

With my current one (a bit more than 5 years older), her response is

 

"hmph"

 

That was for proving to her that my information about someone was correct.

[StingRhea]

that's why i say u urself do play a part on how she behaves. wad goes ard comes ard.

[devoted]

Originally posted by StingRhea@Mar 18 2006, 04:53 AM

that's why i say u urself do play a part on how she behaves. wad goes ard comes ard.

 

FULLY and totally agreed!

u sound real mature on this! wonderful!

[devoted]

Originally posted by gohjohan@Mar 17 2006, 04:58 PM

hmm.... no stories about proving her wrong in the last 6 hours, so I'll tell you mine.

 

With my ex (5 years older than me), her response (in a "teh" form) is

 

"Why you so smart one?"

 

That was for showing her how a game worked, I think.

 

With my current one (a bit more than 5 years older), her response is

 

"hmph"

 

That was for proving to her that my information about someone was correct.

s i g h ~

 

to me,

age does not matter, it is juz a figures, a number~

 

is the maturity and frequency of each other and ability to communicate~

and the personality of that person plays a part too~

not say older they will act like 'Mr/Ms know it all', some younger oso will do too~

very demanding and wanting their own ways to be done~

ai yah,

basically

it is still fall back to mutual respect, understanding, communication lor~

 

my previous ex was more than 5yrs older than me,

but his maturity & behavior?

 

s i g h~~~~

 

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Edited To Say:

 

abt u, bro johan

 

haha~

well~

bro johan, i tin u r quite fated (by God) wif those gals who are older than you~

but i tin u r mature too, else, they won't consider to go into relationship wif u too~

 

btw,

regarding your ex response, i tin voice/tone play a part too,

i attended the Toastmaster club b4,

after my presentation, the president commented on my voice : very feminine, while the others immediately commented & agreed, yah lor, very teh leh~

 

i reli pengzzzz & embarrassed then.....

 

but it is reli not we purposely act act lah, many times it is reli quite inborn de~

[Throttle]

i take the younger girl anytime!!! heh heheh hehe h eh

 

10 yrs junior best right now.....

 

hahah.

[StingRhea]

i never had a chance with younger girls though..

[Aie]

Originally posted by StingRhea@Mar 18 2006, 04:42 PM

i never had a chance with younger girls though..

Maybe you just didn't give them a chance?

[StingRhea]

no, never been chased by one, never though of having one as a gf though.

 

never had a real r/s for the past 3 yrs, all were flings, some even whom are attached or married.

 

dun think i will be getting in a r/s anytime soon.

[Aie]

Originally posted by StingRhea@Mar 19 2006, 05:34 AM

never had a real r/s for the past 3 yrs, all were flings, some even whom are attached or married.

 

This is a dangerous combination, StingRhea. Be mindful that when you play with fire, you are bound to get burn...

[Keenguy]

My ex-gf was 8yrs older than I... now I'm 8yrs older than my gf...

[StingRhea]

Originally posted by Aie@Mar 19 2006, 09:39 AM

This is a dangerous combination, StingRhea. Be mindful that when you play with fire, you are bound to get burn...

true but meeting such ppl make me think twice about getting into a r/s. its been a long while, and i have to learn how to cherish one again.

[Keenguy]

Ya, cherishing is VERY important...

 

 

 

"When you lose it, then you'll realise its treasure..."

[StingRhea]

yes, and furthermore u cannot be possesive, yet must offer security, have faith and trust, give and take, and furthemore maintaining it.