Older Woman, younger man?

[StingRhea]

i never had a gf younger den me. period.

 

older females date younger male to relish their youthful days.

[gohjohan]

Originally posted by turnip@May 23 2005, 09:28 AM

Hey boys & girls,

 

Seems to me that nowadays many boys like older women & women have no qualms dating younger boys. What do you think?

 

Cheers!

Turnip

I admit it. I like going out with older women because of their maturity. Sadly not all older women can deal with my "boy-likeness".

 

I don't feel comfortable to go out with younger gals generally due to materialism and immaturity. Maybe it's because I see that more than any other characteristics. I've known some younger gals that I deem mature, but sadly, it's only a small minority.

[StingRhea]

agreed as above. thus i never had any gf younger den me b4.

[BottleCap]

I m 25 years old and my gf is 33 years old..... Tot of marriage haven come into my mine. Although i earn much more than her but she nv ask me for financial support at all before. Gals tat are older are more mature........

[Jess1717]

So glad to hear mostly positive feedbacks abt older woman with younger ys:smile:

Well, my hubby is younger than me and his mentality is on the same frequency as u guys.

I could see the trend of such mix and mostly with happy ending

[gohjohan]

Originally posted by Jess1717@Feb 24 2006, 11:01 AM

So glad to hear mostly positive feedbacks abt older woman with younger ys:smile:

Well, my hubby is younger than me and his mentality is on the same frequency as u guys.

I could see the trend of such mix and mostly with happy ending

Yep, happy ending. Actually, when I see couples together, I always wonder who's older. If she's older I'm quite happy for the guy 'cos I too am in similar relationship.

[Pauche]

how about guys with MILF fetishes?

[Jess1717]

Originally posted by Pauche@Feb 24 2006, 11:55 AM

how about guys with MILF fetishes?

[gohjohan]

Originally posted by Pauche@Feb 24 2006, 11:55 AM

how about guys with MILF fetishes?

If they want to pay for the MILF's kids to gain favour, let them. I don't want to get involved.

 

That reminds me. Yesterday I saw that program on ChannelNewsAsia about step-children coping with their step-parents. For the kids it's going to be tough 'cos they have to get used to that other guy.

[Guest doremo]

but some guys do prefer younger... i mean v much younger gers...........

[Pauche]

Originally posted by doremo@Feb 24 2006, 10:46 PM

but some guys do prefer younger... i mean v much younger gers...........

u mean like a 60 year old with a 10 year old girl? haha

[Roadwiniac]

actually, i got a liking towards jie jie who are a few yrs older than me.. coz i think they are more mature and thus make them prettier..

 

Guess i'm not normal huh?

[Jess1717]

Originally posted by Roadwiniac@Feb 24 2006, 11:39 PM

actually, i got a liking towards jie jie who are a few yrs older than me.. coz i think they are more mature and thus make them prettier..

 

Guess i'm not normal huh?

U r 1 normal chap! Its getting popular and common now adays for younger guys to tink tat way:thumb:

[StingRhea]

just now went clubbing, got irritated by this persistant girl that was younger den me.. total turn off. still prefer older girls. younger ones never struck my mind before, never had a gf younger den me.

[Roadwiniac]

Originally posted by Jess1717@Feb 25 2006, 12:56 AM

U r 1 normal chap! Its getting popular and common now adays for younger guys to tink tat way:thumb:

oh izzit? so any jie jie wanna go out with me?

[Jess1717]

Originally posted by Roadwiniac@Feb 25 2006, 09:49 AM

oh izzit? so any jie jie wanna go out with me?

Unfortunately..... i got not much jie jie 2 intro u....

Join more outing lah:thumb:

[Roadwiniac]

Originally posted by Jess1717@Feb 25 2006, 11:53 AM

Unfortunately..... i got not much jie jie 2 intro u....

Join more outing lah:thumb:

no bike lehz when got bike liao den maybe i join some outing.

[Scarab]

Originally posted by Jess1717@Feb 25 2006, 11:53 AM

Unfortunately..... i got not much jie jie 2 intro u....

Join more outing lah:thumb:

Then can intro mei mei to me?

[Jess1717]

Originally posted by Scarab@Feb 25 2006, 12:10 PM

Then can intro mei mei to me?

U need me 2 intro u meh:sian:

Tot u got tons of them liao

[Jess1717]

Originally posted by Roadwiniac@Feb 25 2006, 11:55 AM

no bike lehz when got bike liao den maybe i join some outing.

The bike in your signature leh

[Scarab]

Originally posted by Jess1717@Feb 25 2006, 12:28 PM

U need me 2 intro u meh:sian:

Tot u got tons of them liao

Don't like that la. I'm not Pau*** lei.....

 

Anyway one or two more still can accomodate........

[Jess1717]

Originally posted by Scarab@Feb 25 2006, 12:32 PM

Don't like that la. I'm not Pau*** lei.....

 

Anyway one or two more still can accomodate........

[gohjohan]

From Chicken Soup of the Soul

 

Thought it would be appropriate, especially when she's older

_______________________________________________________________

Damaged Goods

By Joanna Slan

 

The dust mites danced in the ray of sunshine that provided the only light in the rabbi's office. He rocked back in his office chair and sighed as he stroked his beard. Then he took his wire-rimmed glasses and polished them absent-mindedly on his flannel shirt.

"So," he said, "you were divorced. Now you want to marry this good Jewish boy. What's the problem?"

He nestled his grizzled chin in his hand and smiled softly at me.

I wanted to shriek. What's the problem? First of all, I'm Christian. Second, I'm older than he is. Third - and not least, by any means - I'm divorced! Instead, I looked back into his soft brown eyes and tried to form the words.

"Don't you think," I stuttered, "that being divorced is like being used? Like being damaged goods?"

He settled back in the office chair and stretched so that he was looking at the ceiling. He stroked the scraggly beard that covered his chin and his neck. Then, he returned to his spot behind the desk and leaned toward me.

"Say you have to have surgery. Say you have a choice between two doctors. Who are you going to choose? The one right out of medical school or the one with experience?"

"The one with experience," I said.

His face crinkled into a grin. "I would, too," he locked his eyes with mine. "So in this marriage, you will be the one with experience. That's not such a bad thing, you know.

"Often, marriages tend to drift. They get caught in dangerous currents. They get off course and head toward hidden sandbars. No one notices until it is too late. On your face, I see the pain of a marriage gone bad. You will notice the drift in this marriage. You'll call out when you see the rocks. You'll yell to watch out and pay attention. You'll be the person with experience," he sighed. "And believe me, that's not such a bad thing. Not bad at all."

He walked to the window and peeked between the slats of the blinds. "You see, no one here knows about my first wife. I don't hide it, but I don't make a big deal about it. She died early in our marriage before I moved here. Now, late at night I think of all the words I never said. I think of all the chances I let pass by in that first marriage, and I believe I'm a better husband to my wife today because of the woman I lost."

For the first time, the sadness in his eyes had meaning. Now I understood why I chose to come talk to this man about marriage instead of taking an easier route and getting married outside both our religions. The word "rabbi" means teacher. Somehow I sensed he could teach me, or even lend me, the courage I needed in order to try again, to marry again and to love again.

"I will marry you and your David," said the rabbi. "If you promise me that you will be the person who yells out when you see the marriage is in danger."

I promised him I would, and I rose to leave.

"By the way," he called to me as I hesitated in his doorway, "did anyone ever tell you that Joanna is a good Hebrew name?"

Sixteen years have passed since the rabbi married David and me on a rainy October morning. And, yes, I have called out several times when I sensed we were in danger. I would tell the rabbi how well his analogy has served me, but I cannot. He died two years after our wedding. But I will always be grateful for the priceless gift he gave me: the wisdom to know that all of our experiences in life make us not less valuable, but more valuable, not less able to love, but more able to love.

 

Reprinted by permission of Joanna Slan © 1998 from Chicken Soup for the Couple's Soul by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Mark & Chrissy Donnelly and Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D. In order to protect the rights of the copyright holder, no portion of this publication may be reproduced without prior written consent. All rights reserved.

[gohjohan]

Originally posted by Roadwiniac@Feb 24 2006, 11:39 PM

actually, i got a liking towards jie jie who are a few yrs older than me.. coz i think they are more mature and thus make them prettier..

 

Guess i'm not normal huh?

You are normal, Roadwiniac.

 

About Jess1717's view of popular and common, that is debatable due to personal preference. Thankfully for Jess1717, I agree with her for

 

1) joining more outing. Check the Hobbies Talk section. There should be something for you that is common with others

 

2) that it is getting common 'cos according to Singapore Statistics Population the 25-29, 30-34 & 35-39 years age bracket, generally there are more females than males!!

 

Roadwiniac, there's a chance for you to go out with an older female. Just have to keep looking.

[BottleCap]

I gonna register my marriage to my gf who is 33 on 21March and i am only 25 years old. Many pple have objected and told me this is not right. But i don care. I love her and i wan her as my wife.............. They say it wont work out and financially won work out cause older gals spend more. -_-.........

I m currently earning 7k a month as a consultant and i don care watever pple say cause i know she is reli true 2 me and she reli is a nice gal. Y don pple give us their blessings?