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[DaBonz]

topic panas nampak... debate if marriage during ramadan ...

 

there is no religious reservation in getting married during the month of Ramadan or in any other month. Those who say that it is not allowed to get married during the blessed month of Ramadan have no evidence from either the Qur'an or the Sunnah to support their baseless claim. With this in mind, some Muslim scholars do state that if one fears that he will not be able to control himself from approaching his wife during the daytime in Ramadan (if he marries during this blessed month), then it is advisable for such a person to delay his marriage until after Ramadan and to spend the Ramadan time in `ibadah(worship).

[TLK24]

wahaha. nasihat dari yg lebih pengalaman eh?

sesungguhny hamba belum ada pengalaman dlm hal ehwal rumah & tangga http://www.2wheelers.sg/forums/images/smilies/nod.gif

 

 

ape nie.. tgh posa2 ckp psl MAIN. astaghfirullah. budak2 skg nie...

 

oh tu typo error la, girl......bukan main, tapi makan

 

insyaallah..never insult,shout and resspect the fairer sex...we as the 'stronger' sex should always maintain any cool.its better to keep quiet than to talk during an argument..but dun forget to make it up...but most imptly, do not insult.........

itu sahaja saya boleh input...

 

steady la, abg ai ai...

[zamani]

wah, abg zamani sampai consult JAIS (bukan nama sebenar Ahmad Jais)..... http://www.2wheelers.sg/forums/images/smilies/waitcall.gif

 

aku ingat nk tanya Ahmad Nisfu takut nanti salah Nafsu pulak.

 

 

abg Ai Ai, sebagai seorang yang pernah menjalani hidup sebagai seorang suami, sila nasihatkan pada kita-kita yang masih belum berumahtangga ni. terima kasih

 

tul tul tul!

 

kasi tip yang tip top punyer condition lah.

 

 

ape nie.. tgh posa2 ckp psl MAIN. astaghfirullah. budak2 skg nie...

 

 

main hide-and-seek lah.

 

sapa yang budak kat sini?

 

Abg Ai Ai da jadi suami org?

nvr knew.

 

jeng! jeng! jeng!

 

insyaallah..never insult,shout and resspect the fairer sex...we as the 'stronger' sex should always maintain any cool.its better to keep quiet than to talk during an argument..but dun forget to make it up...but most imptly, do not insult.........

itu sahaja saya boleh input...

 

akan datang lagi

 

Amin ...

[sibingai]

topic panas nampak... debate if marriage during ramadan ...

 

there is no religious reservation in getting married during the month of Ramadan or in any other month. Those who say that it is not allowed to get married during the blessed month of Ramadan have no evidence from either the Qur'an or the Sunnah to support their baseless claim. With this in mind, some Muslim scholars do state that if one fears that he will not be able to control himself from approaching his wife during the daytime in Ramadan (if he marries during this blessed month), then it is advisable for such a person to delay his marriage until after Ramadan and to spend the Ramadan time in `ibadah(worship).

good quote/findings...but then,if tat somebody is really alim, he knows wats wrong n wats right...bukan mcm aku nie,..tonggang terbalik....coner baring terlentang......

[DaBonz]

insyaallah..never insult,shout and resspect the fairer sex...we as the 'stronger' sex should always maintain any cool.its better to keep quiet than to talk during an argument..but dun forget to make it up...but most imptly, do not insult.........

itu sahaja saya boleh input...

 

akan datang lagi

 

easier said den done.. esp when u keep quiet but the fairer sex is the one insulting, shouting and disrespecting... makin kiter diam makin dia menjadi..

[zamani]

topic panas nampak... debate if marriage during ramadan ...

 

there is no religious reservation in getting married during the month of Ramadan or in any other month. Those who say that it is not allowed to get married during the blessed month of Ramadan have no evidence from either the Qur'an or the Sunnah to support their baseless claim. With this in mind, some Muslim scholars do state that if one fears that he will not be able to control himself from approaching his wife during the daytime in Ramadan (if he marries during this blessed month), then it is advisable for such a person to delay his marriage until after Ramadan and to spend the Ramadan time in `ibadah(worship).

 

 

a very diplomatic reply.

 

steady lah dabonz ... tu pasal anak dah 2.

[DaBonz]

good quote/findings...but then,if tat somebody is really alim, he knows wats wrong n wats right...bukan mcm aku nie,..tonggang terbalik....coner baring terlentang......

 

which is why yg mcm kiter should avoid getting married during ramadan

 

tapi kal nak jugak ape bley buat.. brani buat brani tanggung je..

[zamani]

good quote/findings...but then,if tat somebody is really alim, he knows wats wrong n wats right...bukan mcm aku nie,..tonggang terbalik....coner baring terlentang......

 

tu pasal banyak yang alim ... tapi tak semestinya warak.

 

easier said den done.. esp when u keep quiet but the fairer sex is the one insulting, shouting and disrespecting... makin kiter diam makin dia menjadi..

 

tu pasal guwe malas nak kawin, let alone have a relationship.

[TLK24]

there is no religious reservation in getting married during the month of Ramadan or in any other month. Those who say that it is not allowed to get married during the blessed month of Ramadan have no evidence from either the Qur'an or the Sunnah to support their baseless claim. With this in mind, some Muslim scholars do state that if one fears that he will not be able to control himself from approaching his wife during the daytime in Ramadan (if he marries during this blessed month), then it is advisable for such a person to delay his marriage until after Ramadan and to spend the Ramadan time in `ibadah(worship).

 

wah...more n more input from the experienced ones

[DaBonz]

 

a very diplomatic reply.

 

steady lah dabonz ... tu pasal anak dah 2.

 

nuthin to do wit havin kids.. tu lain topic yg hot!!

[sibingai]

a very wise advice!

i like tis.

 

but i want to edit something, coz the sentence mcm seems wrong gitu.

 

steady la, abg ai ai...

its frm experience tat learn in life

 

jeng! jeng! jeng!

there is nothing to hide

easier said den done.. esp when u keep quiet but the fairer sex is the one insulting, shouting and disrespecting... makin kiter diam makin dia menjadi..

 

still....we as guys(muslim)ketua keluarga...have to control the situation.in a way i believe what i meant here.

[girl_03]

easier said den done.. esp when u keep quiet but the fairer sex is the one insulting, shouting and disrespecting... makin kiter diam makin dia menjadi..

 

ehhh.. eh. jgn nk menghasut pulak bulan posa nie.

if we the fire, cant u be the water? hmph *roll eyes*

 

 

good quote/findings...but then,if tat somebody is really alim, he knows wats wrong n wats right...bukan mcm aku nie,..tonggang terbalik....coner baring terlentang......

 

aiya. wats so surprising. Wanita diciptakan ngan dgn 99 mcm nafsu, and lelaki obviously with only THAT ONE nafsu.

 

 

sapa yang budak kat sini?

 

enta eh?

sape budak kat sini angkat tangan?

 

 

oh tu typo error la, girl......bukan main, tapi makan

 

 

eleh, nie agi satu. peng story! hmph.

[sibingai]

tu pasal guwe malas nak kawin, let alone have a relationship.

 

berumah tangga adalah salah satu dari pada ibadah.....

[girl_03]

still....we as guys(muslim)ketua keluarga...have to control the situation.in a way i believe what i meant here.

 

i agree with tis!

[zamani]

ehhh.. eh. jgn nk menghasut pulak bulan posa nie.

if we the fire, cant u be the water? hmph *roll eyes*

 

asyik jadi water pon bole lemas tenggelam beb.

 

berumah tangga adalah salah satu dari pada ibadah.....

 

memang betul. tapi kena carik tangga wrought iron biar kekal abadi istana yang dibina, kalau roboh habis citer.

[DaBonz]

tu pasal banyak yang alim ... tapi tak semestinya warak.

 

ntah lar.. only God knows wats in a person's heart..I can only make an opinion

 

tu pasal guwe malas nak kawin, let alone have a relationship.

hehe... sumtimes u won't realise it until ur in it.. tak tau pak pak bing bing!!

 

wah...more n more input from the experienced ones

 

takler.. jus my dua sen worth..

[TLK24]

aku ingat nk tanya Ahmad Nisfu takut nanti salah Nafsu pulak

 

salahkan nafsu nampak! salahkan nafsu nampak!

 

easier said den done.. esp when u keep quiet but the fairer sex is the one insulting, shouting and disrespecting...makin kiter diam makin dia menjadi..

 

lumrah manusia....kasi betis nak peha

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

.... tapi bila dikasi peha, dia nak ITU plak

 

tu pasal guwe malas nak kawin, let alone have a relationship.

 

utk abg zee, a relationship memang tak cukup.....kita pun tahu abg zee ada dua skandal skrg

[zamani]

hehe... sumtimes u won't realise it until ur in it.. tak tau pak pak bing bing!!

 

kalau ade 1 month trial period kan bez, jika tidak, money back guaranteed.

 

utk abg zee, a relationship memang tak cukup.....kita pun tahu abg zee ada dua skandal skrg

 

skandal dgn motor lagi chantek ar, at least dia jaga aku, kasi aku tido sampai ke thailang!

[sibingai]

 

aiya. wats so surprising. Wanita diciptakan ngan dgn 99 mcm nafsu, and lelaki obviously with only THAT ONE nafsu.

 

i agree.........

[DaBonz]

still....we as guys(muslim)ketua keluarga...have to control the situation.in a way i believe what i meant here.

 

i believe it too but dis'll only work if the wife believe's it too.. n it goes back to as the head u need to educate the wife etc..etc.. all true but not always possible..

 

ni topic kalo kat kedai kopi baik ni.. from buke to sahur!

 

ehhh.. eh. jgn nk menghasut pulak bulan posa nie.

if we the fire, cant u be the water? hmph *roll eyes*

 

but if u the one start the fire camne nak peng jadi air lak?

[sibingai]

memang betul. tapi kena carik tangga wrought iron biar kekal abadi istana yang dibina, kalau roboh habis citer.

 

satu penceraian/kehilangan pasangan bukanlah bermaksud full stop.ia cuma mematangkan fikiran kami untuk lebih gigih berusaha..

 

well,sape takmo berkekalan...

[TLK24]

still....we as guys (muslim) ketua keluarga...have to control the situation.in a way i believe what i meant here.

 

tanggungjawab suami utk memberi contoh terbaik utk keluarga....bak kata omputih, lead by example

 

jadi....kalau sang suami da tak betul, sang isteri ada hak utk membetulkan kesilapan sang suami

 

ehhh.. eh. jgn nk menghasut pulak bulan posa nie.

if we the fire, cant u be the water? hmph *roll eyes*

 

we sometimes add soap to the water......jeng jeng jeng

 

enta eh?

sape budak kat sini angkat tangan?

 

saya! saya!

 

eleh, nie agi satu. peng story! hmph.

 

mana ada peng.....cuma nak keng aje ni...japz lagi ada meeting-cum-conference call

 

hehe... sumtimes u won't realise it until ur in it.. tak tau pak pak bing bing!!

 

yipeee....makan nasi minyak!!

[sibingai]

i believe it too but dis'll only work if the wife believe's it too.. n it goes back to as the head u need to educate the wife etc..etc.. all true but not always possible..

 

but if u the one start the fire camne nak peng jadi air lak?

 

i agree w ya.... itu pasal lah...aku nie kekadang terbalik jugak...i envy some pple like how they can lead the family...i salute them...

 

sometimes,kita manusia tak lari dari kesilapan,...well all i can say is tat,understanding between the couple shld be very very good..and also tolerance is important

[DaBonz]

.... tapi bila dikasi peha, dia nak ITU plak

 

kiter kan suker progression!

 

kalau ade 1 month trial period kan bez, jika tidak, money back guaranteed.

 

lagi baik kalo marriage ade KPI and EBIDTA...

 

err..come to think of it ekceli ade eh?

[DaBonz]

...well all i can say is tat,understanding between the couple shld be very very good..and also tolerance is important

 

ouh ni dua top 5 rules! Communication is key!

 

tapi kdng2 mls nak bobal.. da balik da penat nak mandi, mkn n zzzzzz