be honest, if your partner run with someone else and........

[paiseh]

your gf or bf has external affairs without you knowing. one day, you found out but can feel that he/she has genuinely repented... will u be able to put behind the past and start anew with her/him?

 

external affairs meaning he/she already had sex with another person..

 

for me, i can never accept this....

[xXxRatedxXx]

your gf or bf has external affairs without you knowing. one day, you found out but can feel that he/she has genuinely repented... will u be able to put behind the past and start anew with her/him?

 

external affairs meaning he/she already had sex with another person..

 

for me, i can never accept this....

 

Yeah if he/she did it once? The second time is just going to be easier for him/her.

 

****ing around while single is one thing..... but ****ing around while attached is a big no no.

 

That being said... if the fellow is used to ****ing around anyways... chances are he/she will do it again and again.

[paiseh]

i recently knew a guy fren who accepted his gf back after knowing she had an affair with another person.... they are now very happy and treasure their relationship even more...

[shahrul_azmil3]

Honestly, a big no for me.

 

Even when we have kids ill still leave her.

 

In malay, "ku akan jatoh kan cerai talak tiga."

 

Roarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Edited August 17, 2011 by MiCmAsTa

[xXxRatedxXx]

Honestly, a big no for me.

 

Even when we have kids ill still leave her.

 

In malay, "ku akan jatoh kan cerai talak tiga."

 

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Translation for our chinese friends in SBF, "You will fall and divorce three" Cos in muslim culture to divorce someone u have to say " i divorce you" three times and the deed is done.

Edited August 17, 2011 by MiCmAsTa

[bunny_hui]

Translation for our chinese friends in SBF, "You will fall and divorce three" Cos in muslim culture to divorce someone u have to say " i divorce you" three times and the deed is done.

 

Just say three times " i divorce you" the deed is done so simple !!!

[shahrul_azmil3]

Divorce is easy lar. Just say divorce then divorce already lar. But if i said it three time, i cannot go back to her. Ever. Cant be married again.

 

Of coz usually for men will lose out as our money n assect has do be given out accordingly.

 

Roarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Edited August 17, 2011 by MiCmAsTa

[xXxRatedxXx]

Divorce is easy lar. Just say divorce then divorce already lar. But if i said it three time, i cannot go back to her. Ever. Cant be married again.

 

Of coz usually for men will lose out as our money n assect has do be given out accordingly.

 

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Yeah in singapore especially.... the women's charter is ****ing strong... so better make your choice wisely before you tie the knot.

[ronaldinho]

Im okay if my beloved is playing with someone else because my mother taught me to share my used toys with the less fortunate

[shahrul_azmil3]

Oh please, i am less fortunate. Could u share ur "toy" with me?

 

But my toy is my toy only. My mother taught me that.

Im okay if my beloved is playing with someone else because my mother taught me to share my used toys with the less fortunate

 

 

 

Roarrrrrrrrrrr

[xXxRatedxXx]

Oh please, i am less fortunate. Could u share ur "toy" with me?

 

But my toy is my toy only. My mother taught me that.

 

 

 

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[Jehuty]

your gf or bf has external affairs without you knowing. one day, you found out but can feel that he/she has genuinely repented... will u be able to put behind the past and start anew with her/him?

 

external affairs meaning he/she already had sex with another person..

 

for me, i can never accept this....

 

Feel is one thing, human psychology is another, maybe give chance but keep an eye, if can do once, can do it many2 times.

 

Accept her apology and go F another woman behind her back until she finds out, see how she feels hahahah

[xXxRatedxXx]

Feel is one thing, human psychology is another, maybe give chance but keep an eye, if can do once, can do it many2 times.

 

Accept her apology and go F another woman behind her back until she finds out, see how she feels hahahah

 

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[crazydj]

In malay, "ku akan jatoh kan cerai talak tiga."

 

Roarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

This i also cannot accept. I will drop her like its hot as well.

 

ROAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!

[Fried Rice]

nah i can't accept. once bitten twice shy. and the likelihood of it happening again is very high.

 

i recently knew a guy fren who accepted his gf back after knowing she had an affair with another person.... they are now very happy and treasure their relationship even more...

 

bad idea for your friend to do so. at the moment they might be happy, but in the long term, i doubt so. and this is going to be a 'scar' that is going to remain in this r/s forever. especially when they quarrel in the future, this issue will surely be brought up.

[shahrul_azmil3]

nah i can't accept. once bitten twice shy. and the likelihood of it happening again is very high.

 

 

 

bad idea for your friend to do so. at the moment they might be happy, but in the long term, i doubt so. and this is going to be a 'scar' that is going to remain in this r/s forever. especially when they quarrel in the future, this issue will surely be brought up.

 

 

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[MR BIKER]

If she is repented, maybe we can make a truce with spouse. since you have done it, be truthful how many times ??? than tell her we go and look for one and then do the same time. but make sure you dont fall in love madly to the other person. hahahahahha

[shahrul_azmil3]

Wah this one agi best.

 

Upzzzzz for u

If she is repented, maybe we can make a truce with spouse. since you have done it, be truthful how many times ??? than tell her we go and look for one and then do the same time. but make sure you dont fall in love madly to the other person. hahahahahha

 

 

 

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[GuiNNeSS]

Males have lessor tolerance for infidelity of their partners. And Lessor inclination to look at themselves as to why their partners strayed.

 

Females are conditioned to accept infidelity of their partners. Though most females has lessor capacity to deal with handling the emo part.

[MR BIKER]

males have lessor tolerance for infidelity of their partners. And lessor inclination to look at themselves as to why their partners strayed.

 

Females are conditioned to accept infidelity of their partners. Though most females has lessor capacity to deal with handling the emo part.

 

wah so zen huh

[GuiNNeSS]

wah so zen huh

 

"Ooooommmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhh"

 

Actually, I find that men are pretty shallow creatures. They can say they cannot accept. But when eventually, they clear their brains to think thru the angst and so on or when they encounters worst off scenerios and realised their mistakes, they will soften down to realise that their stand against such behaviours has ruin them of a long lasting partner.

 

No doubt, that sg, functions with legalities, that having sexual intercourse with another partner is infidelity absolute and grounds of divorce. But when all thos angers/emotions are removed, and guilt sets in. You will tend to see things differently. Its only matter of time till one realised it.

[Lexanez]

Is forgiveness truly hard to give? Is the willingness to let bygones be bygones too tough to happen? Must revenge have a part to play in a relationship?

 

I don't understand. Love as an emotion is fascinating, giving strength through another, caring like none ever had before and many other feelings that you never though had will surface out. Loving a person wholeheartedly doesn't means showering her/him with gifts, the many kisses and hugs that accompanied with "I love you" without truly knowing the meaning of it, the blurred line between sexual intercourse and love-making, the many good memories that happened before.

 

You are loving his/her character, that charming personality that threw you off-balance, that pair of beautiful eyes which seems to seek nothing but yours and convey messages that words will never bring about, that subtle actions which he/she displays for none, save for yourself to see, the smile that seems to made your heart skip a beat and many other things. Every minuscule detail, every thing about him/her just screams "She/he is the one!". No, it has never been about the actions done, past they had, good or bad memories you shared. It is about what is going to happen in the future, the trust, the care, the concern and everything that person is going to show to you.

 

No, it does not only means the good things but also equally bad things that might happen throughout the whole relationship. No relationship is whole without trials and tribulations. Love means that in these trying times, you and I, will make it work for us again, through thick or thin. It's no long you or me but it is us now.

 

Trust. Is a difficult thing to give. Especially from a person who is hurting deep inside, even more for ladies. That emotional barrier that is in between assumptions to complete acceptance is only a fine line but could wreck havoc on any budding relationships. Misgivings and suspicions will only prove to cause friction and eventually harming the relationship in a long run. Earn it, not expect it and it must be reciprocal. Same goes for respect.

 

Fidelity is a concern that every men and women have. What if my partner were to stray? why would they do that? I would't want him/her to be dirty! I will not accept him/her again! He/she doesn't love me anymore? Am I not good enough for him? Is he/she no longer in love with me?

 

All these questions are one-sided. There is no "us" in it. Communications prevents such things from happening. Even if a mistake have been done, it is not up to "purer" one to decide what to do, again it is all about "us". A mistake done to hurt both sides deeply in love, has always been the fault of both. A graver mistake would highlight the cracks and fissures in a relationship and only both of you together, can mend them.

 

Love-making with your loved one has always been a physical extension of love and not the other way round. The culmination of trust, love, care and respect to allows for this to happen, especially for a virgin lady. Without these, it'll just be sexual intercourse. The satisfaction of own's needs rather than seeking to pleasure the other.

 

Having many boyfriends/girlfriends does not means that you're experienced. It just means that you'll never learn from mistakes. Granted that personalities make a person, subtle changes will occur when love is experienced. Little things will change to reflect your partner's influences on you. Personally, I know of a loving couple, both of whom married their 1st love. Remains deeply in love til this day, after 60 over years. Even though the man died young, the lady still remains faithful to him and loving him deep inside her.

 

As a male, I've once strayed and my partner was willing to forgive me even though my actions was undeniable, a real saint she is.However we parted ways amicably when our goals proved to be totally different. It is foolish to think that the pastures on the other side is greener, that wanting never sated! It is a great privilege that he/she is willing to be with you, not because you are attractive or whatsoever, it is because he/she is willing to accept you into his/her life.

 

Having this in mind, I explained everything and left nothing out to my current love in my life. It was not good, telling every dirty little thing that happened before, it was even worse looking at her expression turning darkly as I told my life story. My heart was in my mouth and I was prepared to let it go when she grab hold of my hands, looked into my eyes and said softly "Now you're a better man". She even mentioned that if this were to happen again, know that she is prepared to forgive me. Of course, she does not hope that it will come to that.

 

It is not that she is a person of tough mentality or a saint. She's just human and a lady that is but because she gave everything to me and I am part of her life. Now, she has my heart. Every other ladies out there, in my opinion will never be as good as her. No offence intended.

Edited August 19, 2011 by Lexanez

[MR BIKER]

"ooooommmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhh"

 

actually, i find that men are pretty shallow creatures. They can say they cannot accept. But when eventually, they clear their brains to think thru the angst and so on or when they encounters worst off scenerios and realised their mistakes, they will soften down to realise that their stand against such behaviours has ruin them of a long lasting partner.

 

No doubt, that sg, functions with legalities, that having sexual intercourse with another partner is infidelity absolute and grounds of divorce. But when all thos angers/emotions are removed, and guilt sets in. You will tend to see things differently. Its only matter of time till one realised it.

 

meow, meow ( I CONCUR)

Edited August 19, 2011 by MR BIKER
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[crazydj]

"Ooooommmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhh"

 

Actually, I find that men are pretty shallow creatures. They can say they cannot accept. But when eventually, they clear their brains to think thru the angst and so on or when they encounters worst off scenerios and realised their mistakes, they will soften down to realise that their stand against such behaviours has ruin them of a long lasting partner.

 

No doubt, that sg, functions with legalities, that having sexual intercourse with another partner is infidelity absolute and grounds of divorce. But when all thos angers/emotions are removed, and guilt sets in. You will tend to see things differently. Its only matter of time till one realised it.

 

Being shallow is good. Many times ah, girls think too much. Way too much. If never answer phone call, she will come up with 101 conspiracy theories on why i never pick up because she just cannot accept the fact that i just never take my cellphone when i leave the house.

[GuiNNeSS]

Being shallow is good. Many times ah, girls think too much. Way too much. If never answer phone call, she will come up with 101 conspiracy theories on why i never pick up because she just cannot accept the fact that i just never take my cellphone when i leave the house.

 

That, is something I really dont like too. I think such females are way too nonsensical.

 

And its worse, when they knows that their b/f is in a meeting/school. Yet sms like nobody's business and demand that the guy who didnt answer them or take up the call, to apologise to them, for their (Female) own imagination and conspiracy theories.

 

Face it lah. That gal is just too stupid & demanding for the wrong kinda attention lah. I usually find this kinda girls, pretty and petty. And most times, I really want to slap them.