"Worst" Bf/Gf you ever have? (and why?)

[devoted]

hmmm~

 

was chit-chatting wif my group of collegues,

and this topic was brought out... and oh boy, we reli enjoy it! lolx

 

hahaha~ hope it will do the same here at Chatterbox ya~

 

lai ah~ lai ah~ come share share

 

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--> "Worst" Bf/Gf you ever had?

( this particular word "worst" will reli reli depends on your interpretations liaoz, bcos, some may feel it is not justify at all)

--> and what incidents determine it?

--> (in a more postitive point of view) how your life was changed better....

 

 

** Just Added a Poll

 

 

heehee.... nah nah.... juz sharing hor, state facts please, no scolding of $#@!&! hor.....

do have some grace in your lips, in what you are sharing hor~

 

^_^

 

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Edited on 4th June 2007 to add:

 

---> pls pls pls, don't get so personal/sensitve, neither get offended ya.... (:

me reli did not start a thread to scold or put down people.

it started with a very interesting topic or discussion. (:

me and my friends had good laugh, cos, we saw 'ourselves' appearing on above options sometimes *blehz*

---> btw, the good for nothing options means:

beat girls, used girls or his good friends spitefully to earn $$$, ungrateful (parents dote so much and give in so much, yet dare to shout and insult them back), demand $$$ from parents (not say nicely or ask, but demand) & etc.....

[AhGui]

Dun have lehz.........

 

Coz all of them were so nice, had only like 3 - 4 ex...

[FuLL of SoRRoW]

all previous ones terrible sia..

dunno which one is the worst.

 

let me just recall a few incidents

 

with "AF"

he is the biggest loser of all..

everything i fork out money...

 

with "FI"

the day we broke up was the worst..

i was sick..

i rushed to meet him

and along the way,

it rained heavily..

meaning i was waiting for him in the pouring rain..

i was wet soaked

when i met him..

he was like giving me the face like.. watever..

sitting one place..

we never talked

then i got so sick and started vommitting..

he ignored..

people were watching..

an uncle wanted to come over..

i gave him the signal saying everything was ok

as i was vommiting..

he was busy smsing other girls..

how i know..

he fell asleep for 10 mins then i took the phone and saw everyting..

that was when its meant to say gdbye

 

then there was "ZY"

he just left without a word..

left overseas for 2 yrs..

along the way he msg me..

i couldnt careless..

he came back to singapore..

contacted me back..

but i just had to dish him away

 

alamak..

lots of other incidents..

hehe

 

all these things...

it made me realised that i cant trust people..

i cant let my guard down..

its a dog eat dog world

[devoted]

Dun have lehz.........

 

Coz all of them were so nice, had only like 3 - 4 ex...

 

lolx~

 

AhGui, zun bo?

[devoted]

all previous ones terrible sia..

dunno which one is the worst.

 

let me just recall a few incidents

 

with "AF"

he is the biggest loser of all..

everything i fork out money...

 

 

with "FI"

the day we broke up was the worst..

i was sick..

i rushed to meet him

and along the way,

it rained heavily..

meaning i was waiting for him in the pouring rain..

i was wet soaked

when i met him..

he was like giving me the face like.. watever..

sitting one place..

we never talked

then i got so sick and started vommitting..

he ignored..

people were watching..

an uncle wanted to come over..

i gave him the signal saying everything was ok

as i was vommiting..

he was busy smsing other girls..

how i know..

he fell asleep for 10 mins then i took the phone and saw everyting..

that was when its meant to say gdbye

 

then there was "ZY"

he just left without a word..

left overseas for 2 yrs..

along the way he msg me..

i couldnt careless..

he came back to singapore..

contacted me back..

but i just had to dish him away

 

alamak..

lots of other incidents..

hehe

 

all these things...

it made me realised that i cant trust people..

i cant let my guard down..

its a dog eat dog world

 

:giddy: poor thing~~~ sigh.....

[darky]

had one whos always telling me her ah lian stories and her ah beng friends. that was when im damn interested in meeting her friends. and i derived a new theory: when good-for-nothing mingles, they became best for nothing. the best thing is, all her friends are like kids.

 

and this isnt the worst one i had...

[davidtoh83]

relationship got no rite or wrong...is whether can u accept what he/she is...why get together when u only like the "honeymoon period" or jus because of "the look"????relationship bround to have up and down,this world still got alot of decent guy/gal around,jus that u haven't met yet.

[darky]

oh.. and omg, i fall into one category!

 

 

 

 

The EXCUSE KING!

[StormBlde]

The worst thing that could ever happen is she push ur bike onto the ground flat when you both quarelling...

 

what will your reaction be?

[devoted]

oh.. and omg, i fall into one category!

 

 

 

 

The EXCUSE KING!

 

aiyah, as long as, yours is not:

"ALL OF THE ABOVE" can liaoz~

 

lolx

[devoted]

relationship got no rite or wrong...is whether can u accept what he/she is...why get together when u only like the "honeymoon period" or jus because of "the look"????relationship bround to have up and down,this world still got alot of decent guy/gal around,jus that u haven't met yet.

 

excellent!

i agree with you

 

yup, normally is after honeymoon period, or know him/her better liaoz, than will start to 'hiam' here and there le~

[Metalfyre]

i oso fall into one category wor...

 

 

 

 

cannot make decisions...wahahhaa

[Aie]

I can't contribute much cos officially, I only had 2 GFs in my life. The first one, broke up with me after a month cos I was too boring for her. Can talk non-stop on the phone but when we met up, I was very quiet. Dunno why when face to face, I was very paiseh. My 2nd GF, I'm married to her liao...

[FuLL of SoRRoW]

The worst thing that could ever happen is she push ur bike onto the ground flat when you both quarelling...

 

what will your reaction be?

 

 

 

 

teruk man...

suay ley..

 

nxt time want to quarrel with her..

make sure ur bike not there

[Lion]

After viewing all the options above...

 

 

 

 

Hey, I realised I ain't such a bas*ard after all!

 

One of my bad experience with a gf was that she was super possesive... Dude, she calls me 20 times from 12pm to 6pm while I was at the library with my male buddy revising our school work. Man, she even called him up and told him not to always ask me out!

[guanjie]

all previous ones terrible sia..

dunno which one is the worst.

 

let me just recall a few incidents

 

with "AF"

he is the biggest loser of all..

everything i fork out money...

 

with "FI"

the day we broke up was the worst..

i was sick..

i rushed to meet him

and along the way,

..................................

 

 

was damn sad.. one already sad, somemore so many...

[ko4la]

to think so many bad experience...

'm may be joining e 'worst' - so far dun haf a proper GF...

[guanjie]

seriously i don't think there should be any WORST bf or gf cos what might not work for u might work for others.. for eg..

 

female chauvinist goes well with indecisive guy..

nerdy girls go with boring guy...

open minded guy goes with flirty girl..

good for nothings love each other..

 

each relationship is special so not very fair to rate any as worst

[FuLL of SoRRoW]

seriously i don't think there should be any WORST bf or gf cos what might not work for u might work for others.. for eg..

 

female chauvinist goes well with indecisive guy..

nerdy girls go with boring guy...

open minded guy goes with flirty girl..

good for nothings love each other..

 

each relationship is special so not very fair to rate any as worst

 

dont quite really agree with that ah..

cause..

usually the jerks get the nice ones...

and etc..

i dont quite regret meeting all those people..

cause from them i learn alot..

that is why when u r with "the one"

u should treasure him/her alot and not take things for granted

u just have to meet lots of wrong people before u get the right one..

[FuLL of SoRRoW]

After viewing all the options above...

 

 

 

 

Hey, I realised I ain't such a bas*ard after all!

 

One of my bad experience with a gf was that she was super possesive... Dude, she calls me 20 times from 12pm to 6pm while I was at the library with my male buddy revising our school work. Man, she even called him up and told him not to always ask me out!

 

maybe not possesive..

just put yourself in her shoes..

maybe u never answer her calls..

that is why she keeps calling..

she misses ur voice..

maybe u never give her enuf attention and etc..

u never meet her for long2 time..

hehehe..

[EJ]

my ex gf was a foreigner, 2 yrs older than i am. we were together for 2 years plus. alot of reasons why we broke up:

 

1. she's a catholic, i'm a muslim (she wants me to become a murtad)

2. her dad hates me (i dunno why maybe because of my religion)

3. she went back to her country for her grandma's funeral, got back with her 6-year-old son's father, and decided its best for her son that we broke up.

 

3 weeks after we broke up, she called me, sobbing saying that she misses me, and her bf back in her country has already ran away with another girl. but i was already enjoying singlehood so, i rejected her appeals (as she still wants me to be a catholic, no offense) and continued my singlehood, carefree ways till i met my current gf in january 2002, which we're planning to tie the knot in feb 2008.

 

so worst gf ever? i think not. cos despite our different religion, her dad hating me she treated me good throughout the 2 years. only when she got back together with the father of her son makes me mad. n even madder when the guy ran away with another girl n she comes crawling back to me.

[LouisB]

can vote more then two or three....

[DeusExMachina]

all previous ones terrible sia..

dunno which one is the worst.

 

let me just recall a few incidents

 

with "AF"

he is the biggest loser of all..

everything i fork out money...

 

with "FI"

the day we broke up was the worst..

i was sick..

i rushed to meet him

and along the way,

it rained heavily..

meaning i was waiting for him in the pouring rain..

i was wet soaked

when i met him..

he was like giving me the face like.. watever..

sitting one place..

we never talked

then i got so sick and started vommitting..

he ignored..

people were watching..

an uncle wanted to come over..

i gave him the signal saying everything was ok

as i was vommiting..

he was busy smsing other girls..

how i know..

he fell asleep for 10 mins then i took the phone and saw everyting..

that was when its meant to say gdbye

 

then there was "ZY"

he just left without a word..

left overseas for 2 yrs..

along the way he msg me..

i couldnt careless..

he came back to singapore..

contacted me back..

but i just had to dish him away

 

alamak..

lots of other incidents..

hehe

 

all these things...

it made me realised that i cant trust people..

i cant let my guard down..

its a dog eat dog world

 

 

 

What a traumatic life.....

 

Guess I know where you got the inspiration for your nick...

[Nitez86]

I agree that relationship have no right or wrong. I suppose alot of peoples get into relationship without really understanding him/her deep enough. During the honey noon period i believe everything will be quite smooth, but once it's over then problems start coming out. I supppose everyone is always going for the better so thats why break up seem so common nowadays.. Hmmm... i always believe one thing is that it's better to be single if you aren't the best. Because it's the same theory to me, if you can use the same amount of money to buy the same thing better from else where, won't you grab it.!!!

[guanjie]

I agree that relationship have no right or wrong. I suppose alot of peoples get into relationship without really understanding him/her deep enough. During the honey noon period i believe everything will be quite smooth, but once it's over then problems start coming out. I supppose everyone is always going for the better so thats why break up seem so common nowadays.. Hmmm... i always believe one thing is that it's better to be single if you aren't the best. Because it's the same theory to me, if you can use the same amount of money to buy the same thing better from else where, won't you grab it.!!!

 

kudos to this statement.

alot of teenagers these days are too well fed, so much so that they take everything for granted. thinking that someone better is always out there waiting for them.

after the honeymoon period, its the period of coming to accept each other's shortcomings. thats if the couple still wants each other.