be honest, if your partner run with someone else and........

[B20]

There are some males that can accept. Maybe because its harder to swallow the fact that they cannot make their wives pregnant.

 

Maybe among the boys, its considered manly to be able to have sex and not have children. To some men, they cannot accept that they got no children to show their family members.

 

hey kitty, i think u just got mixed up... its totally 2 different things... .

 

 

a couple is married, tried to have baby for years and failed maybe due to health problem... thats understand and this couple may decide to adopt a child or so... its perfectly fine...

 

but having other man's child by cheating or left by ex bf is totally a different issue... .. ... .. not even if the present guy is impotence...

[ChaoPuzzy1968]

hey kitty, i think u just got mixed up... its totally 2 different things... .

 

 

a couple is married, tried to have baby for years and failed maybe due to health problem... thats understand and this couple may decide to adopt a child or so... its perfectly fine...

 

but having other man's child by cheating or left by ex bf is totally a different issue... .. ... .. not even if the present guy is impotence...

 

it does happen

[paiseh]

Yes it really does happen. But as per topic, can u really take it? I mean, wouldn't there be a scar that haunts both the guy n girl?

 

ESP when they quarrel, surely this thing will pop out one way or another, sooner or later. No way to avoid!

[shahrul_azmil3]

Wah,

 

Like

 

Again

 

If it were me, comfirm come out. Im juz being honest.

Yes it really does happen. But as per topic, can u really take it? I mean, wouldn't there be a scar that haunts both the guy n girl?

 

ESP when they quarrel, surely this thing will pop out one way or another, sooner or later. No way to avoid!

 

 

 

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[ChaoPuzzy1968]

Yes it really does happen. But as per topic, can u really take it? I mean, wouldn't there be a scar that haunts both the guy n girl?

 

ESP when they quarrel, surely this thing will pop out one way or another, sooner or later. No way to avoid!

 

yup.....u are rite . and back to topic is yes

[fufu]

huh?! pls dont made wild guess and do assumption... thats abit silly...

 

what u mentioned above can be happen to any kids, be it your offspring anot...

 

simple thing is that i dont wanna bring up other man's kids... and this doesnt mean i think highly of myself.. and if because of that i become inmature to u, i let u have it ur way...

 

ur hero can be a man that bring up kids that is not their own... thats your perceptions and its perfectly fine with me... same for myself, i have my perception and principle of my own which i dont think i need ur endosement to that...

 

relax bro theres a reason for her to be angry. maybe she experience bad example if not she wont be single still.

 

n well i guess most men agree on that part of not wanting to raise any children not of their own.. worst still.. those childrens are ur wife with another man.. seriously.. i cant agree to that too. everyday face the kids all i can remember is another man farking my wife.... i will never want that to happen..

[kelena]

i cant agree to that too. everyday face the kids all i can remember is another man farking my wife...

 

so true..and how long can you hold your patience?

[GuiNNeSS]

Of all people go get attached to some old fart which I doubt its for the money since you say have trouble with finance. I really don't get it. Probably never will.

 

I didnt understand too. And I met that guy, spoke to him and sort of found out, he is just a shitty, even when he tries to act macho and 'responsible' to me.

 

And I saw later, his pictures of their earlier days, and he just look like a typical all show and no action ah beng to me. I really didnt see how such a ugly short guy was able to hook her in the first place. And he totally has no money. For when she wanted to go for the abortion. She tells me, he went home to beg his mother for money! Thats another reason for why the decision to abort was dragged till she almost legally not allowed to abort.

[GuiNNeSS]

relax bro theres a reason for her to be angry. maybe she experience bad example if not she wont be single still...

 

Let me confirm plus chop for you.

 

I am single, because my ex hub farked a lot of other females and got other females pregnant. And oh. He is all macho and stuff, except he tends to run into debt keeping up with his image of 'macho', 'generous' & 'rich'. Thats another reason why females are all desperately trying to have his children, even though he was married.

 

2nd is. I keep attracting dramas. So I watched lots of real life dramas and plenty of real life stories to relate. But quite heartening, is also I see a lot of really nice people, that balanced out the drama people. (But truth be said lah. Nice people, nice sweet stories will never be more interesting to read then those with these principled talk first, put foot in mouth later kinda drama people stories lah.)

 

3rd, me no children though I am biological mother of at least half a dozen kids, with different fathers. (For those who dont dwell into the sperm & egg donars thingy........happy assuming!)

 

Anyway, I always believe. When things really happen, then make your decision. Dont say too fast, just because you are young and 'invincible feeling now'.

[GuiNNeSS]

but having other man's child by cheating or left by ex bf is totally a different issue... .. ... .. not even if the present guy is impotence...

 

What ChaoPuzzy1968 said.

 

It happened. Maybe not what you believed among the people you knew.

[Jehuty]

I didnt understand too. And I met that guy, spoke to him and sort of found out, he is just a shitty, even when he tries to act macho and 'responsible' to me.

 

And I saw later, his pictures of their earlier days, and he just look like a typical all show and no action ah beng to me. I really didnt see how such a ugly short guy was able to hook her in the first place. And he totally has no money. For when she wanted to go for the abortion. She tells me, he went home to beg his mother for money! Thats another reason for why the decision to abort was dragged till she almost legally not allowed to abort.

 

That's just pathetic, I'd never ask for money from parents unless I intend to pay back fast or have no choice, which I will pay them back anyway. As perplexing as stories involving being in a relationship for 7-8 years, breaking up then seeing other people, getting married in a year or so of knowing each other.

[xXxRatedxXx]

I like to ask you guys and girls... what's your policy on looking at other girls/guys be it you be single, attached, or married?

[paiseh]

Single can see openly. Attached muz see discreetly

[ChaoPuzzy1968]

I like to ask you guys and girls... what's your policy on looking at other girls/guys be it you be single, attached, or married?

 

single see alone , attach see together

[Jehuty]

Single, do whatever you want. Attached, do whatever you want, just don't get caught. Married, if this is a question, why are you even married?

[xXxRatedxXx]

Single, do whatever you want. Attached, do whatever you want, just don't get caught. Married, if this is a question, why are you even married?

 

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Excellent... i can justify my Beoing then!

[ChaoPuzzy1968]

Married died together n if not can claim insurance

 

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[paperger85]

I like to ask you guys and girls... what's your policy on looking at other girls/guys be it you be single, attached, or married?

 

ahhh....love this question. My soon to be ex husband's theory is can look, can flirt, can kiss and can hold hands but cannot ****.

[xXxRatedxXx]

ahhh....love this question. My soon to be ex husband's theory is can look, can flirt, can kiss and can hold hands but cannot ****.

 

Wtf, Ask him you like that with other guys can also or not?

[paperger85]

Wtf, Ask him you like that with other guys can also or not?

 

That's why he's now my soon to be ex husband. I met the first woman he cheated on me with and she says they are in a relationship and has held hands, hugged and kissed but he insisted they are only friends coz they didn't do the deed.

[crazydj]

That's why he's now my soon to be ex husband. I met the first woman he cheated on me with and she says they are in a relationship and has held hands, hugged and kissed but he insisted they are only friends coz they didn't do the deed.

 

Seriously? Haha.

 

I find that look, flirt, friendly touch is okay. But kiss and hold hands? Now that is already cheating, regardless of whether the deed has been done or not. Freaky.

[xXxRatedxXx]

That's why he's now my soon to be ex husband. I met the first woman he cheated on me with and she says they are in a relationship and has held hands, hugged and kissed but he insisted they are only friends coz they didn't do the deed.

 

:faint::faint::faint:

[theblackmamba]

wah how come u divorce ah

[paperger85]

wah how come u divorce ah

 

Wah Lao! So obvious still need to ask meh?

[crazydj]

Wah Lao! So obvious still need to ask meh?

 

Guys also like to gossip leh. Because we hear this kinda story also, but most of the time its from the guy side. Of course wanna hear from the girl side as well mah.

 

But whatever it is, like i tell my friends who break up or divorce, that they have to look on the bright side. Better it happened now than later. And of course as adults, i believe that you guys did whatever possible to solve your problems, and since there was no other logical solution, you guys had to separate.

 

Cheer up babe. For now, just get on with your life and think about your kid/s. They need you. *hugs*