be honest, if your partner run with someone else and........

[kelly_ng]

same here.. cannot accept this.

 

your gf or bf has external affairs without you knowing. one day, you found out but can feel that he/she has genuinely repented... will u be able to put behind the past and start anew with her/him?

 

external affairs meaning he/she already had sex with another person..

 

for me, i can never accept this....

[Unagi]

Will not forgive.

 

Personal experience. 3rd time and I kicked her out.

 

Those who say that "if they can do it once, they can do it again" is absolutely right.

 

Next one will not get 2 chances from me anymore.

[shahrul_azmil3]

Like this one too. Betol betol betol

Will not forgive.

 

Personal experience. 3rd time and I kicked her out.

 

Those who say that "if they can do it once, they can do it again" is absolutely right.

 

Next one will not get 2 chances from me anymore.

 

 

 

Sent from my GT-P1000

[chinhuahaw]

flirting here and there is okay,

but sleeping is out of question.. unless i cant give them what they need la den bo bian LOLS

[Aie]

Anyone OK with the idea of 'Don't get angry, get even'???

[speedaddict]

2 wrongs dont make a right.

[Aie]

2 wrongs dont make a right.

True but 'Tit for tat' cos 'One wrong turn deserves another'...

[theblackmamba]

just whack it

[Jehuty]

Will not forgive.

 

Personal experience. 3rd time and I kicked her out.

 

Those who say that "if they can do it once, they can do it again" is absolutely right.

 

Next one will not get 2 chances from me anymore.

 

3rd times the charm eh?

[Finrod]

I also cannot accept it.....Heart very fragile, once broken considered relationship out.

Btw, i also wun stoop to how low she go, means i wun get even. Its not in me.

[thrasher]

Happened to me 3 times with the same person. Finally she got engaged... N broke up. Karma bites back i guess. Move on in life. Angry definitely. But you're better off moving on doing something with your life than brooding over it.. Bottomline is i found someone who can really take care of me. Million times better

[PaLmEr]

same here.. cannot accept this.

 

bf or gf?

..........

[PaLmEr]

I like to ask you guys and girls... what's your policy on looking at other girls/guys be it you be single, attached, or married?

 

Single ok, attached, off limits, married, NO WAY

[Aie]

Single ok, attached, off limits, married, NO WAY

See no touch, OK mah. After all, males are voyeuristically inclined leh...

[GuiNNeSS]

I have the weirdest tolerance level.

 

My only condition to my ex spouse.

 

You can play, but please wipe your mouth. Do not let things blow up in my face.

 

On his working trip to Taiwan. I packed 12 packs condom for him into his luggage, and he was trying to tell me, he wont be using it.

 

I reply with 'Nevertheless, when it was a push or shove .....the typical men's excuse about how they are drunk and their friends will push girls into their rooms blah blah blah. I rather he uses those condoms, then bring back souvenirs that will harm me.'

 

Well, to top it off. The box of condoms didnt make it back to Sg. And I was affected by a STD when he got back. And further down the road, he 'blew' up in my face with a china girl issue.

[shahrul_azmil3]

Wah. . . . .

 

Glup . . . .

 

Erm . . . .

 

Speechless. . . . . . .

 

Sent from my GT-P1000

[paiseh]

what STD? some STD can be cured.

[GuiNNeSS]

The STD I leave it for later discussion.

 

That said. No matter how anyone said about having affairs. Human Beings habitually strays from their partners. So either live and let live, or have it torment you forever.

 

A really good saying: A good man, is always a dead man.

[Demon]

A really good saying: A good man, is always a dead man.

 

that's because you haven't met me

[B20]

that's because you haven't met me

 

isit because u have no significant difference with a dead man?

[S_R]

your gf or bf has external affairs without you knowing. one day, you found out but can feel that he/she has genuinely repented... will u be able to put behind the past and start anew with her/him?

 

external affairs meaning he/she already had sex with another person..

 

for me, i can never accept this....

 

i can never accept this as well

[kmax]

that's because you haven't met me

 

ask her out for Friday night meet up

[Demon]

ask her out for Friday night meet up

 

You don't even show up so how can I expect a lady to ?

[yongcai]

lol . for me i got a ex girl 2 and 1/2 year tgt . happy and quarrel normal lo . but 1 day found out she been out with this guy f***ing . only know for 5 days .

 

i think if we love someone we forgive her no matter what , so i did forgive her but she still choose to leave . 1 month later call me etc etc in the end we both decide to end this .

 

i think if she sincerely repent . i will give her 1 more chance even if she have sex with another guy . everyone make mistake .

[Unagi]

Just read this and wish to share with everyone here:

 

Infidelity study shows that there are gender differences in reaction to adultery.

 

scientists found that men tend to be more concerned about sexual infidelity (whether the partner had sex with another man) and women about emotional infidelity (whether the partner loved the other woman).

 

http://www.livescience.com/16058-infidelity-jealousy-cheaters-reality-tv.html

 

Of course this is a general tendency, does not apply strictly to every man/woman, will have exceptions.

 

Also, I'm not sure if they took culture into consideration.

 

 

 

 

 

Maybe this thread should have included a poll and have a yes/no answer for males and females. Hmmmm......